How Difficult Is It To Get Married In China? | ASIAN BOSS

Ma boi got roasted 😪

The solution to this problem will only become clear when the consequences of this get really clear. This can take more than one generation.
Today people will be just be arguing and giving faux reasons. People will be making excuses time and time again.
In the future it will be clear for the ones who really need marriage.
It will take a series of many types of crisis, like social, economical, mental health for people then say: Ah, let's stop making excuses or else...
The individual roles will be more clear. The excuses we hear today will clearly seem nonsense.

Don't worry bro.... U can marry a male partner... Men have big heart and no expectations

Why does this guy think he deserves a model?

dont care about love just money... thats so sad man...

thinking people are old at 30 is just ridiculous what a weird standard. live your life and do whatever makes you happy as long as you aint harming anyone

Wheat Waffles was right. Dating is in shambles. High expectations, and pickiness will lead many into the sea of singles. Ukraine is there. China is there. Europe is there. America is there too. I think people's expectations should go down and then one can find marriage with the opposite gender, but in 2023, people's expectations are really up and I don't see this ever going down. People regardless of looks and social class want top-tier men and top-tier women for their sons and daughter. These impossible standards will only lead more people to be single. It's sad! If you can't marry a 10-wife then marry a 5-wife who has a great body. April 5, 2023. USA.

Is that a lot?

No.

Seems a bit vague...

I see bunch of Chinese parents don't know how to manage their own lives, so they put all the focus attention onto their next generation. 以愛之名實干涉之易以達到精神寄託的目的 because finding oneself is the most hardest. Chinese culture hardly teaches people how to get to know themselves better. It's about collectivism instead of individualism

The topic is beautiful and it is universal. Most people have this culture and view of women. In the Arab world, we have a similar view of women of marriageable age, knowing that the Islamic religion does not have this view, but rather it is the customs and habits that sometimes overwhelm the religion.. When the Prophet Muhammad came 1400 years ago, he broke the rule that was widespread during the pre-Islamic days among the Arabs, as he married Khadija Which is older than him in age, where the novels say that he was older than him between 5 to 10 years, and she was a successful woman in trade and had her own business, and he also his grandparents were people of trade

Is Kei Biracial? He looks mixed between Caucasian and Japanese

Chinese marriage fraud is pretty common in USA, beware.

"Made me co-owner of his house" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Woman calm down)))

If you have money , you have personally ....Good quote uncle ji 😍😊😊😊🙄🤔🤔

I like your videos, this one is awesome.
The money is so important there, but that has become the rule in every big City.

In the meantime it's literally impossible for everybody to own a house so if the culture don't change, some people are out of the marrying business! For the marrying agencies, you want to be rich: investo on changing the public perception about getting married!

I enjoy my existance being not married in my 40ties. These people sell their children as if they're slaves. I had a normal mother who accepted my choices.

If the number one reason to get married is to be rich no wonder the divorce rate is so high in China. Too much pressure is placed on the male to have own an apartment. Why should a man put a womans name on his property when he alone purchase it?

I'm in my early 20s and never had any boyfriend, i'hv my goals to achieve many things to do, want my own house first.

I don't care what people think about it.
I'll be bachelor untill I found the person I really want to spent my life with.😎
I don't want to get married just to please society.


It's not just china
As a nepali born and Indian raised girl myself I experienced both side of mindset of people and trust me girl in every country treated same way.
A girl in my neighbour she's in late 20s and the way my society womens talk about her is really frustrating.
And in Nepal (as long I experienced) if a girl married early she's treated good.
If a girl in her late 20s people started to call her 'katai na bikeki'
It's same as "leftover"😩

(Excuse my english 🙇)

Facts, btch your a left over

If I was born in China , I would end up my life being a monk meditating in the forest

So sick to see this society in this 2022

WTF !!! Oops , feel sad

Massive respect to the Chinese people for the realism.Marriage,what both genders look for in each other are not the stuff of fairytales.This is something as a man under 25 years old I have come to realise 🤷🏽‍♂️.

