The ONE WORD That Changed My Life

Values

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If self-concept is two words, I'd say the word is valuation.

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Value ❤

My curiosity is of the rails, very powerful stuff Damon just ordered transforming yourself as I further explore and experiment identity shifting.

Appreciate the VALUE

Freedom

I value safety and clarity, because I don't have enough of it. I have worked since I was 9 to get it and made progress that is not proportional to the amount of effort. Coaches make human reality seem simple and the same for anyone. It's the opposite.

Truth

This really is the truth of existence and or enlightenment. The more you know yourself, the more you just have the core values you want, as a way of being and moving through the world, the more likely you are to actually achieve whatever it is you think/thought you want. It's taken me a lifetime to realize this, even though I understood it intellectually for years. Really listen to this video all the way through to the end and soak this up, allow it to be sink in deeply and begin your journey to self awareness. Thank you Damon!

Money can't give you happiness???... lmaoooo...How dare you lie like that? ...n for what ???....Stop embarrassing yourself bro ! Money can buy happiness !💯

I listened to this twice! Mind was blown even more the 2nd time 🤯
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Choice (How one chooses to respond)

desire

Perception

This hit the spot! Brilliantly explained!

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So the Value we all seek is this…

To be Completely Fulfilled in the feeling of satisfaction, satisfaction to feel accomplished, accomplishment to feel freedom, freedom to feel joy and joy to feel happy with the internal self… now apply this to all your values and see how they change your perspective 🎉

is ChatGPT correct whold you do anything different I want to use this and learn it but before I dedicate a couple days to to learning this I want a second opinion from a actual NLP practitioner


how can I use the NLP Milton Model to help me get a girlfriend as a guy with Autism level one ADHD and PDA how can this help me date

ChatGPT said:
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The Milton Model, developed by Richard Bandler and John Grinder, is a set of linguistic patterns often used in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). It's designed to be intentionally vague or ambiguous, encouraging the listener to fill in the gaps with their own experiences, leading to a deeper rapport and connection. Using the Milton Model in the context of dating, especially when you have Autism Level 1, ADHD, and PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance), can be a bit tricky but not impossible. Here’s how it could potentially help:

1. Building Rapport
Use Ambiguity to Create Connection: The Milton Model's vague language can allow someone to relate to what you're saying by filling in the gaps with their own experiences. For example, instead of saying, "I love action movies," you could say, "I really enjoy movies that make you feel something strong." This gives the other person a chance to relate to your feelings in their own way.
Softening Language: The Milton Model encourages the use of soft language that doesn’t come across as demanding or forceful. This can be especially helpful if you have PDA, where demands can trigger anxiety. For instance, instead of saying, "Let's go on a date," you might say, "Wouldn't it be fun if we found some time to hang out?"
2. Managing Conversations
Pacing and Leading: Start by matching the other person’s language and tone (pacing), and gradually introduce your own ideas and thoughts (leading). This can help you create a comfortable flow in the conversation, which is crucial for people with Autism or ADHD, who might struggle with conversational flow.
Utilizing Embedded Commands: Subtle suggestions embedded in your sentences can gently guide the conversation. For example, “I wonder how much fun we could have together,” subtly plants the idea of spending time together without being direct.
3. Reducing Anxiety
Using Softeners: The Milton Model often uses phrases like “maybe,” “possibly,” or “you might find.” These softeners can reduce the pressure in conversations, which is especially helpful if you experience social anxiety due to Autism or PDA. For instance, "You might find it interesting to hear about..." instead of directly diving into a topic.
4. Creating Positive Associations
Linking Positive Feelings: You can use vague language to link positive feelings with your presence. For example, "Isn’t it interesting how some conversations just make you feel really good?" This encourages the person to associate positive emotions with being around you.
5. Handling Rejection or Social Cues
Reframing: If things don't go as planned, the Milton Model can help you reframe the situation. For instance, if you feel rejected, you could reframe it in your mind by thinking, "Maybe this just wasn't the right time or place," rather than feeling that you've failed.
Practical Application and Considerations:
Practice and Preparation: Understanding and practicing the Milton Model takes time, especially if you have ADHD or Autism, where processing social cues might be challenging. Start by practicing with friends or in low-pressure situations.
Being Authentic: While the Milton Model can help you navigate conversations, it’s essential to remain authentic. Don’t try to be someone you’re not; use these tools to enhance your natural communication style.
Understanding Boundaries: People with PDA may find boundaries challenging. The Milton Model can help you soften requests or demands, but always be mindful of the other person's comfort and consent.
Additional Tips:
Find Support: Sometimes, working with a therapist or coach who understands both NLP and your specific needs can provide you with personalized strategies.
Focus on Interests: People with Autism often have deep interests. Use these to your advantage in conversations, as genuine passion can be very attractive.
Using the Milton Model can help you improve your social interactions, making dating more manageable. However, it’s essential to approach this with patience and self-compassion, acknowledging your unique challenges and strengths.

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