Questions to Ask Before You Get Engaged - Dr. David Gudgel

"Compatibility is very important. Your values concerning self-expression, money, health, career and providership—even your world view—must be in alignment with another. Again, there may be differences, and these differences can be very helpful, but if there are sharp contrasts and these contrasts are based upon the nature and design of both you and the other person, this will limit your participation together. This can limit your ability to accomplish any task together."

Relationships and Higher Purpose » Chapter 12: Establishing Relationships - by Marshall Vian Summers. (free online/highly recommend)

I'm an introvert and am married to myself, happily.

Has nada to do with introvert or extrovert. Has everything to do with healthy character development and alignment with identity (individually and as a bride of Christ.)

The modern Church is very confused on this topic. Young people are marrying later and less (with more marriages ending in divorce) so in response Church "experts" instruct them to scrutinize a potential mate under a microscope. The antidote to divorce in the Church is not compatibility--how can two sinners be compatible?--but a radical commitment to Christ and their covenant.

Charmin, charming man!
The point in the Kelly moment was well illustrated. Count the cost. What things are you willing to live n not live with.
I would have given Kelly up too 🐕🍝🤣

I certainly hope Kelly got an owner that actually cared about him or her. Sheesh!

he lied about everything. 25 years later divorced.

My husband never proposed to me too 😂. Love the oak tree idea 😊

I agree Great potcast Like always with Focus O T Family ⭐️❤️🙏🕊 wonderful advice.

I asked her I want to marry her I bought her engemnent ring after give her

Do not propose. The time is short.
If married, act as if you are not. IF not stay single.
Work for the L-RD.
❤️❤️SHALOM❤️❤️

Thank you! Order the book and keep praying for guidance.