The person you really need to marry | Tracy McMillan | TEDxOlympicBlvdWomen

"im the one i should love in this world"

What impact did your personal experiences have on your understanding of the value of self-love and relationships?

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Moral of the story: Beware of people's past and traumas. Broken stuff can't be fixed.

Summary: Woman has 3 failed marriages and tries to rebrand herself.

You get from universe as what you are. You manifest you... you get you.. another you.

she got wise through life and now helped me

Thank you

Do you need marriage for happiness?
I feel it's all part of programming.
I honestly dont get it.

Its crazy how prostitutes are invited in ted talks to give life lessons i mean 3 marriage have some shame from wholesale market cause she ain't got none of it

MGTOW.

So many people are looking for love or to be loved around the world and I just want to spread the message that God is love and God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son Jesus Christ so that you will not perish but have everlasting life. John 3:16 I summarized it.

Congratulations 🎉

“Right Down the Line” Gerry Rafferty.

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This wonderful woman makes me cry.

I was always taught that boy meets girl, fall in love get married and forget the world. 9 months later sweet baby on the way, kiss em on the cheek and that's okay.

Please! Marry someone who will take their vows as seriously as you do. Too many people with no integrity to let their yes mean yes and their no mean no.

Thank you 😊

the person who you really need to marry is yourself. create healthy relationship only with yourself. be in every condition with yourself. support, love and admire yourself. no water what’s happening on inside , the most important thing is your feelings. it isn’t selfish, it’s normal.

This talk saved me on many times in my life and will always come back to this for a sense of healing. Thank you so much, for this talk.

I came expecting the expected,but then met this💎✨💯

Once i learned to love myself, life became so peaceful and in challenges i can look at the positive outcome in it.

Light up your corner of the world.

wow! I got lots of insights thanks for your amazing speech and for the motivation you gave me

LOVE

Life will definitely give it to you again! Love this!

Loving yourself is important for sure, but being generous with others seems a more valuable relationship skill to me. That being said, she starts for a very different place than most, im sure its difficult to leave all that behind and have what most of us would view as a conventional, baggage free, relationship. Hope she finds what she is looking for but its difficult in my experience to relate. Im not sure how healthy it is to teach/preach what seems like a somewhat self centered approach to relationships, however, i think that is what a lot of people end up finding, one person is probably more generous and one more selfish in most relationships.

That was beautiful

The message of the entire talk is beautiful but the last 30 seconds were my favorite. She getting emotional made me emotional too. The depth and sincerity of her love towards herself is absolutely inspiring and is definitely something I aspire to achieve in my life.

Never take marriage advice from a woman who has been married and divorced three times. She knows how to get married. She has no idea how to keep a marriage. MEN do not marry a Western woman. They are brought up to feel hatred and superiority to most men. They are not partners. MARRY a foreign woman from a non western country.

Why did I cry the same time as her towards the end?

got more out of Tracy's authentic story of her up bringing, relationships marriages mostly due to her openness clarity honesty, but genuine attitude of not judging herself or caring to seek validation from anyone, powerful not giving a F.!

You can’t marry yourself lol

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Jesus said,“Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning
‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave
his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become
one flesh’? So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what
God has joined together, let not man separate.” -Matthew 19:4-6
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Epitome

I should not still be going to school after I get married. I should achieve the day where I am working, getting paid, and not going to school to study for anything. Amen.

Amazing! That is a great story. I have been a widow for 5 years, and I am learning to love myself, and be with that. Someday I may be in a relationship again. Thank you so much!

They have to stop using HD mics for these. Most TED talkers are extremely nervous and cottonmouthy, making the audio unbearable.

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"He who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds
his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it." -Matthew 10:38,39
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'Not whether he liked me but how I felt in his presence.' Very good

Woman glorifying bad choices, then giving others lecture about it 😂

So....the answer to marriage is to love yourself first and everyone else comes second? My girlfriend will probably leave me if I tell her that 🤣. In all seriousness though, because Tracy has suffered so many failed marriages, isn't this just a way of coping? I think many people in successful marriages would say they love their partner just as much if not more than themselves. In fact, many would put their partner's lives above their own. Just my 2c.

3? Maybe she was the issue

Six years ago I watched this TEDx talk, and it actually changed my life. I always come back to it when I’m at a crossroads in life, because it’s such a good reminder to be there for yourself.

This was SO RICH!!!!!!! 👌🏾👑💜🔥

Hands down the best TED talk I have watched yet. Amazing message with such an authentic and confident delivery!

Easier to say than to do.
People with childhood traumas have wiunds for life. And with age the wounds just grow.

Amazing. Im clapping at my kitchen table 👏