TikTok's Most Hated Stay-At-Home Girlfriend - Kendel Kay (A Deep Dive)

So sorry but in my eyes he is a walking red flag.

his voice makes me want to put my head through drywall

I’m sure she’s not happy because she’s popped herself in the internet for millions of people to see. No self care is going to change it. Sex work is not only gross but seems like it takes a toll on the person.

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This is some American brainwashing shit being banged over the head by the Christian nationalist message,
WOMEN BELONG in the kitchen only with no more autonomy only living and serving their partner...
It's all lies

These girls have a warped perception about what actual legit princesses actually do in real life! They actually do a lot of charitable work! Dunno any princess that came from a OF background! Js...Sheesh🙄🙄🙄 feel sorry for her tho cause I unfortunately went thru the same kinda thing except it was my ex hubby who left me&my son after almost a decade for a girl he meet going back to school and left us with absolutely nothing but debt. Luckily and took me forever but I finally found my person. Just wish I could've met him years ago. I hope the best for her tho that she can get back up on her feet cause it's a long hard road!

Like, my skincare takes 20 minutes - but that's because I use things take a hot minute to dry down, and I prefer to let my products seep into my skin one by one than like them all one. Like I only use 5-7 things depending on the day, and because my cheeks and under my eyes are a completely different skin type from the rest of my face. Like I don't think adding anything else like LED shit or Macha or drinking collagen would make my skin look any more fantastic than it already does

they get so close to understand that late stage capitalism is the core problem but veer sharply away because that unfettered capitalism is what provides them with a flex-worthy luxury lifestyle

I think we need to keep in mind. This young lady is still a baby in the world and what she’s thinking now she will laugh at in 20 years. She is not in her feminine era. She’s not gonna turn into a fairy later.😂 hopefully she’ll get with it and not just be tossed from Rich guy to rich guy until she’s unrecognizable with plastic surgery😢

It's a bit weird seeing how the more obsessed she became with skincare, wellness
, anti-ageing and plastic surgery the worse her skin became

Bro my boyfriends name is Luke😭😭😭😭

She’s a concubine

OMG! I’m choked but this is so sad. She’s literally sad. Brazil here 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷

Life isn’t easy but this generation coming up is horribly dependent, lazy, entitled. I’m a fast food night shift manager in America & I have recognized that fact. I’d say 2/10 kids have alright priorities

What a dull and boring life.

It’s super weird to me that in these “traditional” relationships like this, the woman is literally treating the man like her child… Making him every meal, snacks, drinks, cleaning after him, doing his laundry, etc. I think as the man I’d feel smothered and concerned that my partner is so obsessed with me and my goals while she has none of her own.

It’s quite sad. When relationships like that end, the woman likely has no semblance of an identity, and her world will shatter because waiting on him is all she knows…. Don’t be dependent on someone who could leave you any time? Idk. Seems like a recipe for disaster, and I understand why these relationships are often used to control women.

Nobody's told these ladies about commonlaw living arrangements? You don't need a marriage certificate to sue for property. You just have to show you depended on the partner for all living expenses with the same perm address.

Even she sounds bored.

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Geez, I can't be the only one who feels really really bad for her. I can appreciate that even though she no longer does OF she doesn't seem to put down other women or denigrate sex work. It warmed me up to her when she said even though she 'chose' this lifestyle, she still considers herself a feminist. I think she's a young woman who's made some very bad decisions and is another victim of patriarchy, and she's undoubtedly harmed other women and young girls with her content.

😂 Masculine and feminine but not married and no actual commitment. Ok Kendal girl. These rich pookies pull the wool over these girls eyes so easily.

