How to get any MAN you WANT: The UNBREAKABLE RULE

Does this person live under a rock? Has he heard of physical, mental or emotional abuse by a man? It HAS be the woman's fault that she was beaten. Has he magically traveled into the future, from the 1700's? Let's look at this idiotic principle a different way. Use his example by switching sexes in this... crap. Men: if you wouldn't say it to your boss or coworker, you cannot say it to your woman. You must be of use to her! Work hard to make yourself fit into her life, doing everything you can to make yourself indispensable in every single aspect! You must sweep her sexually off of her feet! Be inventive, plan to make every action that benefits her! Think only of her! You MUST honor the unbreakable rule, men. You MUST. You must never, ever, ever criticize, roll your eyes, verbally disagree or show any (& I mean zero) form of disrespect or disagreement! If you shut your mouth, put up with all of her disrespect to you, her deplorable actions, then you can probably hold on to her! And who wouldn't want to turn themselves inside out to conform to this, ahem (I'm not given to profanity, but..) absolute bullshit. I don't know how I stumbled onto to this channel, but it's the last time that will happen.

As Rian Stone has aptly stated in the past, the only tools you have as a man to correct poor behavior in your woman are to remove your attention, affection, and/or commitment until the behavior changes. That's it.

Married 20 years to a handsome sweetheart of a man. Pleasant communication style not only helps you land a great man but helps you keep him too.

This is very true..

So is it a tip for a woman to get the reach man or a gigachad? She can catch him easely but not longer than for one night

I agree that contempt, disrespect, and nagging are bad. But a man shouldn't take respectful criticism or valid concerns for disrespect. There are plenty of men who don't think a woman should expect anything of them at all and any voicing of problems or dissatisfaction in the relationship is tantamount to nagging or disrespect.

"nastiest, sluttiest.." 🤣🤣😂 this guy's amazing...

Ok. Thanks Doc. the quote, "women can't go backwards in lifestyle" You are right. Single after 25 years and I was thinking I was just a stuck up snob. Nope, turns out I am a high value woman. Nice, I like that. Disrespect isn't in my life towards myself or others, I am stable financially, mentally and exactly as I am emotionally; leave it alone, let's just say I am good at being a girl. Ok. so I am awesome and my High value man is soon to be mine. Good times. :)

This episode is really informative but, for me, the suggestion that a woman can get ANY man she wants isn’t realistic. Sure, if you HAVE a man and want him to want to be with you, then it’s great advice ❤

Guess what this is in Proverbs 14:1
I just add it on my Instagram 🙌🏾 Amen Doctor your bringing up Scriptures w/o bringing it up Legendary
With Simplicity of Logic that functions daily 👌🏾

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Do woman have to respect men who disrespect them

Men also complain about women

Ok how about being assertive

I like men i do not need one

What if the man disrespects the woman first

What about women who like being single

Some men are not that into some women and vice versa they are others who will want you

You can only improve someone who wants to improve

Women naturally respect men who are respectable. And respectable men, don’t give access to disrespectful women.

WOMEN! DO NOT GIVE UNDERSERVING MEN THESE BENEFITS. NOBODY WANTS THE COW IF THE MILK IS FREE. MAKE HIM WORK FOR EVERYTHING. INCLUDING YOUR “USEFULLNESS”

i'm sorry to break it to you fellas but no woman respects no man, some pretend of course but the second you sleep with her, it's over, you'll always be weak in her eyes. Women only respect monks.

A high quailty woman will never be attracted (to you) when you see her value through this lense, the lense of a sensitive, weak male thinking that these 3 traits make up an actual quality women.

My father taught me that no respect = no relationship. My mother taught me to control my mouth.

So when my in laws thought they could disrespect me because they didn’t “approve” of me being with their son/brother, my husband tried to be a peacemaker, until he was faced with even more disrespect for defending me.

His own mother called him a coward and his father said I should “sit down and shut up.” And take the disrespect. His sisters flat out told him that they will not be civil. The contempt ran deep and my heart broke for my husband having to face the ugliness in his family.

Our lives became peaceful once we walked away.

How to get any man you want: Be nice and respectful 😮

As a woman, I spent 18 years in the military. There is no way I am treating a man like he is my commanding officer. Why the hell does he outrank me? We are equals in this relationship. Sir, if you understood the military you would not make this comparison. A commanding officer has the authority to give orders that you are legally obligated to follow. This has no place in a relationship. I was a Captain and I would treat my partner as if they were also another Captain. Fellow officers treat each other with respect, but it looks different. For example, it is prohibited to criticize a fellow officer infont of the troops. This erodes good order and discipline. An example of this would be to not argue infront of your children. Fellow officers also do not disparage each other publicly. This would be equally applicable to both partners. I would not tolerate any of this being done to me either. Lastly, men, the military does not belong to you, sincerely: a female veteran.

I want to make a few.... Extrapolations to what this gentleman has said

Respect. I cannot stress that enough. Men as a whole derive alot of our sense of self worth from what our ; friends, families, co workers and bosses, and especially our wives snd what they think of us. When a wife talks crap about her man, forget that it makes her look stupid, it tears down that man little by little. How is he supposed to react when he finds his "One" thinking so little of him?

