When a Twin Flame Chaser Gives Up or Moves On What Happens Next?

I didn't give up. I accepted both sides of myself. I found balance within myself but he in the 3D is still running. So I have to focus on myself. He has to want to heal himself. I can't do it for him. He'll always be in the back of my mind. I'm about to start a new job so that has to be one of my main focuses right now.

Well i am not doing this for the rest of my life . I am making the effort hr isn't and that is the truth!!!

I'm confused. If this journey is a soul connection. Why is it that so many people talk about interventions that are not of the soul? I question where everyone gets their info! This is purely an awakening. A soul journey. I say do you! Love yourself! The dm aka runner is not in control here.

I've been working on myself diligently and continuously. Every time I get to a place of moving on and feeling ok with myself BAM! A million signs and synchronicities and dreams about her. This often leaves me a wreck and feeling like I'm back at square 1. When I try to date something always hinders it. I'm held to this person it seams. Im sick of feeling like a dancing monkey or a donkey chasing a carrot. I just want to be me.

It’s in God’s hands now, I’m gone

Realized that chaser/runner dynamics are a big waste of time and mental energy. Just focus on doing your purpose in the world. If you needed them to fulfill your purpose, God would put them there. There's no need to chase anybody.

I guess they are not a twin flame if they don't want to be with us. I guess it's also possible one person can have strong feelings and the other person feels nothing. I'm done with my person. I can hope she comes back to me but that will never happen. She has too many issues and prefers to be alone and obviously doesn't see me that way.

Okay I got a question for you say that a twin flame Chaser or Runner has a choice of moving on and that Union will not take place in this lifetime but in my case the Divine masculine choosing the karmic for 100 solid years God has told the Divine masculine as well as myself that we will be coming into permit physical 3D Union in this lifetime because our soul is being retired are you telling me what I'm supposed to do when my masculine is still pulling the same bulshit that he has for the last 100 years choosing this karmic and I explained it like this that she is so good it's like dealing the movie Groundhog Day where Bill Murray happens to repeat Groundhog Day every single day and he learns about certain things to do certain things not to do what kind of fun he can have and drinking and partying and all this, this shit this woman is very aware of the last 100 years she is getting Clarity herself from the Devil so she knows all the ins and outs of the Divine masculine and she manipulates every single one of his emotions like she has for the last 100 years and he refuses to come forward even if God himself is willing to make this karmic his mother his sister his aunt his friends that are all fake and our karmic this karmic feminine has been able to surround him with nothing but karmic including his mother sister his brother everybody in his life is karmic except for me is divine feminine and he absolutely refuses he won't get out of the relationship with this comic and then he'll go right running into another relationship and immediately asked that person to marry him whether it is a guy or it is a female now you tell me what I'm supposed to do God himself tells me not to give up on him not to walk away from him not to do anything and now all of a sudden when this Divine masculine has made it very clear that how he hates me they never wants to be with me he never will he would rather fucking slice his wrist and go to hell before he will even ever be with me and God himself is now saying well now you need to well I guess I'm just going to send you another soulmate and you will love that person no matter what and you will get married to that person no matter what so now you tell me what I'm supposed to because I'm on the verge of killing myself because I don't believe that God has a right to put me in any kind of arranged marriage I don't believe that how I am now they in love with my person and supposedly he's madly in love with me and yes he's bisexual and I'm gay and this karmic woman refuses to give up on him and I never thought that I would live a day in my life to see that God himself is so fucking afraid of this woman that he won't even take up any action against her nothing action against her because she's the future bride of Satan so like I said who really is running this world sure as hell not God it's not like the Devil Himself again seems like the devil has more power than God himself does God has not done anything but abandoned me and forsaken me every single day of my life that this woman has been involved and guess what God was the one that brought this woman into our life because we were perfectly fine and happy and everything was going great until God stepped in and he came my third party and she is divine masculine third-party so until I get God out of my life I don't even see my Divine masculine coming forward anytime soon severe nervous breakdown and it's been in the hospital and he's drinking himself to death because God will not stop God will not stop until God has him dead because God wants his divine feminine to himself so he can fuck his divine feminine ass don't you know you tell me what I'm supposed to do when God tells me you don't need anybody but me and if you get lonely you just open up your mouth really wide and I will give you the Divine seed and fill your mouth with the Divine seed that is exactly what God has told me I didn't got screenshots of batshit you tell me exactly what I'm supposed to do now because I'm going up the verge of killing myself and I will I will not make it talk to everyone because I'm tired of this God shit and I'm tired of fighting being told and being mentally and emotionally raped by God on a daily basis

I will never give up on him. I will die here even if it’s one sided love. But that doesn’t mean I won’t try. I will detach, work on myself, and try my best. Twinflames are a paradox. When you “try” to get into union you are running away from it. So don’t try. Detach.

