Mentally Unstable Goth GF - 4Chan Greentext Stories

my last ex had some mental problems, but these were about 20% as severe as she made it look like. Also not more severe than mine. She would whine almost every day about shit that people usually ignore, and while trying to comfort her, she would tell me how everyone else (and me personally) is wrong for ignoring their problems. Shortly before the breakup, she would several times in a row whine about having a mild tick with her eye (something I expecience regularly but don't care), and said it was pissing her off so hard that she wanted to cut herself to distract from the tick. Jesus Christ.

soooo when you're sleeping all day and not responding to her then as well is she not gonna suspect something?

Not my own story, but my bro. Basically something like this, but the gf is not goth, just a very needy girl.

I once have a sleep over cuz bro visiting the town, cant sleep because the gf require him to have his call up all nigth, and when he's start to drift off for too long she would make noise to wake him up.

My bro is mechanics, he's the owner but his own employee, so he has to bust his ass off everyday. Cant imagine how he able to keep up with work with needy girl like that. Dude legit is a supes because he got thru the week with no alcohol nor drugs, he only do cigaretes and cheap coffe.

I had an ex like this. worst part is, she would turn on you after hours of trying to calm her down. a stressful call becomes a fight for a few days, at least once or twice a week for years.
she ended up cheating and blaming me for it.
if a girl acts this way, run while you can

3 letters: RUN

I am schizophrenic I sometimes have episodes like this, I've relied on my sister since it manifested and now I'm married I can rely on my husband too. They're part of how I manage to live with it. I don't take medication cause I tried and it just made things worse, what I do is try to avoid "triggers". Can't cry if there's nothing to cry about.

Move in together and then she won't have to blow up your phone...

my gf doesnt have a lot of panic attacks anymore, when she does have some (mostly cause her parents) i comfort her. Really not that bad buddy

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Oh my god i just got a flashback of how my ex used to see these crazy dreams where I would cheat on her and then immediately throw a scene upon waking up. I didn't deserve all of this garbage to be thrown at me just because she was mentally ill or insecure. Glad to say I'm much happier in my current relationship. Stay to to yourself kings.

He knows deep down that he can't and won't commit to her long term. She's not really his GF anymore. He's merely taking advantage of his status with her. He's trimming the bad sides off so that he can enjoy the parts he likes. He will fool her and himself into believing nothing has changed, but the reality is that he has stopped taking her seriously.

You got to look at it like this... you can only pull these stunts because you live separately. She is not fit for the long term. Anon already knows the truth. So the question is , why does he stay?
No good answer is available. It seems to me that he is running from the fact he has to find a new partner. A darker point may be that he is only using her for sexual pleasures now. That or he's genuinely a fool that believes he can cope with this relationship long term.

She found some ugly simp that responds to her BS every night, and now shes fucking him. Simple as, thats what you sign up for with girls like that.

And then the incels will ask for a caring and cute gf. A relationship requires teamwork and communication which OP failed on both.

A lot of horrible people in the comments. She's got mental issues and yet you and to still be with her but not support her? Sorry but being with her means being in the shit with her, it means doing everything you can to help her.

If you can do that move on.

Goth is just a sun type of mentally unstable

Reading this and the comments, it looks like many of us have been through this scenario.

Mine wasn’t so much panic attacks as inability to deal with reality, such as ‘not having enough time in the day to do everything I want’ (worked three days a week) or calling me at bad times because she was incapable of figuring things out herself, such as:

Not being able to find the switch for the extractor fan (on the wall next to it) while I was at a funeral

Not being able to lock the window (a lever that goes into two positions and can be gleaned through experimentation) in the middle of the night,

Hell, I realised I was the only one doing the housework when after living together for ten months she asked me how to take the vacuum cleaner off the wall (you lift it).

This woman was a doctor, by the way.

are there mentally stable goth gfs?

> no goths mentioned
Fake and gay vid

My ex became a stripper without telling anyone in her life beforehand. She also didn't try to hide it afterwards. She told everyone like she was bragging. Her parents kicked her out and I dumped her. The way she threw her life away has always fascinated me

How many of these women are on anti-depressants, or other mood-altering pharmological concoctions?

How many of us dated the same chick?

Time limited event

That's actually not too bad. She's using him as a crutch, which isn't good for either of them. Having that taken away forces her to confront her problems.

Aww. I'd be okay with supporting her though.

Bro you aren't her therapist,why would you feel guilty?

and then she started seeing someone else lol

I will admit that I have nightly anxiety attacks but I.. usually internalize them, I keep them to myself and just let it fester since I don't want to bother my partners nor my friends. This video kinda just reinforces how I feel.

Sounds like an incredibly annoying attention seeker.

Sometimes im glad im single.

i sadly relate half away with anon, i have basically the same problem, but i just feel bad if i blatantly leave him (its a trans ftm) and I feel like I'm an idiot by keeping a relationship with someone who just doesn't understand my boundaries and if I say no it means no, would you accept being constantly called on your phone when you clearly stated that you are going to be busy? or will you tolerate that if you don't say goodbye every night you will be called constantly, and the worst part is since this shit i even have said i don't like has been ignored for the last 3 to 4 years i think I have developed some sort of ptsd to being called or leaving my phone with the screen up... its always their calls... I truly despise them

I feel so bad for her. Sure it’s not his responsibility to be there for her but she clearly loves him if she’s trusting him enough to go to him for comfort in her lowest points, and he shouldn’t lie just to get out of it. If she’s not seeing a professional then yeah that should happen but maybe she is already we don’t know.

As opposed to what other hypothetical kind?

Every girl with an "alt" aesthetic/persona

I need to know what a turtle has to say about this.

lmao wtf is the point of a relationship even

you can't ask anyone for shit, just stay single at that point

I do this but with friends and family lmao

It's not your job to raise a partner.

I never understood how someone can have a panic attack and still have the clarity to text nonstop to their partner. I’ve had friends who would pull this shit on me all the time, it has to be a moment of extreme loneliness/narcissistic tantrum. You’re there to be their partner, not to become their therapist.

I can fix her

Anon's gf should go to a therapist, as much as a loved can help, they're not proffesionals and have a breaking point

My ex was like this. She'd bombard my phone all day with trivial shit and emotional venting. She couldn't be left alone for more than 5 minutes. Now, I have a girl who isn't such a leech, and I have "Do Not Disturb" turn on automatically at 9 every night. Not for her; she's the one exception. That's just for anybody else who doesn't get the memo.

Look up sundowner syndrome

some mental illness is a lack of certain types of vitamins, even sunshine.

The funiest thing about this is anons asking 4 chan for gf stories

Unpopular opinion: If you can’t handle someone, break up with them

Is it possible to wish I was that guy while simultaneously be glad I’m not that guy

Dude that's just how they all are.

Its not your job as there partner to be there therapist. its nice to comfort them, but if its every night then they need to get help to eliminate the problem. I have mental health issues too but its my responsibility to get it under control not any one else’s. Really hate people that expect the world to revolve around and conform to there needs. Gives people like me who actually try to get better a bad rap.