This deep dive is higher quality than either of these two deserved 😂 You're the only reason I can watch this, kidology, because I can't stand the sound of their voices (ESPECIALLY Luke 🤮)

Seems like he ultimately used her for not only his ego but as a marketing scheme. He knew what she was and if they were so "unequally yoked", they wouldn't have gotten together.
Maybe his faith grew, but at the same time it's hypocritical to judge and damn her as she gave it up under consideration of his wishes. I wish my fellow Christians wouldn't be so hypocritical like that. Jesus loved and paid the most attention to the most cast out sinners. He used her big time but in her lies on screen, she harmed herself and chances for a lawsuit. If she'd been honest and vlogged it was at his behest, she'd possibly have legal recourse... if she could afford a good attorney, maybe she does still have a chance. Still, he has more money to outlast her. Tragic lesson, hope she gets her life together and finds happiness, actually that both of them do and if there's a lesson for those viewing or their 'fans', that is learned without experiencing it first-hand.

Jude is beautiful! As far as "the other woman" goes, she doesn't seem too bad 😉😄❤

I miss being bored. Boredom was whittled away by adulthood, and the chaos of living in a broken, expensive, secular world.

So so interesting & well thought out 👏👏👏

so basically she was his bangmaid and when it was over she didnt even have the check to buy a house...okay

So I am one and a half minute into watching this video and if she didn't mention that Luke was her boyfriend, I would assume she was talking about her toddler son. Also, does Luke even exist?😂

I think this is a good lesson for all women to not prioritize your man's career over your own. My ex had me convinced that his career was so much more important than mine when we were BOTH in law school. It doesn't matter what your job is, a man like that will always try to convince you that you're lesser than him and that your life revolves around him

I thought Luke is her teenage son because of the intro

farming sadge is really what she has been doing this whole time. don't be fooled.

LMAO if she were really “kept” her partner wouldn’t want her to be doing “chores”. He’d outsource it and encourage her to pursue passion project and find some purpose for her life. Until children.

Making all that stuff for her boyfriend IS LABOR haha, like you'd have to pay me to do that shit js :P

One thing I hate about the high value mind set is it is soooo person by person. They want to generalize it but it is not possible. A lot of young men just believe what they are told. Then when they find the girl they want they realize... her ambitions and energy are not where I respect. We are all different for a reason. For me a high value man is someone who treats me well and is good to my children. I don't care what our house looks like, if I can get new clothes when I want. It is fun if that is a possibility but money with empty to me without soul. I know other women who like having a very busy husband. They like being home alone and having the nice home and nice life style. Men are the same way. Some value what they do in the world and others values what they do in the home. Neither is bad, entering into a relationship having a false idea of what you want is the problem

this genre of men are so terrifying and off putting

The MRS degree really keeps on going, huh.

I feel like everything she says is him but as an echo chamber

This dude is NOT masculine 😂😂

Okay, I thought I did a lot for my bf as far as doing things, running errands, etc.....my god. Im only a minute in and she does waaayyy too much for her bf. Hes grown, make him do stuff himself.

Sorry, I just couldn't finish your video. You are a wonderful host and your insight and commentary is absolutely lovely but the couple you are reporting on is absolutely insufferable. I could not listen to them and had to shut the off the video halfway off. Their ideas of femininity and masculinity is so narrow and delusional it made my blood boil. I had to rage quit the video but I wanted to leave you a kind comment.
Thank you for covering this story, you are great at what you are doing. Please keep it up.

This was so well written and poignant & your accent is giving Queen of the world. Also - maaaaaaaaan FVVK these men. That shit they were posting was so cringe it was hard to sit through. I’m my own sugar zaddy 💯

The funniest part is that people believe everything they see online, like if it’s a trend, ofc you should do the same…..like wtf? Losing common sense complitely, and losing our free thinking…And the sad part is these rich people are fake and showing only edited and staged part of their life and they are doing it for money

how much coffee does this man drink omg

I HATE Luke's voice!😂

first of all she isnt hot she is delusional. second is stop feeling sorry for these kind of people and remember their only goal was to make people sad,depressed and feel they are not enough in life just to make money and views

red-pillish masc luke looks more feminen than his girlfriend btw lol

I love the idea that women “flock” - like we’re birds chasing a seed filled feeder of alpha males and xtian bro values 😂