But the inverse is also true. If a woman puts her arms around her guy before he goes off to work. She tells him she is proud of him and can't wait to see him home. That man is BULLETPROOF.

women are natural nurturers and its often looked down upon or forgotten. Forget being the sluttiest version of yourself. Sure it's exciting, but id rather feel wanted by my lady, with her initiating intimacy or affection. Men don't need their "One" to be a mother to them, but they do need their support. If a woman can nourish a mans heart and soul, to be his peace. I say that's a shoe in. So its not exactly enough to not be querulous or naggy. Be his peace. Enough said.

Piggy backing on this. Men want intimacy. Doesnt have to be sex. But it does have to be a GENUINE connection or effort. Anything that's perceived as forced or done begrudgingly will only show how little you actually care or think of him.

The contempt and disrespect is baked into most modern women unfortunately.

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Everyone’s case is different. I’m with a man for 16 months. He won’t commit, won’t talk about it. He’s a Taurus. Taurus men are not like all men. He is stubborn , slow and controlling. I asked him what are your intentions with me? His reply was Goodbye. I’ve done everything right with him. I fed him right, loved him right and I have been patient. Today he did deal with my mouth thru a text. How much can a person take kissing a man’s butt.

Getting any man you want would be a materialistic gain and as materials will get traded ..

This is how I was raised and so were my brothers, MUTUAL respect and consideration as the norm in every day life. Both sexes toward both sexes. Especially toward people in closer relationships, and also in community. But my parents moved to an area where that wasn’t part of the culture and didn’t really know how to handle it, or how to teach us to handle it, it’s a crazy way to live to be dealing all the time with people who don’t prioritize respect toward each other. I had to change my studies to human behavior to navigate it, still very hard though. These videos are great.

Yupp, women should only be with men they can and do truly and authentically respect, so the problem doesn't even arise .

Just observing here…
A video for women and almost every reply is by men!
Am I missing smth???





Just for the sake of interacting!
If HE is not offering the same thing to me (all 3 rules) , HE is not getting anywhere with me!
I am enough!
And yes, I am a woman and I work in a field related to!

Amen brother!

powerful right there.

Just now I understand why did I break up with my previous girfriend. She cooked, she cleaned, looked good, and was totally slutty. But those times when she lost the temper, started fights for stupid reasons or tried me to prevent to meet my friends - that was the moment when i understood that this is it. we have nothing in common and i have to break this thing up.

You literally knocked it out of the park with this video. The unbreakable rule is the holy grail of being with a man. No true man knowing his worth will allow disrespect or drama.

Since there are a lot of great men here I'd like some input. My husband does not like to use his arms. There isn't a medical reason. He do not like to lift heavy things which makes moving things and doing house work that I need him to help with difficult. Is there a way I can encourage him to work on his straight? We have weights and at home. Thank you!

When we have kids I'd like him to be able to lift them. He's 5'11" and 180 pounds. Blood test come back good. Even lifting 10 pounds is a lot.

Thank you,

Exactly. One disrespect and man will never look at you in the same way again.

Listen to what he's saying ladies. Disrespect is a deal breaker.

Watched all 3 in this series, Dr. Absolutely golden advice.

If a woman wouldn't talk to her boss that way, then she's already crossed the line. And no that does NOT make you an employee. It just means you are respectful.

How to get every man you want:
- don't be less than a 9.5

Thanks!

I have never felt so much in line with myself with a feeling stronger than happiness when people either understood me, or simply expressed respect. It justifies all my choices who led me to where I am in the present, be it good or bad, and validates my existence. It forms a ground where persons with respect can just be and see what is, accepting and settling the past, opening up the future. It's then possible to listen and adjust the vision and maybe change if necessary.

If someone close disrespects me, it means that I made the wrong choice of going with you in the past and allowed someone in my path not sharing the same vision. Someone who could point out the problems in the foundation of the relationship, help not only the couple but the individuals concerned around the couple, but would rather bash with idiocy the construction and not help at least remove the useless parts with few harm. No respect means whatever is going to be built, will be teared off or negatively impacted with emotions meaning "you are not legitimate".
Such a person is not respecting even herself, and should not be with someone trying to build something, even the most humble it could be.

Because the deep truth is that nobody asked to be born, yet we all strive to find legitimacy and a reason for existence. No respect means, at the very end of the line, that your existence is illegitimate, futile - it's life denying. There's a reason why a man can die light with respect even against an enemy if respect is shown. Because he tried everything, in accordance to what life presented to him.

This is to me what a man is at the core. Despite the differences between the sexes, there is few things if any as strong as a woman you like respecting what you are. And no matter how physically ugly a woman is due to the passing of time, nothing will make her, to me, more attractive that the respect she shows to herself and those involved in her life.

Amazing. Now can you record a woman saying it so I can send this to my wife.

lol it's not a man's fault if he's not good enough for these hoes... have you seen what they're demanding? lmao moving on