How To Make Small Talk Effortless And Fun

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I feel like an alien that landed on Earth trying to learn how to be human

Silence isn't awkward.

Why is yt showing me this , they know to much

I dont think It's working!

Ok I'm watching this because the person I'm trying to talk to always gives short vague answers, and I did everything in this video and nothing works, I suggest just look for topics that you're interested in and tell them about it in a way that will make them curious and ask you plenty of questions which you can answer because it's a topic you're interested in

Idk on this advice. Unless you're extremely charismatic, this approach to conversation is going to come across as extremely overbearing and quite frankly, annoying to most people.

The majority of people in the world have friends yet they don't talk like this.

You're not helping me rn

I’m a Scorpio

For me small talk is so fake and insincere, so that makes it difficult. I can't do fake.

This is a good video
Cuz I run into a road block with some people I've spoken to

Hey, tell me why are you here

LMAO! If I ask some one if they are a comedian it instantly gets taken as an insult. May be I know more about conversation than I let on. There is an unseen dimension of personality and appearance that drastically affects the mood of a conversation. If it was amicable at first don't fear because the moment I open my mouth I have made a new enemy. 😂😮🤐😶‍🌫️😡

Computer science did this to me

Im just tryna fit in a dc chat

Yeah,okay,it is okay for a start but then when you meet them other times what are you gonna talk about ?lmao

It Petter B.Parker from the hit movie Into the spiderverse

Celebrate... I don't Celebrate.

my tism is showing w this search lmfaoo

Just wanna see something

Any introverts trying to learn how to talk with people?
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I work at a medical marijuana establishment, legally, and find myself having a hard time finding things to discuss to have the customers like me while I’m helping them find the medicine they’re looking for.

Thanks good stuff 👍

It's not me who. needs this... that one mf in my group

It was great advice

Ah ha ha ha! I’ve had total strangers ask me what I do for fun. Apparently they’ve watched this video!! I always think, when asked that question, is that this stranger is crossing into “none of your business “ category. Lol.

Some of these questions just aren't great either. "what is exciting in life these days?" who asks that? It's weird.
"what do you for fun?" is not better either.

<Ben3 lovely energy as always

Your coaching isn't worth 500$ thats how much you charge just say that pyramid scheme

Most of these tips can be applied on first dates but however with many woman however the questions are, the girls just answer quick without question you. Like you ask 'where are you from'? She: LA. Silence. She's not asking back where I am from.

Man i just want to make a small talk, not manipulating them to liked me. I may be an awkward misanthrope but i believe that i'm also a realist. I don't want to spend the rest of my life pleasing and seeking validation from people who actually don't like me for who i am.

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Thank you for this tutorial, I got a new job & I have to do A LOT of small talk. Never new how terrible I was LMAOOO

No point it’s not a thing except in America. People do it because we’re very awkward here. Awake are isint really a thing all around the world. It’s not uncommon to go to a coffee shop anywhere in the world that’s not America and get no greeting. Small talk is usually to judge or get information from another human, either that or your in a situation that would otherwise be quiet and uncomfortable. I’d honestly prefer people don’t ask if I have a job, don’t ask what my job is, don’t ask how my day was and don’t ask any personally questions. I want to get what I need to get done. If you’d like to have a what we call normal conversation that’s fine. Small talk is the most frustrating thing to me. I’m autistic and I just find it redundant, you have nothing to say. So don’t say anything at all man.

Is it one convo without guessing or asking a question

An hour of coaching that's worth $500.00 you say😂😂

I feel like a God dam psychopath rn

Step 1: Be good looking and have a tolerable voice, so their ears don’t start bleeding.
Step 2: Have enough self confidence, so you can approach them, without being afraid and running away or stutter/freeze, the second you open your mouth.
Step 3:
Step 4:

Thanks man I needed this🙏

Love to see ppl like me💀

You dutch?

Oh my gosh, you're so funny, can I borrow your kidneys?

LOL this must be why I don’t make many new friends these days cause this bs is lame as hell. Idk anyone who would describe small talk as “fun” that’s kinda crazy.

You have a great welcoming smile which made this video even more enjoyable to watch

He makes it sound so eazy

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The worse part is when we talk to someone and suddenly an awkward silence . The thing is we expect them to talk more to us more than us talking to them . Once they talk to us alot we can also have more ideas to talk with them

These kind of videos really do help if you apply them. I can for the most part hold a conversation and not be awkward.