How to get more sex with your wife- Try these 3 steps!

Yes Steph, this is me.

Good.. so do all this honestly and if she doesn't come to you, its her ego! Just leave her with her ego and be yourself!💪

Great advice

Morning ❤

To all the men out there dealing with it.. Much love gents, stay strong 🙏🏼

I talk about it before , saying I would love having more intimate stuff and the reply I got was that she was tired and it's the last thing on her minde , I clean the house cook and take care of the kids plus work 50 hours a week , I try bringing her flowers and gift , all I got was a thx and a kiss , so basically all you have talk about is completely rong , and don't work , ps she works in a daycare 40 hours a week and dos the grocery and laundry, I do the rest + she has one night a week with her friends to do Wtv , I don't even go out, and I still don't deserve some sort of intimate thing once a week ? That's crazzy

I need advice sometimes I feel she just says not feeling it

This society is so backwards. A women will throw sex around left and right when she's single but is celibate when married. When she should be celibate single and having crazy sex with her husband when married.

And…..what does the woman do? (Crickets)

this is by far the worst advice i've seen on this topic.

There is not much reason for the average man to get married anymore. Most women completely take them for granted, use them for a while, then take all their money. I don't want this to be true. A good woman is the greatest blessing you can have in this world. Marriage is the foundation of society. Many men get no respect and are expected to perform to the traditional husband being the provider and protector. But many women have no desire to be the traditional wife. So there you have it. I recently watched a movie that had a female character go off for 5 minutes on how bad women have it. Meanwhile across the globe 100s of 1000s of men are laying face down in the mud rotting in Ukraine while the women in Kiev twerk in the nightclubs.

Women's libido is not congruent with cohabitation. It's not a physical need as much as it's an ego driven validation. You want to see your wife's libido return with a vengeance? within weeks? Simple. Die. When she's alone, truly alone, her need for validation and ego stroking will return. Until she lives with the next guy, then, shows over, dead bedroom again, until, she's once again, alone

Demand either sex with her or an open relationship. See how quickly she suddenly wants to be more giving or perfers to break up. Either way you win because she will start playing again not wanting the thought of you with another woman or she will think you don't want her and doesn't care to stay married anymore. The main thing is that she realizes your tired of her act and her greed to maintain her lifestyle may add to her change of heart to submit. TAKE YOUR BALLS BACK MAN! There are too many women who would let you have non committed sex if your single there are less virtuous women now than ever. But remember to bring Mr Jimmy with you no need for unwanted kids.

Better idea leave her ass for someone who will do it.

Pro tip:
Just stick her with it when she’s least expecting it

Women fight themselves everyday n take the 🐈 away.

I Love To Date A Woman Who Is In A Sexless Relation ship

Thank you. Your advice is not age related either. So helpful.

My kids are on the older side - 12 and 16. That doesn't stop my wife from using them as a defensive weapon. I'll say, "Honey lets go to the Hilton next weekend. We can have time alone, and have a nice dinner". Nope...she ignores me...not even a second thought. Put it on the calendar? She'll say F&%k your calendar. "We can't leave the kids alone". They're not alone, my father-in-law lives with us and frankly, they're old enough to be left alone for one night.

I make breakfast for her every morning that I don't work. I've bought toys which go unused. I assemble every lousy piece of funiture she buys...fix everything around the house...and do the laundry. I make a good living. I'm in pretty good shape. I coach my son's baseball team. I bring flowers home and to her work. All these things should be positive to my wife yet we haven't slept in the same bed in 5 years. She sleeps with my 12 year old son and blames it on my snoring. Funnily enough, she snores...and so does my son.

The frequency of our sex has been improving over the last several months (once every 2-3 weeks), but she makes me feel like a predator and she never initiates anything. Everything I do for her and our family, she simply chalks it up to me wanting to have sex with her (like it's a bad thing). Honestly, the sex is good when we have it. No quickies, usually 30-40 minutes, and she seems satisfied. But still, it's like pulling teeth or an episode of Tom and Jerry.

