men fall in love when you're hard to get

Is the inner work found in your book?

So tired of this “hard to get” approach. Men gawk at me all day but don’t approach. You speak as if women get approached every minute and should have 100s of options and the man should feel that. In what reality does that happen. Men don’t even have the confidence to express interest outright anymore.

This is true..

The game is over once you give up sx before he has earned it and met your standards. They wont value it or be proud to claim you if it was given freely and cheaply. He will ghost or put you last. To reverse this, become turned off, disinterested and disappear. Let him pursue and earn you all over again properly. The feminine only receives and does not initiate/lead the convos/dates. Make sure he likes you way more and dont be quick to emotionally invest. Let him profess his love and liking first. Some women wait until marriage before saying "i love you".

I never show interest in a man LOL thats my vibe lol

So just stay single forever lol

It happened to me and funnily enough didnt even feel good to me deep down. It was a quick fix from my end, trying to cover up not feeling good about myself.
I didn’t notice it first, it was pain and then we booked a call and instantly you gave me clarity and awareness over the situation! You are amazing Fareen.
The inner work course is one of a kind, It’s as rare as you - I appreicate so much that I could participate. It is thanks to you Fareen!
Your work helped me immensely to look at myself and start asking the right questions. You gave us a step-by-step process on inner-work. It is invaluable!!
You are the best!

I'm not entirely healthy masculine but I love your message I'm not at all triggered I think it's great to be healthy masculine but just say a note for the ladies don't play too hard to get

Amazing Video. LOVED this so much… a super clear message. Important message ❤❤

I'm so happy for this information! The free chapter of your book is wonderful as well!! Such a good chapter to share❤❤❤

I'm definitely getting my hands on the book toooo🎉🎉


This is so true.. It's starting to click after watching LOTS of videos haha 🤭🙈. I guess the BEST we can do for the man, is to be our confident, happy and healthy selves!

Simple, and also hard. But we can do it 😊
Thank you sweetie 🥰

This was sooo great!! The 6 month group was life changing! I can’t believe you’re selling the course now 😍 Gotta get my hands on it so much gold in there 💖✨🤩

As a man , this is bad advice . If a man has to feel like he’s chasing too much , his pride and ego will say “f*ck it” … and female nature can’t help but to look at a man constantly chasing as “weak” .
Bad advice

Really nice video! i was wondering if i could help you edit your videos and make them more engaging as well as create short content out of them.🤗

Ok I have a date on the 16 th I have not done any of this he asked me he is meeting me in my TOWN in the Middle Of the Day for lunch ..Then I go home I am clear on that..I just said if he respects me long term he will value my own values and that we should only have lunch ..I said that I like him but I have learned from my own past experiences that a good man will value you ..Not expect you to just say yeah come back to mine that’s not happening

I agree with everything but the problem is that the confident masculine man is such a rare find nowadays! A lot of men are very insecure and spoiled by masculine women who chase them, ask them out themselves, etc. so they expect that from women. That’s why I’m single 😢 I’m not attracted to these feminine men

I noticed that you said "playboy" type men that sleep with a bunch of women find that they become unsatisfied with that lifestyle because their ego is activated and not their heart. In the same video you mention the friends character "Joey" who is masculine energy and he also gets alot of women and is able to sleep with them. What is the difference between the feminine energy man who sleeps with many women and the masculine energy man who sleeps with many women? Why would a woman desire one over the other if they both have a lifestyle that shows a lack of commitment?




Could it be that it is possible for a masculine man to lead from his ego as well? Or are all men who lead with their ego automatically feminine? If so, that means Joey is actually in his feminine energy

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This is terrible advice. Women are already too difficult as it is. Use this advice and you will make it even worse.

So helpful❤

I once looked at a man, and it was beyond my thought that he would notice me. And he did notice me and I saw him afterwards he was trying to get himself noticed by standing on my sight, seeking eye contact and getting physically closer ... however he didn't try to talk to me to break the ice 😂 on my side I ignored him because I was way too impressed and I thought that I had more personal work to do to be with that kind of high caliber man...

Anyway, this was good for my ego and it speeded up my personal healing journey. ❤ I can't wait to feel more comfortable in my skin and take fully advantage of my love life.

I once looked at a man, and it was beyond my thought that he would notice me. But he noticed. And afterwards, when I saw him he was trying to get himself noticed by standing on my sight, seeking eye contact and getting physically closer ... however he didn't try to talk to me to break the ice 😂. On my side I ignored him because I was way too impressed and I thought that I wasn't ready ( physically) to be with that kind of high caliber man...

Anyway, this was so good for my ego and it speeded up my personal healing journey. ❤ I can't wait to feel more comfortable in my skin and take fully advantage of my love life. And.... who knows... maybe seeing him again 🤭😃

Do you have a video on how to reverse this? I have been sooo needy and overly loving since we dated and he is very lazy now, where I am always pursuing and taking us on dates.

Just bought your books, Fareen. Another fantastic video - keep up the great work!❤❤

Very helpful thank you

You could make a vid on why secure men pull away and get deeper on that? :) eg why they pull away when we show them too much attention/ assurance etc

My man and i are now in a relationship. He is not really initiating texting lately. I dont want to initiate. Should i just wait for him to?

Do you think you can find masculine men on dating sites or are those weak men?

As a man, no sorry. Don't play games. If you're a high quality woman and it feels like you're premium (you're good looking but not flirty with everyone, you don't post a lot of thirst traps on social media, you seem to be emotionally mature) then by definition you won't just let any joe blow to get you. That's the difference. Just don't play games.

Hmm I think there’s some duality to this. I understand what you’re saying but it’s contextual.

I’d love your take on this : I show a lot of interest but if women tend to be restrictive with their time/energy, I tend to forget about her. If I sense anything like her playing “hard to get”, I’m out - we’re either doing this thing together or not. I’ve been called a player for this kind of behaviour because I actively engage in the beginning (planning dates etc) but when I sense any kind of bs like playing hard to get, especially when I know how you spend your time, its a sad scene. It’s just such a turn off for me and I become so distant that it’s hard for me to take her seriously again.

Maybe I’m being cold, or maybe I’ve got a different perspective but I tend to move my attention to women who are genuinely interested and willing to make time for me.

When a women dose this I lose all feeling I never talk to them again

Thank you! I am from Taiwan and this is so helpful

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This makes so much sense! I have experienced men going from being so interested to becoming lazy because they got it too easy and didn't have a healthy challenge. This is so spot on!

Is it fine to text sometimes first at initial dating stage? Lets say in a ratio 1:3-1:4 to him

If a man is not planning out real dates and asking me to pick times, restaurants, etc (1st or 2nd date), I’m not sure if I should tell him I want him to plan the date or take that as a sign he is not in his healthy masculine and move on. It doesn’t feel good to me to have to plan it, but it feels really petty to not get to know him over this one thing. What do you think? Thanks!

This is a great video Fareen!

I always find it funny when men are so quick to use biology to support their side but as soon as we use biology to support why women choose the men they do, it's suddenly a problem

Is there a way to turn it around when you were clingy, but you worked on yourself and you want another chance with a guy that you over emotional with?

Thank you Fareen. Everything you say makes so much sense. Can’t wait to read your books.

How do you switch it up. If you’ve been chasing a man and he’s been used to it. How do you switch the roles.

I was just about to share my feelings with this guy wheew close one

Yaaay. Get excited when I see your videos ❤

its the same for girls bro.