Men Talking About Heartbreak

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It definitely changes a man. Last year proves it for me.

I was guarded before, and opened up to a woman I'd talked to for years. She accepted, and for a short while, I was the happiest I'd ever been. Then, bam, I'm told she doesn't feel anything and had moved on from potentially liking me months prior to my confession. Basically it seems the relationship was a test to her. And I often wondered how many times when she said "I love you" if she meant it, or if she was lying through her teeth.

Let me tell you, before that breakup day, I never lent much thought to the idea that words can cause physical pain. But when it happened, at first I sat for two days in what could be likened to shell shock.Then, it felt like I'd been socked in the stomach, and my chest was tight.

Clearly I was devastated, but I've been recovering. I dont think a man will ever truly forget his first love and what it was like. But it's a learning experience for sure. Have faith brothers.

Wat I'm going threw rn I get treated like shit for no reason go threw it everyday be having that gut feeling all the time like she cheating in she say she not it's so many times she told me to leave in come back

Heartbreak its the worst shit because it really shakens the core instinct and need we have as living beings ! But its so necessary ! Heartbreak makes you stronger Just wish i wasnt so strong and more happy !

Everybody sharing abt their breakup, meanwhile me who's got frndzoned/ rejected by every girl I cared for. Still single virgin at 28 with 0 relationships till date.😓

Im in the exact same Situation as the first guy. Also daten for 15 months, thought he is my big love. After one month of trying to work it out I'm giving this up. There.are better people out there for us buddy!

When I was raised; I was taught that men don't really have emotions by my family. All of the men were very stoic and just used their minds. I was taught that men don't love and if they do, it's only through a sense of duty. My dad used to say that a heartbroken man is just a man with his ego knocked, it's not love. I never saw any of the men in my family cry or be emotional about anything. So I don't understand any of this. Men these days are softer than previous generations I think and more emotional thanks to societal influence. I can't decide whether that's a good thing or not and I'm not a man; hence I don't care.

My partner of 8 years broke up with me. Im in so much pain everyday. I want it to end already.

I cannot breathe through the grief.
He betrayed and abandoned me
and replaced me with another.
Discarded me like last week's garbage.
He was my "best friend". We spoke every day.

My heart is in so much pain, it physically hurts.
My soul is raped. I cannot breathe. I am drowning.
Being buried alive. How could he do this to me? And why?

Heartbreak made me a stronger person. I have more clarity on relationships and life in general, and more optimistic about how I’ll handle future relationships. Needless to say, I was devastated when it first happened. But there’s light at the end of the tunnel

Even though I've not gone through love, I'm heartbroken with my life. No one cares about my loyalty 💔

Try 8 years wasted when she monkey branched to some fat old man with money.

Heartbroken wothout your love im heartbroken and ive had enough im heartbroken dont know what to say ive never felt this way

3 days ago i went through a heartbreak, my very first one. Long distance relationship with a perfect girl ive been with for 3 years, we loved each other so deeply, we were in sync, inseperable and soul mates at one point. Thats how everything felt, it felt so PERFECT. No other word to describe it, it was mutual on both sides. We met each other at low points and helped each other up. She was my motivation to be better, she made bettering myself become exciting because i couldnt wait to put her in a big house and make her happy. She took care of me so well when i was broke and had nothing, held me down..

3 days ago she broke it to me that she met another girl at pride , kissed her and had feelings for her, found out she was attracted to girls and not guys anymore. Lost all love and affection for me after that one kiss, all of our commitments officially meant nothing and she went numb towards me. She told me she just doesnt understand how shes feeling right now , but it destroyed me. Im broken. I have to celebrate my birthday in 11 days without her. I never got to pamper her the way I wanted, life was just getting good for me and was about to get better for the both of us, even though she thought it was at its peak before the kiss and was content with it, things was just starting to get so good............. Lord please help me. Im hurting and it hurts to live right now, its agonizing, my heart hurts and aches, why does this feel so painful, its cruel. Went from obsessing over each other and seeing each other in our future for years to come all the way to her not seeing me in her future at all after one kiss, in one day. How does love work like that?
(Note: She did love me alot leading up to the kiss by the girl, everything just changed in that moment)

Who said men lacked emotional intelligence??

So many wonderful men, I hope to find one fir myself ❣️

This helps

And men are supposed to be the shallow ones. My ex-wife was going to bars and f_cking strangers while I was working like a dog to build a future for us. If you met her you would never have imagined she works so such a thing. Just glad we didn't have any kids.

Sad that people just fall out of
Love :/

Last guy spoke some truth . Break yo family’s curses starting with you !

I like the fact that none of them abused their ex's
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This video was so pure fr...❤

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I really appreciate each and every man on this video for being honest, last guy talking, what a gem. So honest open and smart. Bless you all. I always tell my ladies there is no diffrence in a mans pain and womans pain. A broken heart is a broken heart. Lead with love, ALWAYS. I belive in my heart most men just hunger for real and honest love. Some times us women just don't understand. Let her know what the problem is. If she refuses to listen/compromise let go. But if you have a woman that does listen and compromise please don't take her for granted. Having an honest respectful partner is the most beautiful thing, not all of us are that lucky. Even when you two are having a shitty day, WORK THROUGHT IT if there is love respect and honesty. You will make it! ❤

I had a fiancee couple years ago. She cheated on me. The good news is that she didnt accept being like this and has been going to therapy ever since and shes gotten her shit together. Two years ago i met the woman i wanted to grow old with
She also cheated on me. However, shes completly lost her shit. Shes utterly miserable and has given up on all her dreams

we need to see from a women's perspective

Lovely young men. All the best to them.

How about falling hopelessly in love with a woman from a 3rd world country out of sorrow, and pity.? It hurts!!!

Men hurt and go through heartbreak as much as women do

This is puppy love.

I like the man who said it didn’t work out and Thrn he got married motivating

How about older guys?

Please a woman’s video

Very interesring, thank you