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What a good ending video...cut 🎬🫡
ОтветитьIs this app \ course for free?
ОтветитьI always worry my joke falls flat and then the other person laughs from awkwardness
ОтветитьChris Pratt's joke came outta no where, got me laughing so hard 🤣
ОтветитьI wouldnt call anything jimmy fallon does a joke or funny
ОтветитьOne thing I'm learning as a young adult is that it's usually okay to not say anything or be okay with being silent. You don't have to absolutely crush every single interaction with people. Being okay with most get togethers being a little boring, doesn't mean that YOU are a boring person of that other people don't value being around you. I think adopting a mindset of aiming for good enough instead of perfection, makes it easier to relax and then you can really enjoy the moment that you're in.
ОтветитьNo man I feel like there is something medically wrong with me 😂 I can't do any of this. I'm in legit pain when people talk to me you can see it on my face
ОтветитьWhy?
Some people:"Just coz"...😢😢
HI Charisma On Command,
I tried some of your highly acclaimed methods, they did not work well for me at all I Crying a Lot For example, whenever I received some gentle teasing Adding to the bit & playing along (as you guys suggested). I think of a plan to make better that moment & confirm ppl think What a Cool Guy OMG He has an Excellent GSOH! So I Immediately shouting everyone STFU Very calmly tell all around me HOLD ON, GUYS 1 SECOND FFS WHERE TF IS IT?! OMG Plz wait… I...think it's...oh here
Quickly I retrieved my mobile phone, went to Apps/files/song Listings until I reach (Song by Shaggy titled) TEASE ME hit play. Instantly, I would start moving my shoulders along to the song. Only 3–4 times I struggled to find correct pocket for phone/accidentally dropped my keys/Lint-fluff/Cinnamon Gum/Twice I forgot to press play I looked Very Weirdo, plz I'm not grotesque You guys (After this happen I practised every evening for 15–20 mins in front of mirror, so this did not happen again)
However, I found regardless of time, reaction always very bad? A lack of eye contact & very little follow-up dialogue?! Why? Is this the usual response?! Is it too Much? I have just been sharing my flaws after all, like you say....?
No dialogue for rest of that but afterwards also. Did I do something wrong? Or is this part of the joke? If so, how long should I wait? Is a Month a reasonable enough time? Plz can you help me guys? I've been crying a lot I stay strong, don't let it bother me. Because I am strong like a Lion!
Thank You so much in advance for your help!
I've heard it called " the push-pull"
ОтветитьBe funny be chill compliment em be mysterious...
Dude it doesn't work like that.
step 1 : be a celeb
ОтветитьI like the idea of asking why as an open ended questions. I also like the idea of talking about things you like and jokes you like with new people to filter out who you want in your life. That pretty powerful.
ОтветитьThe more you practice something, the easier it becomes overtime. Same thing with talking to people lol
ОтветитьThe IRS: you haven't paid your taxes this year.
Me, trying to make the conversation funny: Yeah, my dog ate my tax forms. LOL
IRS: jail.
There’s always toddler talk … “tell me about your drawing”. “That’s sounds hard”, etc. Works on everybody. I’m an introvert so I’d better know how to get others to talk or I’ll have to do some!
ОтветитьThis channel is very helpful! I'm the shy guy that wants to be a people person. Sometimes I give the wrong impression because I never learned some of social skills I need, but everyone who truly knows me knows that I love people. Thanks!
ОтветитьThis video made me think of times when I did (and didn't) do what you described. Great stuff! Thanks!
ОтветитьThat very last bit was the most useful for me - Focus on making sure you have fun and talk about things you find funny, and let others filter themselves in or out of your life based on that. Simple but elegant, just like most truths.
ОтветитьUgh. Seriously? You think fallon’s comment was funny?
Ответитьus introverts taking social class 🧍♀🧍
Ответитьif you have to think before having a convo with these parts already in it, welp it ill be really awkward
ОтветитьWell I may have talked to my crush a few times in the last 3 years I just panic and I'm to lost in thoughts to talk to her
ОтветитьThey must have added an illegal amount of springiness to that floor. Her extra thickness probably adds to the bounce
ОтветитьCan someone explain how a video with 1mil views only has 500 comments
ОтветитьAnd then…
ОтветитьI never realized I have done this lol, like I always that I was awkward but in reality I actually carried the conversation
ОтветитьGreat video, actually good tips. None of that postmodern alpha beta gamma delta crap. Actually sound advice
ОтветитьI came for one word. I got one word.
“Why?”🤠
<3
ОтветитьYou know what is NOT charismatic, saying the price of things at the end of the page
ОтветитьCould mirroring be construed as manipulative?
ОтветитьJim Carrey saying he acts because he's broken sounded like a joke. I think that's just because I'm used to him always joking lol. When nobody laughed it threw me off guard.
ОтветитьI started doing these unknowingly as soon as i stopped trying to impress people. Once i decided to be myself unapologetically, i started having great conversations
Ответить1. Make compliments
2. Immediately tease the person
3. Tell jokes so outlandish that they can't take you seriously
4. Start confessing your flaws to the person
5. Quiz them about their life
Guaranteed to have an interesting conversation! Just maybe not a good one.
I try these with my wife and she's mad saying I don't take anything seriously 😂😂😂
ОтветитьI'll try incorporating these things.
ОтветитьWhoa Jim Carrey
ОтветитьThis misses the most important tip. Stay present, listen actively and develop a genuine interest in the inner lives of other people
ОтветитьThese are great for those with an audience, but the average person doesn't have that...
ОтветитьThe fact that I've been Googling and trying to learn how to talk to people easier without being so serious all the time, makes me feel like such a failure as a human being. Even with this "knowledge" I don't think it's possible for me to put into practice. It's just not who I am, it's not my personality. I wish I was just naturally like this. Maybe I would have been successful in life and happy.
ОтветитьThis is like an autistics guide for life.
ОтветитьSo you're literally saying that I need to act like I'm in a late night show as the host to be a funny person?
Ответитьgood vid but i clicked so i would never run out of things to say in a conversation not how to start one …?
ОтветитьI love the sentiment at the very end about making the conversation a good time for you! Too often I (we?) worry about what the other person thinks, having a good impression- and being overall likable. But it feels like you’re taking back over and it’s empowering to think that “just being yourself” will filter the right people into your life and send away the rest.
I guess I needed to hear that
So this is why I love Paul Wesley. Got it
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