6 Behaviors That Scare Men Off | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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What pushes women away:
1. Commenting to me that I gain weight (How dare you say I'm fat even though I am!!😭)
2. Not having the positive attitude towards life, or not having the spirit to go and improve himself especially in work/financial aspects, especially if he definitely need to use a boost in that area.

When a man wanted sex without any protection and no commitment, he scared me.

1) Talking about themselves alone during date nights
2) Wanting to be Worshiped
3) Having control over your actions
4)Making Decisions for you eg. want you wear, what you'd eat etc
5) Making sex a priority.
6) Constantly reminding you that there are other girls who want him hence you should be grateful he chose you!
7)Wanting you to pay for meals or mandatory splitting bills when on a date.
8) Interrupting conversations.
9) Insisting you'd come over to his house and/or sleep over.
10) Views every of your behavior as being dramatic.
11)Keeps "testing" you to prove your love for him
12)Yells all the time with the excuse that you're "stubborn"
13)Keeps saying you're ungrateful like it's some kind of mantra without any evidence
14)Wants you to do the "calling" rather than call you.
15) Keeps taking money/ loans from you.
16) Drinks a lot... like a lot! and/or smokes a lot!

I met my boyfriend on Ok Cupid, and the first thing he asked me was what kind of relationship I'm looking for, and I told him "I want a committed relationship that could lead to marriage. And I'm not settling for anything less than that". He said he's looking for his future wife, his soulmate. And then, he immediately asked me if we can keep talking and asked for my number.

He's been so consistent everyday since then and he's serious about getting to know me, and he told me about his intentions. He deleted his profile on the 4th day. We give each other peace and rhythm of communication. My point is, just be yourself. Be authentic, and be sincere about your needs in a relationship. If the man wants you, he will let you know. He will make the effort. Choose the man who chooses you.

That part where she said you are perfect hilarious 😂

Nothing is more sexy than a man doing stuff for ya
I always learn from them ❤

What scares me away is when a stranger asks for my number or butts in. I like it when they connect and from that connection things develop, including friendship.

What pushes me away is a man that jumps in with both feet right away. Like on the second date, he says he loves me..he is overly affectionate and says I am just the right person for him, when I know that he doesn’t even know me at all

A behaviour that scares me away from a man is when I see them behaving in a particular way, that they think will endear themselves to me, but which doesn't seem authentic to who they are. Basically, they come across as trying too hard. Being someone they aren't just to attract my attention; examples would be, telling jokes to try to make me laugh, or being overly serious when they are normally more laidback. At the end of the day, being unapologetically authentic about who they are, and what they are about, is the most attractive quality in anyone.

These all fit for me as well, except I’m a woman. So instead of emasculating, it might be more like undermining or parenting.

Sorry, I can't understand the 7th, Having too much famine energy. What does this mean?😮😮

Leaving a relationship you’re not happy in is much easier than emotionally damaging someone. But selfish people don’t get that

Matt, will you give some dating advise for older adults, seniors that want to find someone, to love again. Connie

Well that's not good at all it should be a deep relationship... Hey there it's nice meeting you and hope I ain't bothering you with my comment hope to hear from you soon.

WRONG! he shouldnt be paying providing, until he is SURE she is worth it, this is ALWAYS the gamble with women.
she could be bleeding him dry, loving his money or status more than him.
I still believe in some ways *especially as a man ) you shouldnt be a slave to convention, donig what you heard a man is supposed to do, straight out of the instruction book all the time.
See HER point of view, she is so used to being pampered, she could well be bored with it & unimpressed, so how do you behave?
Mutual respect neither one of you thinking their better than the other, let her choose her reasons for being interested, don't try to bribe or con, if she likes you for being yourself, your on to a winner

Clingyness no self worth or self love selfishness no confidence doesn't have own life can't cook and clean

Constantly late, interrupts me when he asks me a question and turns into about him. Not opening doors including the car door might open it to let you in but doesn't open it and help you out of the car especially when dressed up!

Thank you, I will be doing this.