Married But In Love With Someone Else | When You're Happily Married But Love Someone Else

We've been together 3 years and then she just up and jumped in a relationship with now she want to give us but I'm scared that she might do the same thing again to me

Hi my name is kelton I'm 35 years old is older woman she 53 and we've been together three years he was like love at first sight we started staying together everything was going good Sugarland her family and the people when she work with everything was going good I gave her an engagement I did everything a man I'll massage your feet massaged her back her legs I I cuddle with but she let her family draw and I felt like she didn't love me no more and I'll battle with depression and anxiety and I got my stuff and packed up and left so her family can stop messing with her how about you messing with a young and then she's going to tell me she got married she said she fell in love with another but now add a voice for him she telling me she want to give us another try but I'm scared so what do you think can you please help me

what if the woman want both to b in her life mutually. Can it happen?

So what's about when you do that already the talking and nothing has done about do you still stay in the unhappy marriage

Hello , i have been cohabiting with a guy for three years now..within the years he cheats caught him ones red handed...i for gave him but i doubt it since then i lost him in my heart...then here comes a guy i had met in college loved him and told him what i felt but he said he wasnt ready...now his back contacting me sending seductive messages from which i get over whelmed with feelings for him....im confused...how do i handle it?

I am married to a man who was married already but now l am again in love with a marry man and he love me and don't want to leave me.

@LoveADviceTVcommunity. I feel stuck and unhappy. I'm with a man i love, but not inlove with. I knew him since 2011 and we're both married since 2017 and had 2 children. He's responsible and caring to us but I am not happy. My marriage lack romance and intimacy. I have talked to him most of the time about my feelings but to know avail. He's very addicted to Marijuana and we're living like a roommates. I want to divorce him, but I don't know if it's the right thing to do. Ever since this 12 years i have been with him, never enjoyed sex. He gets his pleasure from marijuana and I'm left out. I feel lonely, hopeless and unhappy.

This is happying to me right now i just dont want to break his heart what should i do ?????

I went on Bumble for friends and networking. While on there, someone reached out and I found myself going in a strange direction. He wanted to get on calls and meet. I pulled the plug immediately. Blocked all access. I would rather do that now than destroy my whole life. Its such an odd feeling. I thought about the Watts story and how awful that turned. It is playing with fire. Truly.

I’ve been in an open marriage for 11 years. My husband and I have 2 sons. I work 60-72 hours a week and he is a stay at home dad. I have never been able to be a Mom to my kids because I’m never home and when I am my husband never wants me to help with the kids and house and I feel like a work horse. I keep telling him how I feel and we keep making routines so to fit more time with the kids but he never sticks to it and helps me with this. He always gets defensive when I talk about him going back to work to help with bills. I’m over the idea that he will get his degree like he promised to do after I completed mine, 7 years ago… I have tried talking, going back to church, he refuses counseling and I feel like I’m wasting my life… not to mention I have an extremely high sex drive and for the first time EVER I faked it when we made love the other day. 😥 I’ve been struggling with this concept for the past 4 years…. I don’t know what to do… 🤦🏻‍♀️ Thanks for your video but I am still so lost..❤❤️‍🩹💔

Struggled been struggling with a sexless marriage for more than 18 years. I would collapse have depression and then build myself get therapy and pull faith out of myself or from God and believe he would change. So we decided to have an open relationship and I met someone and fell in love. It was bliss but he lives in another state.
My husband found out and was angry, sad and crushed. But he now knows what it’s like to live with anxiety and he said I know I messed up. I want to help you heal. I need to make this right. I am experiencing depression. I done really know what to do. Really I don’t. I just know I don’t want to be depressed and I want to be healed now, so I can make a logical and wise decision. My husband has hurt me by neglecting and ignoring me, everything was always more important than me. The career, job, the kids ect.

What if you don’t have kids and he is verbally, emotionally and physically (happened 1x) abusive. What if you tried it all but despite all they don’t care!! And deep down you know you loved someone else all along!! But you cut that inside of you because you don’t want to cheat! Why sacrifice for who!? Plus I’m still young to start over!

Good advice my marriage is missing intimacy

I have been married for 5 years with her for 7 years. I believed that if I stuck it out through the hard times. (Lying, cheating, manipulation, slander) just maybe it would pay me back in the long haul because she has never had anyone to care for her . She told me a year ago that she only cheated cause I wouldn't leave her. I very recently just stopped caring who she is talking to or if our marriage worked or didn't. And the fighting stopped. I stopped caring where she was or who she was with and there was a peace .
I started to talk to a female coworker and she seems like my legit soulmate. I fell hard for her my wife is obviously angry cause I am not giving our marriage a chance now. I'm kinda lost at the moment.

