When You stop caring, YOUR EX Starts Chasing You

It's sad as hell that human nature works this way

She broke broke up with me and after little begging I went NC for 3weeks and I made a mistake of reaching out and i started the begging and chasing again for almost a month and she wants us to be friends but am not in for that. Now am going off completely from today. Thanks alot for this info. It's LD relationship and she broke up because she lost feelings and love. It really hurts alot because it's my first time experiencing this.

Even his tongue matches his outfit. Good shit Coach.

If I manifest my ex on a night is this a problem in terms of disconnecting from them ?

They are gone: once they do stuff with someone else it’s over for good

Well i aint even know he wasn't together anymore until i ask because he was acting different so i called him and asked he told me because my kids by another man was a little bad but but he's telling he's family my family different though

Should I ever contact them?? If so how long??

Oh no they don’t…. Not all anyway.. some of us have moved on and fallen in love with someone else.. period

With coach Blac each word matters !

She start chaseing even if she have a boyfriend

Time apart has given me so much perspective. The no contact is a blessing even when it doesn’t feel like it. I’m indifferent and logical now in how I approach him. He reached out, we’re “friends,” but I’m never chasing or trying. It’s on him to do what he wants bc regardless my life is getting better and if he doesn’t make a decision, I have to just keep moving forward and he is sensing this.

Dude, will you please help me?

you speak a lot of sense

Why is ur tongue blue

The wrong person causes so much unnecessary work😅 drop and roll, they dropped you. You drop them, and go live your best life for you. I refuse to go back to someone that walked. They are only going to walk again. Coward people are born cowards, live as cowards, and pass as cowards! Keep your vibrations hig, your circle clean and small. Love bombing is a real traite of broken people! Good luck❤

Blue tongue hits harder

Is this a tutorial on manipulation? How do you feel about your partner and relationship afterwards should this work because now you have skillfully made someone act in response to your actions which is manipulation. Also, the way you are referencing caring sounds like withholding affection or other activities in order to get your partner to behave a certain way, that is crazy to me. If you're no longer happy or you feel your partner does not want to put in the same effort, have a few conversations, discuss how you feel if it doesn't work just leave. It really is as simple as that.

This is so true ,stop caring then ex will chasing😏😂

it was such a nasty breakup i doubt he’ll come back 😢

Is this really true though…

I've done No Contact now foe approximately 2 months, and I have not heard anything since he broke up with me so, I don't really know what to think

And I have to see her because of church hey

But she told me care for myself I don't have to care for her

How if you not in contact and there are exploring? Do they feel the energy?

That's not in every case

My ex is a DA. He couldn't care less about whether or not I stop caring because he acts as if he never did.

Amazing and it's so true! This is happening to me now. Ty

That’s kinda the point. Your lack of being present makes them feel all kinds of things like you may have moved on…that’s the “force” that’s there. But I see your point & you’re right in your thinking. However, bec no one knows what you’re thinking they tend to assume the worse 1st..

It only works if she still single it doesn’t work when your ex gf is already in a relationship and someone is already taking care of her so even if u stop caring its not gonna make a difference somebody is filling that empty space for you

I cut my ex off today she gone pop up after I’ve been in my current relationship for over 1 year… I was like girl bye “remember when u ain’t want me after I tried to get u back in the beginning and u went messed wit all these different dudes now u see I’m happy and stable af n u realize them dudes u was wit wasn’t shit” I told her I’m happy af wit my current girl I don’t want my mf ex chasing me everybody ain’t meant to be together move on!!!’ That’s the best option

My ex is always breaking up with me 4 yrs on n off i always look for him n try to talk to him n change his outlook but then he goes back to his old ways throws our relationship to the trash but i never see him trying

Im in a cycle of acceptance...after 7 years of live in partner relationship...it's all gone...it hurts me so badly but what she want is freedom from me so I had to give to her...Im not sure if NCR is effective..I hope Im on the right channel..

What is bread crumbing?

It sucks. I wanna block this person completely and never deal with them anymore but I have a child by them

He hasnt chased yet.

It's funny bc if want someone you have to play games, if you don't want someone you have to play games

Mmmm lmao ok

One possible blessing about losing an ex may be in seeing more clearly what we needed to see all along: an opportunity to work on ourselves (i.e., get to a space where we actually wish our ex well . . . ).

I got a kid and a house and she is breaking up with me rn, the news isnt fully out yet but the attraction is indeed gone, the love is still there i think.. problem is i started doing nothing jobrelated or with friends for a year now since i basicly had enough money made to do what i want and no actual need to go out or have friends , i was just being on myself and ofcourse after this year today , shit hit the fan i ruined my attraction by not being interesting and i'm really heartbroken no doubt, but how can i ignore her and actually let her sell our house and break my kids soul to then just let her chase me , i wouldnt even want her anymore if it comes to that point, i mean the sacrifice is so big rn that when it happens i will litterly no longer care to restart anything with her, but for the love of god i would still go for it 500% if it doesnt come that far but its not looking good

I can’t stand that bullsh*t that ppl do that makes you literally almost have to be soless and careless to get the right treatment from someone. In this cold ass world ppl should be greatful when they have a rider. Not throw them away because they are a real one, ride for you and care and that’s “unattractive”. Sh*t is lame.

Its really crazy for me, my ex broke up with me without a warning. And now, 6 weeks after a hard cut she text me about wanting to see me. Like wtf..

❤🙏❤

What I just can’t wrap my head around is my husband left me at the end of April to go back to his ex wife after him and I have been married for 25 yrs. I have dealt with so much cheating and disrespect from him that I am done.

what if he comes back and just gives missed calls

Wow! You truly are the best I’ve heard on this topic. I expressed all my emotions after our breakup and he zero response. I messed up but I’m following your advice now.

I’ve just messed up the 1st contact rule,after no contact for a month. She just sent a text that she misses me. An I responded to quickly😢 I panicked. But I going to pull myself towards myself. An relax a little an Apply all your teachings. An take it one day at time. Tnx man all the way from South Africa

I texted on the number you propvided me. No rssponse

True bruh she keep calling and texting all day ✌🏽

The fact that someone only feels like they need to care once
You stop is a big deal and a red flag. Unfortunately it’s just how it works.