How to Deal With Loneliness

I am 24 years old from Indonesia, I feel like I have failed in everything and feel left behind from my friends who are already working and successful. after I saw this video, I was more calm and peaceful. I know, I have to be strong and organize everything well. I don't know this person, but his words brought me back to my feet. Thank you very much sir

You speak the truth brother. 100 percent you speak the facts.

I'm beside myself.

wish this was out earlier man, i could have used this talk back at the height of lockdown

get a dog

Thank you

I never devalue a man, I lost my husband of 32 years and have found there are very few good men now.

I’ve learned a lot about myself sitting by a campfire alone. Many great nights doing that. Six pack, my dog, and my thoughts. I still do that several times a year.

Thanks man, I’ve recently started taking time for myself and I realize how much it matters who choose to be next to us in life 🙏🏻

I just found this video, You got my undivided attention sir.
My 3rd time watching this.. an I'm one that BEATS myself constantly...

I miss my friends

No I don't do anything to actually go an seek them out who do you think I am

it's not just men that suffer from this...

When you said "young man"!

I am 17 almost 18 and went through a break up recently like day of writing this and I had no one else and I can't talk to my family about it because I've tried it before and they all gave me advice but I understand all of that but I'm still glad about it but uh the relationship has gone on for more than 2 year almost 3 and I feel alone. I cried but I couldn't because I laughed while I was crying because I knew it was coming but I was so attached and my gut told me it was coming because she wanted time to work on herself and I found out my self she was cheating with my own two eyes and I didn't say anything at first but left because I didn't wanna belive it and thought I was asleep and then I sent her a message but she blocked me on every form of communication with her even in person and I don't wanna track her down because she did what she did and a person like that isn't worth running after anymore but the things she told during our relationship and the promises we had to each other and seeing them get broken really hurt me since we both we're the first person we we're with and thought it'd be like that forever and we both dreamed of kids but I guess her lust filled heart wanted something else and my heart was hurting and I have no one to talk to and I cried laugh for hours and literally beat my self up for having all that time thrown away and I thought my life was gonna go straight since I planned out a lot with her but... I don't know I just really need a hug and someone to talk to and for them to listen because it really hard. It feels like I'm gonna work for nothing since I dont see myself being valuable enough to work for myself and she saw me as who I was and I don't know man... I loved her and now I can't direct any of the good emotion to anything or anyone and the bad emotion beats me up and recently my best friend got cancer and I can't see him and family members in and out of hospital and drama and I just don't know what you do with myself and all my emotions and i haven't cried how I cried I did today ever and it hurts. I'm trying to be tough and tackle through it I just feel broken that is motivated as ever to prove her wrong but unmotivated as ever since she was my all and and I wanna show that I've gotten better and I'm better and show her what she missed out on so thats motivating but I'll never see her to do that and that unmotivated me and I'm trying so hard man. I'll never see anyone the same especially girls because of this and I know I'm not gay but it'll take God one hell of a woman for me to be back to normal. I have way more to say but I do thank anyone who sat here reading this because it means everything to me and I thank the old guy for the words but I hope I can come back in years being the best version of myself but yeah thank you and I love you all.

Obgda senhor

Thank you uncle

LOL THEY AINT OUT THERE

First step is to accept it
Realize your in it alone anyways

But what do I do when that woman that has destroyed me and continues to destroy me has possession of my young daughter. How do you leave that

A lot of women's heads are way out in outer space. They're beyond hope. Besides, there's more women than men in this world. So, we have plenty to pick and choose from. I'm not being hateful toward women. I'm married to one and have a thirty year old daughter. They respect me and I respect them.

Ive been single for 12 years. I was 17. I'm still a virgin. I've tried my hardest to try to meet and greet women the right way, but I usually end up in the friend zone or they don't want to hang out with me. Now i'm at the point when I get numbers and women tend to make an excuse of why they cant hang out, I tell them we cant be friends anymore. I don't need anymore female friends that I cant get with. I need a companion. Its starting to take its toll on me now. I was honestly looking around to see if I can find another virgin female out there, but now I realized that's not the case. There's a slim chance, unless I leave the country where women are more traditional, I know that they're extremely rare here. I don't know why, but I tend to get women who are so damaged or have been hurt that they dont want a relationship...freakin hook up culture man. I just want someone one now. I dont care if she isnt a virgin anymore.

i’m 26 girl i live with family but alone in my room and i have no friends really i feel sad and depressed and confused 😢💔 i don’t know how to get away and being happy like other girls i want to die