When i ask for sex i get called stupid and dumb i stopped trying started looking at other woman i wont cheat on my wife but i miss a womans touch.

Nope didn't help,
All you said is men, it's all up to you.... And you dont hold women accountable for becoming frigid...

Tired of women thinking they dont have to do anything, tried all these but guess what..shutdown

what if she isnt willing to have the conversation because she worried about uncomfortable topic. what do i do, im so sad i just want my sweet girlback.

I clicked on this video specifically to read the comments if you have to watch this video you probably should just leave and wish them the best. begging for sex is the best way to lose self respect for yourself and to allow someone to have control over you.If you weren’t prepared to consider this outcome you should’ve never married her and instead gotten into the right relationship where everything feels, like it’s moving forward and it’s effortless. Stop falling into this trap it makes you look like a loser MOVE ON!.

Wtf

Im the opposite. I have NO desire to have sex with my wife. Strike one She was a slim athletic 125 pounds when we got married. I still have muscles and a 6 pack at 48. Have a kickass body and she is complacent at 180 plus pounds. Strike 2 she is THEE most boring lay. She literally just lays there, wants me to do all the work, she has no oral skills and uses the excuse of TMJ saying she can't open her jaw wide enough. Wants to do nothing but bland vanilla sex and nothing freaky or adventurous. Strike 3 on the rare occasion we do anything she has the AUDACITY to criticize my performance. That was the last time we did anything 2 years ago because I officially refused from that point on. She nags be and tries to initiate 2 to 3 times a week which i don't know why she even bothers I've told her unless things change its an indefinite NO every time.

What if she just m wants to avoid dealing with the subject completely and then blames you for not knowing what to do to make it better?

More pandering to women. Yay

I don't advocate it. But now as a middle aged man. I now understand why older men end up dating a somewhat yonger woman late 20s to early 40s depending on the age of the man. The younger woman likes being intimate. Sex with them doesn't feel like charity. They really seem interested in you.

Listen to this girl if you want to get cheated on.

Men do live difficult lives yes, but we’re held to a high/higher standard because of our strengths.

Communicate the way she said to.
“I feel…” “I would really love if…”

It’s not your job to hold everything together and be perfect every way. But it is damn sure your job to communicate properly and consider her feelings and not just your own. Please stop acting like everything you do is overlooked.

1. Women stress too much over past and future events just like men.
2. Sometimes you are the more mature person in the relationship. Act like it.
3. Sometimes your not as good at communicating as you think.

My wife also throws tantrums when i ask for sex. She says I am too old and should not have sex at 48. What should i do?

Came here for tips on how to fix the intimacy in my marriage… found this sexy “librarian” hot chick always wearing low cut tops
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I'm sex starved with my wife so bad, so I watch this video made by an incredibly attractive young lady showing her beautiful chest 🤦

I laughed out loud when she said to suggest sex three times a week. She has no idea how infrequently most married men are getting laid.

Men have few choices. You can beg and beg and beg. You can ask/suggest or you can r***. Or you can just be silent and ultimately turn away from her entirely. That's really the only good option. So best thing is to get your finances squared away, remove any possessions that you don't want to lose and then plan your escape.

Had the conversation.... she openly admitted that she has no sexual drive and is a "drag"... I do everything you woman want.... I am involved with my kids, I work, I clean, I provide, I compliment her daily, I tell her everything, I don't cheat, I get into the bed the same time she does more or less... and if I never initiate it just doesn't happen... If I make a comment... "will you shower with me, I am met with no.... my hair..." if I try initiate she pushes my hands away... or just turns around and sleeps.

I am trying to be the perfect husband and father and be loving and understanding, I push my needs away and still nothing... so why be the good guy? What's the point....

