Forever wishing motherhood was full time for me   #SingleMomVlogs | Coparenting

Forever wishing motherhood was full time for me #SingleMomVlogs | Coparenting

Abbey Fickley

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@SallyKerry-c3h
@SallyKerry-c3h - 12.08.2024 06:46

Abbey- I want you to know, every day I wait until right before bed to watch your new shorts. Usually every day, you will post 1-2, which always help me fall asleep!! I have been here since you were doing Myla’s hair for school. I am a huge fan, some of my family is from Pittsburgh so I am always sharing some of your community events with them. You have inspired me so much. I am a girl in middle school, I followed you halfway through 6th grade and you have gotten me to the beginning of 8th grade. You are my favorite content creator! You inspire me everyday!! I have told all of my friends about you and they are such big fans as well!! Abbey, please continue what you’re doing, you have changed my life- you got me through middle school. Thank you!! A sissy!!

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@1ndonly.addy123
@1ndonly.addy123 - 12.08.2024 06:51

Aww I love how Porsha sleeps with myla I wish my dog slept I my loft brd 😢😭🫶🏽

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@tatercakes29
@tatercakes29 - 12.08.2024 07:44

Myla climbing up the wall thinking you're gonna be dramatic about it and you don't even bat an eye 😂

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@jessicaperry2184
@jessicaperry2184 - 12.08.2024 07:52

It is full time. Even if shes at Dad's ur still mom and always working towards her future to be better...no such thing as part time parent imo...if ur there ur 💯

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@flipsideof45
@flipsideof45 - 12.08.2024 08:06

You are! But I understand what you mean. I hope that you realize either now or at some point along the way that probably a combination of your life experience and being a coparent has made you put an incredible amount of intention in being a very full and present mother at all times, even when she may not physically be present with you. That is a gift that so many children of “typical intact” families have no understanding of what that is. I know I’ve been there, as well as other friends of mine who focused on staying together and ignoring the fact that our children were watching an unhealthy relationship. It is damaging them in addition to the fact that it’s also distracting from the ability to be incredibly as present as you are. I am still married and have fought through a lot of those trials with now grown (almost!) children.

Similarly, I was a young mama, and I too, became addicted to opiates, right smack in the middle of my career and the height of motherhood. That entire experience of the addiction and rehabilitation process made me so much more aware of what is important… and I changed so much as a person. This was by intentionally and also unconsciously doing so because I put my priorities in place as they should be, which caused me to be an extremely present mother, who was very much in your shoes, except for the fact that I was fortunate enough to have them live with me at all times AND because my husband was incredibly gracious to walk me and hold my hand through the sobriety process. I now have a bunch of other things that are related to chronic pain and disease (which started the whole addiction and dependency by the hands of my doctor in the first place), but I would rather deal with those things and have the focus that I do now as opposed to what my priorities and life was like over 10 years ago. May 2025 will hit my 10 years of sobriety with not one relapse, and for that, I am forever grateful! Now, if I can only find my hot mom self back then I will be complete 😊

Keep killing it, Abbey!

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@thashamedina9774
@thashamedina9774 - 12.08.2024 12:15

I swear if someone arguse about what shes wearing or what she does i might lose my mind she is the best mom ive seen on this page that doesnt expose her child

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@owllilly5535
@owllilly5535 - 12.08.2024 12:22

You make me excited to be a mom one day 😊❤

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@IMOGENSILVERNAIL
@IMOGENSILVERNAIL - 12.08.2024 15:46

Abbey were is mylas vanity from

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@ind0cean
@ind0cean - 12.08.2024 16:07

You’re so cute

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@tallulahtaylor4198
@tallulahtaylor4198 - 12.08.2024 16:09

all I could think about is why are all the lights on even with the curtains open😂😭

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@wanderlustintuition111
@wanderlustintuition111 - 12.08.2024 16:36

Fruit and microwaved food are a COMPLETE CONTRADICTION

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@lalala6420
@lalala6420 - 12.08.2024 17:00

Does the girl's Mum consent to you exploiting her online?

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@Saleha786.
@Saleha786. - 12.08.2024 17:09

"hI mOmMa"
"HI bAbBa"

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@SunorrahCupit
@SunorrahCupit - 12.08.2024 17:55

are they both you kids

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@Itsbriiyallll
@Itsbriiyallll - 12.08.2024 20:07

I am today years old when i found out u can put 2 things in the microwave at once😂😂

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@Chickenovie
@Chickenovie - 12.08.2024 20:27

I lost my mom at 10 years old due to addiction, Everytime I watch you and your baby I like to think this is how my mom and I would of been if she recovered💜 I love the relationship you have with her and it reminds me of all the good times I had with my momma🥹💗 thank you for sharing this special relationship with all of us🦄🌸

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@annamckinnon9259
@annamckinnon9259 - 12.08.2024 21:20

It's my birthday today 🎉

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@jessicavelasco2281
@jessicavelasco2281 - 12.08.2024 23:22

What state do u guys live in?