My grandpa died before I got to spend time with him and soak up any knowledge from him so I always pretend this is my grandpa talking thru this man to me thanks again dry creek

Beautiful

Amen. Well said. Thank you

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I watched this on the half of 2023, and now, more than 6 months later, I perceive how much this video helped me to change since I watched it. I was that one who was ashamed of being different, and I would never make the hard decisions or take leadership when needed.
Your channel, Dewayne, deserve much more recognition, so do yourself. Undoubtedly (and you can assure that by reading the comments of others) you saved and changed lives. The work that you do here is priceless and wonderful. I wish the best to you, and that you continue doing this amazing job that you do here. Thank you

You are correct. The only person anyone has a right to judge is themselves. Yes, if someone does a crime they should be punished accordingly. But still not judged.

He's correct and his advice is genuine and true. Men, get up be the man that you would want your daughter to marry

Thanks for the cigarrete, and for the advise. I will try my best to be better.

Been single for 18 years. The woman I’ve dated either one of my money, or wanted to change me. Except me for what I am and I’ll do the same.

For me its the self-hatred that comes with the loneliness

Thank you brother
A plethora of inspiration

I am 63 (f) and haven’t dated since my divorce 30 years ago. It didn’t help that my ex was stuck on revenge all this time, told so many lies about me, turned my only child against me. I never fought back, I couldn’t put our child in the middle of a storm like that, so everyone believed the ex - even family members, so I am alone except for my dogs. I agree the women today are brutal, anything but soft, feminine, and nurturing. Men too have lost their way. Not their fault, they have been emasculated by society. I wish it was a kinder world but for the young one’s out there feeling sad and lonely, remember, you attract who/what you are. Make a list of all the things you desire in a partner. When done, read the list slowly and carefully. Then ask yourself if you are all
Those things on the list. If the answer is no, you have work to do, but it can be done and it’s worth it for the right person. Lots of love to all.

I thought this video willl have genuine wisdom but its just another meninist video making it all about a man. As if they are the only ones facing loneliness and hardships. The reason why these men more depressed and suicidal is because they are naive, simple. They are always tryna do dumb stuff while women have to mature faster. Once society is hard on these men, the prisoners rate level will decrease. As soon as they understand this, the sooner they'll stop victimizing themselves.

As for being lonely, you choose your spouse, no one forces you to. If you somehow found a bad companion, thats on you. Learn to take responsibility and learn from mistakes. Instead of wallowing about how unfair it is for men when they are judged less and been given space to do things without biases against them.

I want to be like this man when I grow old.

Does anyone else feel like this is super extra/cringy and he’s full of shit ? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I wish I can die peacefully without having to take actions with my own hands

Pets can provide companionship and emotional support. Caring for a pet can also add structure to your day and bring joy into your life.
Remember that overcoming loneliness often involves a combination of efforts, and it's okay to seek support from various sources. Building meaningful connections takes time, so be patient with yourself as you navigate this process. If loneliness is significantly impacting your well-being, reaching out to mental health professionals is a proactive step toward finding support and solutions.

My biggest battle is loneliness. Feeling unlovable and not good enough. I get on fine with women, and respect them, and can have a laugh with them. I try and be myself and be a good person. I'm in shape. But the few women I ask out each year reject me. I feel like I'm destined to be alone. The women I really like don't want me to be their partner, even though they've said things such as I'm thoughtful or amazing. And we get along. But man... it's so tough sometimes feeling like it's an impossible task to take it to that next step and secure a partnership.

I bought a rope tonight, when I figured I would end it, I felt a sense of profound relief and joy, knowing all this emotional and mental pain will be gone. But now, after some prayer and reading, and watching a couple of your videos, I'm feeling in a better place, and intend to throw that rope away in the bin when it comes.

So sorry to all the men struggling. I'm not the best with comforting or advice, I think but I'm always here to talk. The world is really lonely, I'm a girl but it's been really hard lately and I feel horrible for any man who feels like they can't talk to someone or feels they can't feel things you're always valid and I'm glad your here.

seeing this on new year's >>>>

Thank You

You are 100 percent right. I was homeless in 2015 and I made a choice to change that ,and now I have my own place and a van. It wasn't easy and I worked really hard and I didn't give up.

Clicked on this video to get the answer
I got the answer sir 👍

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Loneliness is an opportunity for me to grow and become more comfortable with myself

Thank you for this video