I am sorry, plz 🙏 forgive me, I love 💕 you, thankyou

I love myself so deeply like never before. I REALIZED my toxic patterns so my "tf" probably was there to make me pay attention.
And i will..
I dont need them in my life anymore.
I just choose my peace , he drained me honestly.
I am thankful for lessons but no will to possibly have new round of shit lol.
I am not afraid i just cannot and thats my decition.
Hope he will awake for himself.wishing him peace and health.

I'm done with this. I got someone who CHOOSES ME and I'm running with that (pun intended). I don't care if he returns anymore, he can continue running. I HAVE A LIFE to live and things to do. I won't wait around. Enough of that.

The urge to give up is very strong in this sort of connection because the pain is so bad. As a chaser I am trying not to trouble the twin flame runner. I haven't contacted him in almost 7 years. My TF journey began 11 years ago. I tried to build a relationship with someone else but that almost relationship failed before it could begin and this happened because someone else influenced the person I was trying to move on with against me. It feels like I have failed in love. My health is failing too even though I am only 35. Feeling hurt, exhausted and alone.

Sending you a love and prayers.

You know what blows me away? Is how your OWN SOUL can hurt you like they do. And not HAVE A CARE IN THE WORLD. And treat you like you NEVER EXISTED. And KILL YOUR ESTEEM, MAKE YOU FEEL WORTHLESS. To the point of giving up on everything. Like FAITH and TRUST and HUMANITY. Especially when that was NEVER an issue or question about it before. They turned everything about you completely around. To the point of giving up on everything that made you, YOU. Enough to just not care about anything or anybody anymore. To make you feel worthless.

Honestly this twin flame mess I wouldn’t wish on nobody but the it’s actually true. After 6 months of dealing with this I’m done. This makes our 3rd split. Our first was for 3 months , the second was like 2-3 weeks and Now today. I’m tired of chasing even though I never considered myself a chaser but it is what it is. But tired of the rollercoaster of emotions the inconsistency and lack of communication. I asked for a soulmate and ended up with this… I really don’t care if he comes back at this point I don’t care how many days or years. You can’t make a person see your value and if I can take the time to heal then why can’t he? Time waits for no one and life is to short. Either get on the boat or you gone miss it…period.

This is more to play with your inner soul and mind. Why would you go back to someone who was with you then left you to be with other people? You would actually take them back? I wouldn’t.

❤❤❤

With my partner we did a moving on excercise before her death to reassure her that i had the capacity. We used conscious separation to achieve this.

I’m doing the abandonment and codependency inner work. I’ve looped a few times. I have to give up and be in my core self for a bit, get used to it, new behaviors, beliefs and habits

Once the chaser move on, the online tf guru will lose income

i have moved on with the blessing of him
Hope i can find a good soulmate that worthy of me
soon

Focusing on myself,and everything is going fine now, always focus on self and become the singularity of the soul

Runner here… I don’t chase even when we switched roles. I work on myself upon meeting himz now we don’t communicated in 3D but we always talk in our minds. i thought I was going insane until I knew someone went thru the same journey as me.

Yup, we switched. A very strange dynamic. I felt it became toxic to me, so I ended our communication. It is VERY difficult.

Can you please explain what does it mean if someone gives up on the journey? By letting go of my twin and focus on myself? Or stop working on myself?

I once read that twins who've never had sex are much more likely to achieve Union. It gives me hope.

i was the runner, as a female. i just wasn’t ready. It frightened me so i ran far far away from him. I’m now at a place where i’m not running and i feel ready for this

What if the runner has passed on but the connection continues 🤔

I feel my situation is much more unique which is not easily categorized...

Thanks!!

I heard todas to a woman that is the runner, talking about how they think, and it really hurts. They Just almost hate you Just because you are there for them, they feel your attention unconfortable they dislike the chaser's continuing being kind and lavable with them, so they get distancia and go dating other People, only if the New person or ex doesn't give them all the good things and attention you gave them, they come back for those things you gave them, I remember parte of the Journey is time of going and coming, so they are looking for a person that gives them better attention than you when they are running, and so what for you have to change and work in your fears and trauma for them? Do it for you. It doesn't matter if they come back or not, do it for you. Maybe won't be this time, Who knows what was your soul contract with him? Nobody knows.

Mine is helping me with mine. We are a team

What if this is your last incarnation? What happens then?? So if it doesn’t happen this lifetime and this is the chasers last incarnation?

Ever since he committed to leaving his abusive karmic and marry me, his karmic has been threatening him regarding their kids and she began to demand a 4th child so he doesn't leave. He just told me she us pregnant now and so he is withdrawing I don't know what to do. I'm beyond heart broken. She us very abusive nd knows he won't leave now

I finally surrendered after 15 years of emotional torment, pain, loss, obsession, and longing for my twin. I never felt so free in my life. I’m no longer interested and no longer desire the reunion ❤