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I feel do whatever you want but with full permission handle both 💝

Yes i have that problem what to do

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I am a little open up with my partner.I am not able to connect with her anymore after an incident. She has changed a lot. I am not getting the love and respect I deserve. For the past 4 years I have been giving constant effort to salvage my relationship still no luck. I was in fear all the time . My life was hell. When people don't feel like being loved they search it outside. It's a basic need. I don't want to live a loveless life at 32. I have a kid and I love her more than anything else. everything I tolerated because of my kid. One time I started thinking it's normal to lose love after a kid. But now I realised love can happen any day with anyone anywhere. Love shouldn't be confined in conditions. Let it be free and enjoy your present.

In my case, I'm the other one. I won't defend my choices for I made it. It's just fate is playing us, or just me. I don't know. It's been 7 years since we fall for each other but he is with her. And I choose to do what is right, I walk away and let them be. Within the years are path crossed again and again and again.. Just currently I cannot keep away, fate paired us. Just as I thought we will never crossed this close after, it happened. He is married with that girl before more than 3 years already.. I know that but still we choose to take the risks. I even started to just do it for curiosity, just wanna know answers. But now as a month passed, we are too attached. I don't know..I really don't know. But I know I will soon let go again. For that's the right thing. Am I bad for letting my feelings? He is the only one ever made me feel. I just want to live in the moment.

No judgement, but why is it so hard to finish what you start in terms of marriage? Making the mistake of loving and wanting someone that you are not married to creates danger for them.. places a huge burden on the unmarried person's life. This is why it's important for the married people to either work it out or end it, instead of causing someone they've dragged into their confusion into danger. No one should bare the burden of danger or problems because a married individual is too immature to finish what they started. This is why dating is dangerous at times.

So I did this and was in an abusive relationship for years and I don't regret leaving my ex. If you cheat then relationship is over

Thank you sir

When comes to me I had always kept my love together wherever it was even for jobs and business and travellings we never separated.

AM married i do love my husband but at the same time am attracted to a collegue at work ,i always try to avoid him in anyway possible but since he is one of the person s i work under i still have to talk to him.He is such a cool guy not married yet ,i dont know what do to to overcome the feelings which are slowly building up?

can someone give me advice please. i am married for 10 yrs and in relationship with my wife for 19 yrs. my problem is we never had sex and she has a problem where her vagina area become stiff thus very hard for me to do the physical sex. last year i had an affair with a woman who provide me what is missing which is sex but of course my wife found out im cheating on her thus my affair partner give up on me and broke up. now i want to leave my wife because i feel im in love with my affair partner. need help please...

First of all dude if somebody does that there was no love to begin with so yeah there's that

Can a married man truely love another woman while still married?

Good advice I have learned.I not married tho .But good advice

Hy i need your help my life is i a great dangerous situation plzzzz

What if I'm not married but have a long term girlfriend

l am stuck my brother

I love my husband but I like someone too ...wat should I do can you please help me

I want to date a serious man to married happily ending of life

FOR MARRIED PEOPLE: The feeling that you get in an affair can NEVER be love. Love comes from God, the same God who designed marriage and commanded us to honor it. I truly believe that God will not contradict Himself and put love in your heart for someone else other than your spouse. The feeling you have for the other person can be LUST, INFATUATION, OBSESSION, A SOURCE OF VALIDATION, AN EGO BOOSTER, A FORM OF ESCAPE or any other feeling that satan will USE to destroy your marriage (and push you to commit a SIN by breaking the VOW that you made before God). The devil will make you believe that what you feel for this other person is love when in fact it really ISN'T. That's what satan does. That's the reason he's called a LIAR and a DESTROYER.

INFIDELITY has a very destructive impact on people, and can be PASSED DOWN from generation to generation like a CURSE.

The devil has VIOLATED so many marriages; has TORN so many families apart; has RUINED so many lives. Don't let that monster proudly look at your OWN FAMILY and boast that he has successfully DESTROYED it too.

"Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth." - 1 Corinthians 13:6

Im separated with my legal husband but our marriage is not yet annuld..do I'm committing sin if I have someone else

I'm single my boyfriend is married with two kids.. he loves me.. he wants to be with me.. but we both feel helpless

If you’ve done a lot of talking with your partner and helped to try and build that love back but you can’t get the urge of the “what if there’s something better” and the things you wish for isn’t there even after long talks and months go by. Why do I feel that I’m not in love with her but I still want her in my life?

