Is a Sexless Marriage a Sinful Marriage? | Core Christianity w/ Adriel Sanchez

Just got married a few weeks ago! Great video brother. Glory to God

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I still say that if a man's wife cuts the sex that is a violation of marriage covenant and the man should divorce her.

The production quality here is impressive! First time viewer. This is packaged very well! Praise God!

We pick n choose when it comes to the Bible. When it says "pray always" it's literal but when it says "let them satisfy you always" it not. It's ridiculous. My wife shut down months after ceremony and in all 5 yrs she never Once initiated or kissed me. Then she divorced me for un biblical reasons not cheating no abuse. She had past trauma. I still hold her as my wife I can't remarry so I'm alone till death at 43 unless God bring her back healed.

Other translation state prayer and fasting.

The Song of Songs is not an erotic love poem. It is a dark tragedy about the 400'th wife of a womanizer, who is the flavor of the day as the new girl -- for now -- but knows she will not be for long. Yet, she cannot resist the material temptation to marry the wise and wealthy King of the Jews. What girl could? When the honeymoon is over, the speaker in the poem is in for a world of pain, and she knows it. I find the book sad and foreboding.

I think as a nation we have what's coming to us

This is why men often must marry multiple women. Without such leverage women will use your faithfulness as a sword to cut your heart out day and night for as long as you both live.

No sex in marriage is SIN

I am sorry, but this guy is a SIMP. "If you don't want to have sex, you can talk about it?!?" That is not the point of this scripture. If you have a direct need (not your marriage) that needs immediate fasting, then as long as you fast (not just from cake or TV) and you agree (that this need is big enough, like getting Trump into office on the day of the election) then you can substain, but only for a short period of time because of the weakness of our own flesh. This would be once or twice a year and for a couple of days. As long as you can go without food and water.

If there’s no sex, there’s no purpose in being married. That’s the entire point. Marriage itself is what allows for sexual intimacy. You remove the sexual aspect and the covenant is broken. Even experienced Christian marriage counselors will admit to this.

Thank you for bringing this up. Maybe I’m just speaking for me, but maybe not. This is an area where men feel alone. It is one of the few instances where spousal abuse cuts the other direction. In these unhealthy situations, sex is used as a carrot to gain control in the relationship in ways that are not loving. As men, we cannot bring up forced/involuntary celibacy in marriage to anyone because it is just flipped back onto us.
We end up hating/fearing sex because of this manipulation, so we don’t seek help. The thought of intimacy with our abuser by means of the very instrument of our abuse makes reconciliation in this area borderline impossible.
If I am alone in all of this, then so be it. But if other men (and I can only speak for men) are going through this, know that you are not alone and that God can sustain you without you needing to gratify your fleshly desires in unbiblical ways. Trust in Him.

Twice a week according Martin Luther. More, if you're Catholic, I reckon...

Disappointed to say the least. I was expecting there to be some commandment, some law, some biblically sanctioned punishment or just… some solution. But I see no solution just a bunch of warning that we shouldn’t withhold intimacy. I know that already that’s why I clicked to see what the biblical solution was.

Millions of women betray their marriage vows and change their status to "Roommate (used to be a Wife)".
They do this in their mind without telling their husbands.
And they do this without any shame whatsoever.

Christians of all people should be blissfully sexually satisfied and drunk in love with one another. The bible says "may her breasts satisfy you always, and always be intoxicated with her love". Any take otherwise is folly

Your video absolutely does not have an answer to a problem in a marriage that has been going on for over 15 years. After seeing counselors and speaking to pastors and praying about it it does not change. That is what people like myself are looking for spiritual answers under those circumstances. If the man is doing his part all those years and we all make mistakes and are not perfect but the man is doing his best while supporting his wife and always being there and the woman chooses to close off intimacy and any conversation about it that is the problem. Nobody seems to have Godly answer.. I have been a believer for over 40 years. I never imagined marrying somebody and not having any intimacy or trust and I want out of this so bad. But God says he hates divorce and I am following God's rules. If you know something that I don't I would appreciate some advice. And yes I already pray about it. The other person has to want to change and that does not seem to be happening.

When it comes to sex I'm a cave man, and pagan as a Congo pigmy ! Twice a day works for me !

So lovely thanks! ❤

Looking forward to heaven .