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@Alyese_L
@Alyese_L - 13.08.2024 01:01

People think your trans 😂

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@MUCHLUVHOLLS
@MUCHLUVHOLLS - 13.08.2024 02:00

Please Say hi Hollie from u and myla ( in a vid or not ) I love yall sm

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@crystalcropp4332
@crystalcropp4332 - 13.08.2024 05:20

I think you look your best when you just wake up n still have messy hair! Just natural and you have a beautiful family! I've been sober for 3 years now and I actually got a car and job and apartment as soon as I got clean .. it's like everyone couldn't wait to help me out, I have two little boys and now a much bigger apartment and great job and I take great care of them as I'm told but I feel like I have a lot of making up to do.. do you feel like that? I sometimes wonder if it's just me.. depression still gets me some days and I have a lot of anxiety and PTSD from being with their father, I started studying for my GED and then give up and then start up again it's like I can't focus.. I just want a better job to better support them so we never have to struggle a day again!! But I hope you and your family the best and we will keep watching your wholesome videos!!

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@sophtheghost
@sophtheghost - 13.08.2024 07:10

reminds me of my mom so much ❤ my dad left pretty early and she always always was the house to host sleepovers, i will always remember those nights!!

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@Artcrafttime23OsauLara-ls8ib
@Artcrafttime23OsauLara-ls8ib - 13.08.2024 13:12

My mom. & dad died so i live alone I wish I was Myla sister 😢

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@Artcrafttime23OsauLara-ls8ib
@Artcrafttime23OsauLara-ls8ib - 13.08.2024 13:14

I want to be a cheerleader when I grow up 😢

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@SiSi-oi5xn
@SiSi-oi5xn - 14.08.2024 07:21

Cold day in hell I let my kid stay at someone’s house when the mother dresses like that. Cover up

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@BraelynnDurrant
@BraelynnDurrant - 14.08.2024 20:00

Both of the schedules

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@小乔-m4r
@小乔-m4r - 14.08.2024 23:43

Mmm Srry to ask but the one next to myal who is she?

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@Rafaella-live
@Rafaella-live - 15.08.2024 00:01

Are they two year girls?

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@harleemelland321
@harleemelland321 - 15.08.2024 01:24

Abbey your such an amazing mama!!❤❤

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@Annabelllorion-vt4cf
@Annabelllorion-vt4cf - 15.08.2024 04:06

One time I was hanging on the door frame and I fell and bit my lip and my tooth was stuck in my lip because I hit the floor so hard

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@TheMarksy1980
@TheMarksy1980 - 15.08.2024 17:58

Hi abbey I’m an 8 year old girl and I love your videos I watch them all the and I want to be a kind mom like you when I’m older

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@Matti_your_girl
@Matti_your_girl - 15.08.2024 19:22

I still don’t understand how she single like she’s so beautiful so is her daughter pls pin me I luv u guys so much ❤❤❤❤❤

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@AlexisAliff
@AlexisAliff - 16.08.2024 03:55

Wait you have tow kids

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@Drinkbeerusmc
@Drinkbeerusmc - 16.08.2024 13:48

Not sure if you know about Jimmy Dean breakfast bowls you can make breakfast burritos One Bowl will get you two burritos just saw that you look for quick meals

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@SiennaPlaysDti897
@SiennaPlaysDti897 - 16.08.2024 17:52

So pretty

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@Jaydenwestenfelder
@Jaydenwestenfelder - 17.08.2024 18:38

Love you Abby

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@rainbowmommy1224
@rainbowmommy1224 - 18.08.2024 01:11

I love love your content and your relationship with your daughter ❤ your like a mentor to me girl ❤

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@saraharnasch8374
@saraharnasch8374 - 18.08.2024 02:14

😅🤍

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@MJW-w8u
@MJW-w8u - 19.08.2024 02:13

You look so gorgeous with your glasses on. I love seeing you wear them.❤️🥰

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@Nelli-v8q
@Nelli-v8q - 20.08.2024 04:42

You should be beyond proud of yourself ❤

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@shalokshalom
@shalokshalom - 20.08.2024 06:41

You look good without the makeup

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@KylaBorersky
@KylaBorersky - 21.08.2024 04:09

Not myla casually hanging in the doorway!😂

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@Trixi-c5u
@Trixi-c5u - 22.08.2024 18:04

Honestly ur so pretty and such a good parent I love ur vids ur the best I’m ur number one fan the way you look after myla is just amazing ❤

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@Catanddoglover147
@Catanddoglover147 - 24.08.2024 00:16

Your probably the best vlogging mom you are so real and relatable

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@noellezander3070
@noellezander3070 - 24.08.2024 05:10

I am 9 years 10 years clean in June of this year, and I am not a single mom, but if I become one you are an inspiration! Get it giiiiirl!

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@KelsyKrueger-v2o
@KelsyKrueger-v2o - 27.08.2024 05:00

PLZ tell me where you got ur hair sis ❤❤❤❤

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@Peso_Pluma20
@Peso_Pluma20 - 28.08.2024 06:45

wow um I’m a SZA fan too😅

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@Thatonegymnast
@Thatonegymnast - 28.08.2024 06:51

I love how myla is just casually hanging in the door way🤣🤣

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@UrFavBlondielicious
@UrFavBlondielicious - 02.09.2024 19:46

Wait is the other girl your daughter or Milas friend?

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