I have 7 years relationship, and I m now 27 , still not married still paying for his bills, and he is still struggling but love me a lot, cares me a lot. But meanwhile I fall in love with my office colleague. He is well settle, successful, and shows intrest in me and I fall in love with him, we talked and realised that I like him too. He took me on date behaved so nice, later in night we went to on other date and spend this night together. Now I m regretting for that night but still in love with him and he is loves me too. But I m feeling bad, and regretful towards my bf with whom I spent 7 years. I don't know what to do now

I have been married for 17 years have 3 boys but i feel my husband and I grown apart.We don't enjoy same things anymore.He doesn't take us out anymore.he doesn't earn so iam the bread winner from the start of our marriage.Recently i met an old acquaintance and feel a strong connection with him .I feel like leaving my husband but i don't wana leave my kids.

Pls I need help I am a married man but I am in love with another single girl

I need help i watched the videos i am in a bind i cry constantly i cant focus i try to be happy but i am depressed please message me

I'm not married but same situation I'm facing with my partner ... though we have a 4year of relationship and now I'm not have feelings for my partner ... I'm loving some other whom i just talk for 1month only but I can't rid of my mind of other person i wanted to be with him now rather then my partner but i hve a guilt is that right with my partner who's always loyal from his side and now I'm leaving him because I'm not feeling for him I'm just stuck with my thoughts i don't what should i do

Hello I'm married my wife dont love me and she in a relationship with a married man while we are still married what can I do I'm very much in love with my wife I got sick and i feel she gave up on the marriage she got this book stay or go I dont really know where her head is at I dont wanna get more hurt by her

Sir iam a married man and a father of a kid still i felt attractive towards my female office colleague who is quite junior to me. I know its wrong i feel guilty still i couldn't help it. She is on my mind all the time. I know she can't be mine i know it will be devastating for me n for my family still i feel helpless. Sad part is that i cant avoid her she is infront of me all the time since we working in same office. Please help me tell me what should I do?

I need help

I m a Muslim from Asian country, 39yrs married with 3 kids but not happy with my husband. I maintain myself well so I look younger than my age but I got a back problem n went for physiotherapy..i got attracted to the therapist because the way he treated n listened to me during our sessions at the hospital although he is 27, but bcoz I couldn't continue the sessions at hospital he came for few sessions at my home n then we used to text on phone and started texting regularly, it was me showing interest n wanting to talk n revealed my feelings to him after 4 months indirectly showing interest in him, he responded well with that n in one session we got close.. I thought he loved me too but whenever I wanted to ask him not directly bcoz I was shy he didn't answered me clearly n kept it ambiguous ... N it was hurting me inside day by day.. Until one day when he revealed he wanted to make love n I asked him where we stand in the relationship to which he responded there is no end to this relationship bcoz one day I have to get married...
I was shattered and told him I can't proceed without a commitment n wanted a long term relationship with him.. I m so emotionally and physically attached to him that I can't think of my life spending without him n he knows all this...
Now I have ended everything with him no contact but it's unbearable for me.... I don't know what's my future.... I cant live in this pain.... It's been total 6 months n it finished..he is okay with the idea that u r a strong lady I know u can move on n forget about it which is not the case n he is still saying I can be friends n u can share whatever u want I m here for u n I still care for u... Don't take me wrong.... but I cared for u n loved u truly.... My husband doesn't have any idea about all this... I had plans if he is serious then I will talk to husband n be separated from him....
My life is a mess now.... I m not financially that strong n m dependent on my husband .... I want to end my life....n under severe trauma n guilt.... I don't know what to do....i acknowledge the mistake I have made but still looking for some miracle n hope which is not there...he being a young male will never marry a women 12 yrs older to him with 3 kids but I still thought it was possible in the time I was with him because of the way he treated me....
Ur videos I have come across after the breakup 4 days ago.... N I m in almost no contact phase but he's contacting me that he misses me n wanted to be with me....
What should I do?

I'm in love with a married man for 3 years he just one day recently left me to go back to his country to be with her and never told me goodbye or gave any signals he was leaving me what do I do I'm hurting inside he did call to tell me hes in hos country with his wife and kids and other family and he no longer wants me he has a seporatekife over there what do I do

I am following you from last 3 years. I am in no contact from 3 years. Nothing changed nothing happens. Never she came back.