15 Best Questions To Ask On A First Date

What are you most passionate about?

These are all good and reasonable questions, but they should definitely be spread over several dates. I think the purpose of the first date is to understand whether you would like to go on a second date, and a good question to ask yourself would be "how much information from this person can I handle, supposed we might never see each other again?" I think the conversation on the first date should really revolve just around the person in front of you, what they are doing at the moment, what are their hobbies, what is their education. Questions about family and their relationships with other could really be saved for later dates

I don’t think these are good questions.

Let her ask you out; that way it's down to her to impress and ask questions. Do not let her know you are impressed, even if you are. And don't give straight answers to every question.

#1 is great to let her know you're trying to get better at attracting other women.. that's a fail..

The best gift was from God, my son. 💙

'the girl says she just wants a hook up'
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What twilight zone does she live in?

Where's the list? I don't have a whole day

#1 when you talk about/refer to another video of yours give a LINK to it!!! OMG!! guys when they TELL you they are CRAZY/they have mental problems BELEIVE them!!!!!(THEY are WARNING you). VERY good point on the amount that someone successful works exp. its not uncommon to see successful doctors working 70-80 hrs a week. My way or the HWY... what you suggested would make a good test in the 2nd or 3rd date. I agree with your answers to all of this 100%, OMG!! if only 50% of the women had your wisdom, we men would be much happier.

planning.... i think that depends on the type of work they do. I've had a lifetime of military so constant long hours at work, suddenly working weekends or shift changes, deployments, so over 30 years of plans not happening you learn to do things on a whim, travel, go to the beach, find a place for dinner, grab drinks with friends.....also why there is such a high divorce rate in the military. After retirement though, at least when not working i'll have months at a time off to do anything and no one to do it with.

i m 49 years old and never been on first date or first kiss

The list is too long, paring down to 10 questions is better.

You’re so beautiful! Good advices thanks.

Most of these questions are far too direct for a first date and will make the date feel much more than an interrogation than a date. All of these questions can be asked in a far better way or even worked into a story that turns into a conversation where you might get examples. And the question about past relationships is huge no-no for a first date. These questions certainly came from someone who has not dated much...

I like 36 questions

A few good conversation topics.. are you fishing for compliments... some things are personal to people, accept a none of your business yet answer....

Hold plenty of information back. Once all the cards are face up on the table, the game is OVER.

If you are a strong person of faith, you should certainly want to know if they are as well and their marriage history that you probably would wait to ask about, if you are secular. That makes it tough.

Guys, fella's dont ask any questions they're all dumb and you'll come off as boring and nice!!!

To ask even one question shows you have no talent for dating!!!

Are relationship experts first date experts? Sorry wrong interview!

What's the most hurtful thing you've done to an innocent guy and why?

Thanks for this amazing video wish I watched 10 years ago !

my best gift?? No problem. My wife. we were together for 33 years til i lost her to cancer.

Many of these questions are ridiculous for a first date lol. Politics? Handling conflict? relationship compatibility questions? Best to observe actions rather than going off their answers. These could change the date mood quickly for the worse. I like to keep things light, playful, and ask get to know you questions, but not controversial or relationship type questions.

I thought this would video would come in handy... but standards and morals took an arrow to the urethra.

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

Don’t know what it’s about me n making plans but they’d seem to never go right every time I make one! 😂😂😂

The only time I will bring up the last previous relationship is when it ended and to tell her “we simply were incompatible!” But THATS IT!

Q-#2- what are you looking for? First of all, you gotta ask yourself what am I” looking for and be that. Unfortunately, the “hookup” culture has been demoralizing our society right, left and center for decades now, and it is increasing very rapidly with AI-driven DRAGONS- O.F is destroying men and their marriages and so it's not bloody wonder that I conclude; primarily [young men] and women are looking for both- a “hoekup”😂😂🤭and unwavering life partner in any given moment.

Is there any way to find these out without asking or mind reading? Everytime i talk to women, they tell me they feel like they're being interrogated, but they never ask me any questions! Its hard to keep a conversation going when only one person seems to have an interest in developing something meaningful.

The way you dress matters. I went with the Ronald McDonald look once, her grandma magically got into a skydiving accident with a horse and she had to cut the date short. Still waiting on her to call back though. Don't know how the horse is doing.

Love your content. I've been recommending you to friends because you're videos are just full gems for dating etc. thanks.

You provided some really good questions, thank you for the research ❤ however, your answers and opinions are sometimes contradictory..

Title should be "15 questions that you should NOT ask on a first date"

This gives me more the vibes of a job interview. When on a date just talk about random/fun stuff and be intuitive with your questions during these subjects, showing interest in her. Why prepare a whole list, it makes it very unnatural. Listen well, go with the flow and trust yourself

DOB ( Date Of Birth), Does she have any unpaid Debts? BMI ratio? Body count? History of diseases?

All the questions are good except politics, slippery slope

To me, these are high pressure questions. I'm not great at thinking on the spot so if I were asked these, I would be deer in the headlights. Memorizing questions to ask a date doesn't seem great to me. Organically getting to know someone conversationally seems better, but I'm older. I talk to people in grocery lines, at the post office, everywhere I go, I don't think you need to come up with choreography for this.

Best questions to get friendzoned

When it comes to dealing with conflict: men and women are VERY different in handling conflict.

Also: there are MANY variations of conflict.

Literally why is it so hard to just exist with people

I have a date tomorrow and haven’t been dating anyone in ages am terrified hahah

Courtney, as always appreciate your content, but some of these ?s are awkward & come off as needy imo. Agreed with your comment on the gift from her ex, lol. I think it's best to stick to simple things like someone's passions, goals, dreams, fears, insecurities, then try to emotionally bond from there. Celebrity crush, binging on Netflix, things like that can really add some laughter & light heartedness too.

If you’re dating for success, money etc. Be prepared to be disappointed. A persons character is all that matters in the end.

the best gift I've ever gotten was a book: these people knew me so well they sent me home after a dinner party with an incredible book--absolute gems these folks. The only gifts I received from girlfriends were clothes that made me look more presentable, for HER to stand next to...really had nothing to do with me per se

gosh this video makes me want to date again; b/c I think I have some things to offer in this regard, and I love to get to know people, so what fun, right? Why be so stressed? For my part I'm gonna take up Salsa dancing so I can get used to smelling ladies and dance with them, get in tune with their rhythms etc, and just get used to that feminine energy again, so I am not so steam-rolled by any old "sexy" that happens my way--so that I am ready when a worthy lady turns up

You are very kind Courtney, thanks for your thoughts--they are helpful to this poor bastard of a man who needs such advice

Ask them: "When you were a little girl/boy what kind of life did you dream of having."