Are You Needy? 5 Tips To Battle The Urge

Can you talk about something like what the first response to Meeting someone for the first time

Re no 5 ,that’s wrong ,men get way ahead of themselves immediately,as soon as they are apart from someone they like but have just met, dreaming of weddings and perpetual Sunday country walks and so , this falls away with time in direct inverse proportion to the time remaining until the actual wedding,thus spending their actual wedding day wishing they were anywhere else on earth.

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news

how do i not show too much interested? stop calling him? or text him day a week? or what?

You are absolutely fantastic!

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YOU ARE TALKING ABSOLUTE RUBBISH

Thank you!!!

Aahhhmmmm, So the man will teach the woman to be selfish and all alone ?? If she does then he will come running back to her . ?

What you do if he not over his ex grilfriend?

I definitely needed this
This is gold

Yeh then when you do show you have a life of your own, then they cry, oh you don't need me , smh, ok nobodys has time for the games

everybody cheats and everybody keeps secret from each other. I rather have sex and fuck love because it doesn't exist

Wow telling woman to lie and say they’re busy when they aren’t cause lying is healthy and not needy 💩

Wow. If I do all of that, still no man will be interested in me.

Loved Your Video !!.. 👏🏽👏🏽

Too much work, my policy is if u like me then take it if not I dnt care hehehe

So... basically the same advices that are given to men HAhahahah

I'm mostly becoming clingy now because we have talked about how there's the possibility we will split once I leave college and go on an internship. It's kind of torturing me and causing me to become more clingy

Thank you for the tip but how am I to do that when we live together and he already sees me as needy when. I dont the things you just talked about in the video 😢

What is asking too much questions? I've been asking this guy alot of questions to get to know him. Does that sound needy or is it fine.

Am i the only guy here who watched the video? Raise your flag heheh

okay so if i already did alot wrong in a realashonship clingy and needy what do i do to prvent our realashoship from going down hill?

Great advice but still I am needy :(

Slap DONT CALL ME NEEDY

Well, how do you sit and not think of him when you can’t stop thinking that he might just find someone else when you stop texting him or asking him questions? I don’t want to be seen as if I’m not interested because I don’t ask questions or text him. Honestly, most guys don’t like to start conversation so it’s hard to see whether I should text them or wait for him to text me because I don’t want to be seen as annoying or needy while I want him to know that I am indeed interested.

I have been in a relationship for over 2 years and for the past 1 year all I have been was needy and clingy. I have talked and argued with my guy over and over again about wanting his time and attention more but nothing changed.What should I do now??

I hate that im too needy. Always the needy one.

Does this apply with the genders reversed?

Just avoid wearing your heart on your sleeve. If they want you they will come to you. Otherwise he will pull away and start to resent you. Be unavailable, less emotional, and leave him alone. Texting is a major no no. Have a life of your own. Develop a hobby. Travel more. Invest in yourself. Don't talk too much and just be you. Act like you don't care about him at all. Amy North you are a genius. I realize my mistakes for someone who is not for me. I realized also a man is not my whole world. I rather be pursued. I rather focus on myself than beg for someone to love me or want me when I love myself more!!!

Can I share this to my gf ?

So my question is am I to late to get my boyfriend back or in other words my ex? now after doing this after I push him away by being needy and clingy I am currently doing the no contact rule as well so I just wanted to know if I'm in the right path? And are my chances high?

This reminds me how toxic relationships have become. I am definitely in the wrong generation. Ironically, this chase game is why I would do not want to be in a relationship.

I hate men

Neediness indicates lack and that is a terrible state to be in, something I learned the hard way :(

It's not just men and women or women and men. ALL relationships experience this stuff.

Ngl by these points I seem like I am need lol

Yep. Too much pressure. And as a people pleaser I’ll do what you want at my expense until you cross a certain line, once you cross that line, at least with me, there is no saving it. No one should place the weight of your complete happiness and sanity on the shoulders of someone else.

This is completely applicable for guys too. I’ve done ALL of these things. Oops...

I hope its not too late for me... I'm way too needy due to past abuse.. :(

I always love to watch your video Amy but every time the guy I like texts me I don't know what to say. I just end up leaving him on read

I’m the guy and I’m the needy one lol my girl friend says I’m too sensitive ha! I’m the one getting anxiety when she doesn’t respond to my text as quickly as I would like or her reactions to pics or memes I send her. Relationship are tough.

Thanks Amy ❣️

Is this the same in a 6 months committed relationship? Or only at the beginning?

I’m currently going through this right now 😅

I'm so fucking needy rn...I can't stand it.......

Great video

Hi

1. Don't show too much interest or blow up his phone. Have a life outside him.
2. Don't be too agreeable. Agreement can be worse than disagreeing. Men sometimes like to be challenged.
3. Don't be too available. Show him that you have a full, fun life. Don't make plans on super short notice. Suggest rescheduling for another night. Don't ditch your friends.
4. Let him take the lead and chase.
5. Don't get ahead of yourself; women get involved emotionally more quickly. Make yourself a fun person to be around, and then he'll start seeing his future involving you.

That one needy person who disliked the video 😡😡 Love your videos Amy great job!