I was the chaser and I think that maybe it’s just possible that there was no connection like I felt there was . Maybe the sex was only amazing to me and that when I looked at him I could see things in the future that I could only see because I was the only one wanting that shit . Either way I went crazy for over a year thinking about him everyday . It was making me physically Sick I couldn’t stop thinking about it and us . Finally one day I woke up and didn’t think about him I was good, then this fool messages me to tell me some shit he had no plans of doing and then blocked me AGAIN twin flames is bullshit just men with narcissistic attributes and don’t care for you like u wish . Just let it go and find someone who doesn’t make you wonder if your crazy because a person who is into you will be there to show you they want you and their efforts will be worth it . Sitting waiting for someone who isn’t gonna show up or show out is just u wasting time on yourself love . Be the best you so that if you ever see them again in flesh they can think DAMN I SHOULDNT OF LEFT THAT BEHIND

Imo it’s all divinely orchestrated, all you have to do is sit back, work on yourself, and your higher selves will line it all up. Chasing and pushing gets us nowhere anyways so allow the process, trust the advanced intelligences know exactly the right way to get you in the right place at the right time. If it’s meant to be it’ll happen!

I'm a DF in the TF journey. I need the separation was needed. I needed to balance the confusion from the runner. I miss her constantly. I don't see myself being a runner or chaser. I just knew our separation was needed. I've told the universe that when it's time, she'll return. All I keep hearing (internally) patience, compromise and forgiveness. All the time. Yet, I don't hear to just give up.

Disclaimer: TF journeys are always deeply personal, of course. 💟

In my own journey, I was the chaser, and while I gave my TF space, I never gave up on him. I did my shadow work & healed from my trauma that caused a rift before. From then on, I approached every interaction with him from a place of unconditional love rather than fear. There’s a balance to TF journeys; sometimes you may need to separate in order to heal. But if you both put in the inner work and are open to change, you may find your way back to each other—if it’s in the highest good for both of your journeys (and/or your TF journeys). ❤

I decided to move on and to chase myself : focusing on love, boundaries and my journey. He did came back but nothing was the same. I was high on life and I was a new person. The reunion was blissful and is still is up until today. I now understand why we had to go through this second separation ✨

My twin and I met 17 years ago - we dated for a year in a relationship that was magical that is the only way I can explain it. However he left me and married another women! I was crushed on a soul level! So I picked myself up and moved my family 1,000 miles away back to my childhood state. I never never could forget him! Till this day I remember his phone number! I can’t remember my own phone number but his I remember every digit! I see him in - glimpses of him - I would hear songs and just break down and cry… I begged God to help me move on and forget him! But in 2014he called me!, my heart froze!! We started talking - and let me explain - we could talk 6 to 7 hours straight every day and never run out of things to talk about and that first call in 2014 lasted 12 hours! But he was still married with children now! I told him I was happy for him and only want the best for him all the while my heart just broke more! But I took the higher road thinking that it wasn’t meant for me. I didn’t know about twin flames yet in 2014. So 6 mores years pass and it is 2020 and he contacts me again - saying he can’t stop thinking about me and he is reminded of me everywhere for years! Come to find out he would visit my friends still in the area just to get updates on me! But he is still married! He would call me and sometimes I would pick up and sometimes I wouldn’t, sometimes I just didn’t have the strength to talk to him and I would just sit there staring at his name on my phone and cry!! Fast forward to this past summer 2022 - my oldest daughter was having kidney stone removal surgery - she has 4 large stones to be removed and of course I came into town for the surgery - well apparently my twin stalks me and also knows when I was in town due to social media - he was on my mom’s FB page and saw about my daughter having surgery. Ok so July 7th she has her surgery and she had a bad reaction and develop a blood infection which kept us at the hospital longer - well on the third day he showed up at the hospital!! It was the first time in 15 years I saw him! I felt like I hit a brick wall and I was struck by lightning at the same time!!! Now don’t get excited - he is still married and he has no intention of leaving his family to be with me BUT he did admit to me that he wishes he never let me go 17 years ago and he has never gotten over me - he was scared of how our connection felt back then - I don’t think we will reach union in this lifetime but by me researching and learning about twin flames I have surrendered to the journey of this relationship and just know that one day we will be back together in the spiritual world

chaser me, i wanna move on😭

i blocked him goodluck with his new girl i’m out 🤗

nah he’s just a scumbag i hate him so much

I can't pause my own spiritual from my runner being gone. I need to grow up too, while they figure it out. Hell parts of my own pain, caused the separation. I'm done dealing with old pains of abandonment, and being chosen last. I gotta choose me, and just be okay with whatever happens.

I can say it from my perspective, I was the chaser and I’m moving on. I needed to do it, it was suffocating me, stopping me from my purpose in life, I was focused on him all the time and I just walked away.

Anyone that causes you to chase them are detracting from you self respect. There is NO proof they love you , but, there is proof they don't. There are TF but those are spiritually advanced souls. , not one sided poor souls who love someone who couldn't care less. LOVE GOD AND SELF, AND TO HELL AND THE DEVIL WITH ANYONE WHO CANT SEE THE GREATNESS IN YOU !! In your heart you know I'm right. Strength and Honor.

Thank you for that information I am grateful for your support and guidance Amen Amen Amen Amen♍🔥💞💥💥⚖🧲🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞🙏🙏🌹