Honestly all I am getting from this is that Chinese women have standards and are not prepared to accept just any man. Why would any one want their children to marry someone who can barely afford to shelter and feed himself. Most of these people lived through the pre 80s poverty in China and now have only one child. Why would you want that child to marry into poverty, Better to stay single and enjoy your life. Plus the older men with money want young girls so I don't blame toe older women from not accepting scraps.

Over 30 the eggs reduce by 95%. And down further you go. Best marry younger than 30 or 25 to have the best chance of having kids. The older you are the more difficult it becomes

What a miserable society to live in.

The presenter is out of luck in Shanghai. He needs to find digital nomadic or expat-type partner, who shares his ideals and values. Or go for a super-leftover women.

my husband said that once he got rejected by the parent's girl because he didn't have a house or a car yet.. he didn't have anything because he was still single..
yet, when he came to my parent, my parent that convinced me to marry him because everything will follow along with the marriage.. my parent said that God will give "rezeki" or income or more fortune when you already have a family..
all my sisters got married with a man with just avarage salary with no car or a house, slowly but sure we have one by one by being together saving the money here and there.. there will be always ways..
but then again it is easier for men in my country to find women because there are more girls than boys..

More like 'left out' than leftover.

Flat broke and fapping in a grimy stripped down rental unit on the bad side of town

If she’s single past 30 the issue is her

It's all about money. Their is no connection with any kind of love from women's

Superficial asians who are very loud about it in public have no idea the level of embarrassment it causes to a lot of other asians that have to be around them. Its like our rapper version of new money meets ignorance. But seriously cut that s.o. its uncontrollably embarrassing for some to have to deal with.

The past policies of the Chinese government have created a unique problem but the rest of it, the "qualifications" of the single people needed, doesn't seem different than any other culture. Men must be rich and women must be young and attractive. Same everywhere.

This is crazy I’m glad I don’t live in China and I’m not Chinese this is very sad

As usual it is a contrast between older generations and younger ones. The younger ones does not feel pressured to get married and start a family at age 24. They wanna enjoy life and travel. Different times now.

Super leftovers vs Golden Bachelors. in reality there's little difference, its more or less similar to seeing a glass half full or half empty. The guys were much wiser here

I think old ppl were right but that old man not looking for personality isn't good

The people think it's a trade, I give you my daughter you feed and shelter her, that's all I care about. That type of mentality.

so my boyfriend is chinese, after seeing all this parent's qualifications, i am really concern right now

If I look around I don't feel bad being single, nobody is goodlooking in my area. Everyone ugly. So if I see handsome online that is the only time I feel bad that i am single lols. I am not envious of anybody around me since nobody has handsome husband here. It's very rare for me to see somebody I like. It's like just 1 in a million.

I am not a leftover because leftover seems like women who been pass on to many men. Maybe I can just be called a preserve woman lols. I have more preservatives so I am not yet expired. Leftover women are those who been used by many men.

if you have talent and money you can have 5 women to sleep with at any time. up to 5 relations.

When you tell a lie long enough it becomes truth for those who don't seek out the factual truth.

Gosh, that's horrible to watch. Their children must be embarrassed of their parents.

Would I be a good canidate, just curious. "lets say hypothetically that I make" 350k usd year and I own a piece of land, then the rest is facts 5'11''3/4, 180lbs, body well built. I have looks that toggle between 8 and 9 but 10 when I spend months of self care. Male and Hispanic

It’s discrimination on both ends, the wife has to have beauty and youth and the husband is the atm. It’s not really discrimination, it’s evolutionary psychology and biology. You have to deal in reality.
There is nothing wrong with placing high value on a man’s education and what he owns as a qualifier, it does speak volumes in the absence of anything else. It means he studied, beat out a lot of the competition to make it. Sure beats looks which fades over time. Personality can be forged out between the two once they get together.

Move to another place bro