Trying To Make Friends In A Brand New City

Love this video. Thanks for the advice.

Its been 4 months since i moved to dubai and I have no friends. Wish me luck guys

i just can't let go of my inner cringe. it feels impossible.

To make friends, you only have two options. You dominate or you suck up. Pop culture? Hobbies? Food? Dominate or suck up.

Bro really said Whole Foods is the ideal friend making spot

this is so wholesome

I recently moved to a small town from a big city where, up until I moved, I had spent my whole life. I’m still in high school and living in such a small town and there is practically no one like me considering the culture difference from such a big city to here. I would try and maybe get out like Cole did in this video and try and find people like me but with how small the town is there really isn’t anywhere to go that I would be interested in or that might have people like me, so overall I just don’t know what to do. Should I just spend the rest of my high school years alone and just move away as soon as possible or is there someone out there?

Now how do you maintain it

who was the barber?

I think it is difficult to make friends in the park or beer garden. It is easier to chat to people at organised events. Classes, clubs etc. Where there is a social agreement that people are cordual with eachother.

Me who's moved 4 times since moving out of my parents home: not caring about making friends

Me personally I couldn’t do this😂

This video is the definition of uplifting content

You're white. Everyone's your friend.

Just moved in to a new school where i don't know anyone, this video definitely helps me feel more confident 😂

i wouldnt be able

Your lucky to live in a city. There is nothing to do in the suburbs

Respect for getting out of your comfort zone. I sometimes don’t have the confidence to approach people but really want to get out there like you

So I had a lot of friends back home then moving put me in a bad place. I basically had 0 friends for 3 years.I’m antisocial. Scared of people now.Change my personality. I’m in Texas right now

Hi ILove your curnty and your voice

I just moved from Austin. Noticed Zilker there lol I could have been around!!

I keep seeing that piece of advice—find people by going to activities you already enjoy—and it's honestly not that helpful. All my hobbies happen to be rather solitary. I love reading, movies, and stuff like that, which isn't really the kind of thing I go out to do, which leaves that piece of "obvious" advice to be just about as far from intuitive to me as it can get. The instances when I do go out, the thought of strangers approaching me is scary, and so I wouldn't want to make people uncomfortable by doing that to them. I feel like I must be socially stunted or something, because I've only ever made friends in school because of proximity and because they're the ones who reached out to me. So while I have friends, I have zero clue how to expand my small social circle.

"I don't know anyone here"
Camera man:

I have no friends at my new school. My old best friend is at this school too but he has new friends now.
It all started going downhill when I became conscious

POV: ýou searched for a mitski song

Wow man I clicked on this man I literally just moved to Austin Texas a week afo

wish I was this brave of getting out of my house and talk to people..

step 1 : move cities get off your current environment

I really appreciate this video because I have no friends and I need them

I love the vibe of this video. The way I make friends is that I try group courses of things I'm interested in or this way like in the video if I'm lucky. My advice is, try to find communities of people that do what you love. Concerts too if you're actually passionate about the artist, easy to find like minded people there. And know that EVERYONE is looking to meet new people that put themselves out like that. The worst they can say is no, win win.

Thank you for this video

I’m 26 years old is it too late for me
To gain dating experience and social experience

Can I make friends with you? I'm an introverted Chinese boy

Great content! I moved to Austin from Argentina six months ago, I know how hard is it when are an introvert alone in a new city.

I’ll be your friend

When he said Austin, TX i instantly knew he was gonna come across friendly people.

I literally met the black dude in this video recently

"No" isnt the WORST thing they can say, they could say: "Sure, come with me!" and then they take you to their house and murder you












































funny ruining ppl social skills

Try Being 40+ years old and single...and moving to a new city

I’ll defo be your friend. I have a lot to talk about haha

So a week ago, just to clarify I'm in this camp. And these two girls sat at a table with us, me and my three other aqquantinces and they looked uncomfortable so I asked nicely if they could move and they did. So when I talked to my aqquantinces they looked at me like I was, scary or something. One said I was a bitch with another and then I tell my mom and apparently I was a bully just for asking them that even when they did nothing. But I don't know how to explain my side without feeling like I'm playing victim when I just didn't care, I was uncomfortable and my friends were because we didn't know them and in that moment I didn't introduce us and instead asked them to leave. Is that so wrong? In the past I would've been so happy for someone to sit with me but now I just say whatever is on my mind and somehow I'm a bad person, am I? Im confused

Thumbnail is the life of teagan

I believe in you man

Guess I must be a sociopath, because I find people mostly uninteresting.

Crazy I just moved to Austin and don’t know a single person down here and then at random I came across this video so random

Thanks for sharing your experience have a great day ❤