We're high school best friends, lovers and I would do anything for her and there's nothing that I would ever have any type of fear and would do anything for her and I wouldn't have any doubt, fear or whatever was asked of me she's the one, and no one could ever compare,I'm really concerned that with me being sick, I can't perform as before and I'd love to, be able to do so, and I mean to top my own best performance Just so there is no doubt that I may be sick but I'll always love her and our 4 kids I'm worried that if I can't work it out then that's on me. Thanks for your time and I have faith that you may help us so we can't say that we didn't give it every thing that

THAT'S IMPOSSIBLE; GOD FORGOT TO GIVE WOMEN A SEX DRIVE, HE FUC**ED UP BIG TIME.

Quick overview - want a BJ? Know what your woman wants at all times even if she doesn’t tell you or show you emotionally and really hope that one day she feels like giving you a BJ 👍🏽

Reading these comments , I just feel bad.. I pray the fellas find the happiness they deserve because it seem like we all go through the same shit just different scenarios lol can never make women happy for too long it’s always a new problem

The answer is simple when people gets married first year lots of fun young hood sex but after a year kids come along then that’s the end of your sex life, she start to dress unattractive , start yelling at you and then demand you to cheer her up with expensive dinner and vaccines just because you made her angry asking her for sex. I’ve seen it all. If your loaded with money then she sticks to you for buying her cars, houses, expensive vacations and pay for childcare however if your an average dude then good luck to you, your life will get super tough and in worse case she can just leave you for making low amounts of money and asking her for sex will be your worst nightmare ever. Good luck to you all

Mam my wife tired of sex due to her past sexual relationship with her boyfriends... I nerver been in a relationship and never done it bt my wife dont like it so much .. she often say i m tired of it coz of sexual past...what can i do plz tell me ...

Lady you have no idea. You’re acting like women are logical. It got to that point because the man allowed it. Kick her out and let her crawl back or stay gone.

Women are attracted to alpha males. If she has lost attraction to you, then she no longer sees you as alpha. Having this very beta conversation with her is not likely to improve things long term. Unfortunately attraction isn’t based on logic. It’s based on emotions and the subconscious.

As much as everyone here will probably jump down my throat for saying it, the red pill guys are right on this particular point. There’s only one way for man to bring sex back into a marriage once his wife has shut him out, and that’s to reduce her level of security in her possession of you. Start working out, dressing better, give her less attention, DEFINITELY stop asking for sex, find hobbies that keep you out of the house more often, add back some sense of mystery, don’t answer her questions fully or give non-answers, and just generally act cooler toward her. I know that all sounds bad, because who wants to play games like that? The simple fact is that it works. Your wife was once attracted to you because she felt like you could get other women if you wanted to. Once she knows without a shadow of a doubt that you can’t and won’t, there is zero chance she will feel the same level of attraction. Make her jealous, make her nervous, and she will very willingly start sleeping with you again. Patrice O’Neal also had some great videos on this point. Again: I know how it sounds. But it’s how biology has programmed us. And the simple fact is, THIS is what works. Not what is said in this video about “communication” or any of that other bs. All that’s going to do is make your wife see you as more feminine and needy, and she will reject you even harder. Don’t believe me? Try out the advice in this video and let us all know how it works. Then try what I’m saying.

My case is difficult, as my father in law passed away during Covid, my mother in law came to stay with us and that took a complete pause in our sexual relationship. Finally as she is sent back, I hope to rekindle the relationship again.

Guys it just straight up not the right person for you. The right relationship feels effortless. If you reached the stage where you feel like your pulling a bolder by yourself cause she left the rope a long time ago it is time for you to take that for what it is and let go too without guilt. As men we are hardwired to fix things and that is what brings us to videos like this, cause you have already tried and thought of everything else and your looking for new ways you did not think of or try. Take a step back and see it for what it is. Chasing someone that has devalued you will cause you to devalue yourself. Don't end up stuck living in a situation where your parkner and yourself dislike you. Recovering from a bad self image is a harder road than any breakup or divorce.