Why Are Dating Apps So Bad | How To Write The Best Online Dating Profile | eHarmony Review 2020

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Facts on paying for dating sites

Did he just say over 100 dates?????!!!. I haven’t even been on 3. Much less get attention from that many people. 💀

Yeah I attract fake profiles

Ryan, what one gets when paying is money going to Republicans/Qanon to fund overturning elections and insurgency. Since you're into psychology, how about reporting on the sick twisted founders and CEO's of these dating apps. Might lose dating apps about as many members as charging a buck a month.

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My issues is I live in a small town and there are no men here I’m interested in. I have to look out of town and most men don’t want anything long distance

uh oh you're not serious about dating if you don't pay us 50$ a month hurr durr

Ryan - create an account as a woman and see the horror you're in for. I'm not sure about telling women what worked for you as a man to attract a woman is going to hlep us.

Thank you so much you are the best

What tips have you got for a really good profile.

Can we talk about another dating app why are you going so deep into detail about one?

Paid promotion that sucks also like I said earlier it would have been a h*** of a lot more genuine if you were trying to find a single man using this app on your show not putting yourself as a dikoy and that in itself says something

Eharmony is $300 I am looking for a serious relationship but that is not affordable 😂

I was wondering about the ethics involved in setting up a mock profile for teaching purposes. This is a great experiment the have in a bubble but in the real world people on match are going to lose trust in the process if they knew potentially there are unattainable patrons on the site.

Hi Ryan, is this offer still good? It was a year ago??

I love your videos and think they are very helpful.

I tried e harmony a while back. Unfortunately, there was no one on the app within 100 miles of where I live. So I paid for something that was not able to serve me at all. It might work in a metropolitan city.

Can't believe so many messages.....been on 3 months, 2 messages???? I've smiled, commented, and liked 100 men.....nothing! Everything you suggested I've already done.

I wish Eharrmony would work in my area but it doesn’t work well in smaller communities

I tried harmony and it didn’t work

I’ve had quite a few men claim to not smoke but when we met up, they clearly did. How they think they could hide it, I do not know lol. I’ve tried eHarmony and my matches were horrid. I cancelled it after a couple of months.

Men do not look at profiles! If they like your looks they message you.

I appreciate you examining this topic 🎩 and hope you further dwelve into this topic. I personally connect with women in person while shopping 🛒 in addition to complementing my search 🔍 with online dating. From my experiences and speaking with other colleagues, the quality of women online are not up to par. I'm 51 years old and used to date women in their 40s/50s exclusively but many don't know what they want and are rediscovering themselves after missing out on their 20s. Plus, there is a high degree of emotional baggage to contend with. There is now more of a compelling reason to date younger women who are high value.

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I don't want to write the best online dating thing, I want to write the worst..or not the worst, but just something to limit my options. There's too many options and I have choice paralysis. I'm going to be single forever.

I tried Eharmony. It sucked. As bad as the free ones. And, when you're disabled and have no income, how do you pay for it?

Love you positivity and advice. You make hard & exhausted topics easy to understand with your personal examples. Just stopping by to say thank you!

I'm on POF 🤦‍♀️😭😭 I have 4 pics they nice and classy but men only focus on that they barely read. I don't have time to go out and look or how to socialize? 😭 I feel awful now you are so right. Just deleted my account

I tried on different dating sites and unfortunately most of the women were interested in 6'0" white caucasian men and I couldn't match their criteria.

I’m 49 and it’s not happening

Interesting what would be the strategy for online dating living in party cities like Miami and Las Vegas. U got really bad quality guys here where their willingness for something serious is super low just like determination for eharmony websites...

I hate dating apps I don’t attract the right guys but that’s the only way I can meet guys so it’s a bit annoying.

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thanks for this awesome information!

I really enjoy listening to you and I love your content!

Best video yet THANK YOU

You can pay for extra features on the free apps if you want. When I was new to online dating, I paid a monthly fee to see who liked me. It was useless, because I don't usually initiate conversations with men on dating apps. I can see where a guy might benefit from that.

Thanks , I wish I had watched your videos a few months ago , but hey it's never too late. :)

Ryan. I appreciate your help. But I'm not paying for any dating sites. It's crazy.

You are sooo funny you make me happy I swear, 😹😹😹😹

BAHAHAHAHA I seriously freakin love your voice overs and add ins as if you’re talking like a chick....so funny. I’ve have your channel on auto play awhile now lol

So much fake profile and scam on every dating site..

I tried this and got 1950 matches and over 20 messages in an hour. I was frustrated to learn I couldn’t respond to any of the messages! And, the price has gone up since this video. I would’ve tried a free trial but $45/month is steep!

It’s so frustrating when the guy looks handsome in the pictures but then in person he’s..... awful 😂😩

Ohmagerd... I had so much anxiety watching this! I need these videos more than I thought... 🥴😬

I think it depends how you set up your profile, yes, the way you talk to guys, the way you come across. OKCupid is one of the best dating apps out there I personally recommend because they have matching %. I have met quality guys there and currently dating a guy that is compatible with my lifestyle and beliefs.
I love your channel but somethings you say is like playing games and it doesnt let the relationship happen organically. Testing guys is like having trusting issues which then we are the problem and not them. I dunno, there is still a lot to say in the dating scene.

I just hate it when these married guys are on dating app too. They even use their wedding photos so funny and ridiculous.

I am dipping my toe back in the dating pool after a breakup. I signed up for eHarmony and was horrified, utterly horrified at my matches. (I am late 40s and in a metro area with a lot of men). I saw less than a handful of attractive men. Looks aren’t at the top of my priority list, but 95% were seriously unkept and scary. Think mountain man who hasn’t seen a comb or beard clippers in ages. What are these men thinking?! I promptly cancelled my membership and will be moving to another platform. I find that different platforms work better in different cities. Best wishes ladies!

I agree that there are assholes and scammers on the dating sites, but that's reality. Been using some since 2010 and met good people mostly. The tip is? Post decent photos and be upfront about what you are looking for. It may take awhile but patience pays off. Found my partner finally ❤

Hey, over 16 years, I started on the free online, met a lot of cheats and liers, I only want to date in a certain mile radius too. So I tried a few free sites, with the same bad results, and noticed the same guys. I then moved to pay sites, guess what exactly the same experience as the free sites, just a bunch of players and oh no, some of the guys from the free sites!! I tired e harmony, must be about 11 years ago and it came back with their was no one who they could match me with WHAT?! I've tried several times since and because they have my post code, I'm rejected each time?? So last year I paid £300.00 to a company who do introductory meets. Total waste of money, they lied when I told them I only wanted to date in my county. Their catalogue was full of old men based miles from me. They would not let you look at the catalogue until you'd paid. Yes I am that desperate to meet someone genuine. I have so much love and laughter to give, but I just can't find them x