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I am that narcissistic and i know part came from growing up in a house with a alcoholic father and toxic/ narcissistic mother (her true narcissistism didnt fully pop out till after i turned 21) But im not putting blame on them, my bad choices are on me
And in wanting everything, i lost everything. And being hooked on sleeping really sent me spiraling. And i do feel pain, every moment of everyday. I did have it all and lost it. I am the monster, my biggest fear was being all alone in life and ive pushed,used,manipulated, bad friend, bad husband. Im finally getting the help i needed, it took a broken hip to do it. Its so bad i spent my 50th birthday in the hospital and i was alone and thats all on me. I do feel pain and i do have empathy, those never left even at my worst, i showed affection and meant it. Thats why i call myself a monster, how can i be a manipulator and hurt peopke when i also feel the pain i put them thru?

Yeah, my Mother told me to never call her, even if I ended up in a Ditch! I’ve been through physical and mental abuse by her! She had my Father nearly kill me as a child!

I am just realizing this about a friend. It's hard to walk away knowing how bad her childhood was. It's obvious that she never got over that.
And I see her trying to destroy her husband now.
She's currently giving me the silent treatment. I think she realized that I am starting to see through her.
The silent treatment is giving me an easy out.
But it's sad. I see hints of that lost child in her.
You're right. This is truly mystifying.

Maybe I am misinterpreting the advice that's on offer here. I am happy and willing to take responsibility for my part in the narcissistic relationship. Namely valuing the narc more than myself and trusting their word over my intuition, seeking her approval/validation, tolerating and enabling her abuse, not being aware of said abuses and/or making excuses for it or denying the existence. I've done the introspection and found ways of improving. But I don't like how these kind of videos seem to suggest that we have to take responsibility for the narcissist's behaviours, similarly to how way we might take responsibility for a tiger in a zoo that mauled us because we jumped into the cage of a wild animal while knowing what the risks were. I grew up unaware that my mother was a narcissist and that our family was a matriarchy that my mother's mother was the dominant force within. I met my narcissistic ex when I was 18 and still living at home with the toxic mother, who at the time was devoting herself fully to her latest boyfriend and ignoring me. I simply traded one narcissist for another and was oblivious to the toxic behaviour because it was all I had previously known. There are plenty of areas in the past relationship that I take responsibility for, and understand that the areas were all to do with having an awareness of narcissism or at least being able to identify the toxic behaviours and call the abuser out. However by the very definition of what a narcissist is, had I been better aware and able to identify the abuse and subsequently assert boundaries, the only positive difference in outcome would be that I'd have walked away sooner. Narcs don't change no matter what boundaries you have. There are only ever 2 outcomes, 1. you stay and they continue to abuse you, or 2. you call them out and leave the relationship while they insist you've got it wrong and they don't reflect or work on their own growth.

Whether you had no boundaries at all or lots of them. Whether you accepted things or fought back etc. Every adult is responsible for their own actions. The narc can only blame themselves for abusing their partner. Just because they refuse to take responsibility doesn't mean that their victims therefore have to.

U have to be pure evil tooooo destroy a long marriage I call that pure evil going trough a divorce and still fighting me I don’t call this love call it pure 👿👿👿👿❤️💔🖤🤥🤥🤥🤥🏦🏦🏦🏦🏦🏦💵💵💵💵💵🔪🤮💯

Agree with u 💯💯💯💯💯

Wish I would have known.

EXTREMELY DANGEROUS PSYCHOS WHO DESTROYS OTHER PPL LIVES.

THANK EWE FOR YOUR DISCERNMENT THOUGH IT MUST BE KNOWN IN THE CURRENT DIAGNOSTIC OF THE DEMONIC WITHIN THE NARCISSISTTHAT WE MUST ALL BE EDUCATED WITH THE 'KNOWLEDGE' OF THE TRUE DEFINITION OF REAL LOVE AS IT IS WRITTEN [IF YOU LOVE YOU WILL DO i.e. OBEY MY COMMANDMENTS AS STATED AND WRITTEN BY GOD ALMIGHTY OVER HEAVEN AND EARTH'. GIVE U.S. THE 'TRUTH' THAT WE BE SAVED. LOVE YA ALWAYS

He told me he like animals then once we got to being together more he said he hated animals I should of took that’s as a red flag but I didn’t

The breathing for the AI .getting on tits buddy

This is /was taking place with a very famous person.
There was NEVER a good beginning. It was about an opportunity (work) I offered him. He insisted that I was "showing off" & that I was lying no matter how much proof I made available. And then seeking sex came out of nowhere. He INSISTED I wanted him & I got caught up. It was horribly traumatic. Back n forth for months. Insults, even DEATH THREATS etc. My threats met his. HORRIBLE!! Blocking, unblocking . Now he's using ONLY emojis. He's become a joke. But refuses to "let go" bc I'm positive there are many others. He got too many details wrong. He's become a fkg joke.

I noticed that people who mistreat them they even cry its not hurt its because they lose control I have seen one cry on the floor after a boy friend cheated on them with multiple other girls

It adds an extra layer or two of complexity when the narcissist you are dealing with is your family member. Definitely not easy but you learn quick!

I never loved him. I was just his friend. Now he's playing possum.

I just got out of a relationship with one. She had no empathy for how i felt about things. She would shut down when she got mad and failed to communicate. Almost 100 percent sure she made a fake fb profile as another woman to set me up. Why? No reason. I found she had other men in her phone contacts that she dated or had sex with. I deleted all my exes. She couldn't do that. She knew how to hurt me and then would go to sleep and sleep great not caring i was going through hell. Then everything was my fault. She never admitted she was wrong.

Some narcs are molly codled and turn out to be golden child no abuse over loved

I keep hearing you breathe through your nose after every sentence.

Always tempting to give benefit of the doubt to sister and brother siblings, but I suppose there comes time to have to draw the line. Sad though it is.

They sure do!

I get it. Poor narcissist.

Not all narc have childhood trauma,some become narcs because of another's narc abused. My ex narc was abused by he's ex wife. He's parents were good and he's childhood was good. He became what he detest the most. He was married for 9 years of abused he became an expert. He's wife was always in control he felt mediocre wich I think she was right he's 💯 a mediocre man in all aspects. Everything he told me she did to him,he did to me.

Can someone tell me the truth.. because I was cheated on and decided to stay with the person but I fear they are a narcissist. But then in this video they say the narcissist is done when they have no libido and just have anger hate and I feel like I've gone cold and this resonates with me. I don't want to be intimate with then anymore but I don't want to leave them theyre all I've ever known. Am I the narcissist because I am being cold to them now because I feel hurt?

They are full of demons. Pushing blame is not helpful. Denying the truth is not a good thing

This is it! She never was capable of Love. Period! No matter how “long” one was together. She was never “yours” fellas, it was just your “turn”… 😳 But 💯 the Truth

it's always on my mind and i can see,

that's interesting, i have a vision but i don't know who had intimacy to a woman the pennies stock from the vigina, doctor cut off the pennies the woman died.

who told you, he just request the google to play his poem, for me to read.

Copy cat!!!
Speaking of mirroring??? You copied this video.

One thing I have learned about narcissist, don't ever ever expose them. I did and now I have a smear campaign on the net forever.

In anything wrong that’s went through ones life, one cant blame others but herself. For me, its just okay if hes done. Whats important is I understand everything and hes gotten over me and found a better one😊

my mother and husband are demon possessed narcissist. helpful yt channels are narc ology unscripted, angel haven ministries, and tea on npd yt channels. The only thing that can save them is repent, forgive everyone, accept Jesus, ask God to change their heart, and get baptised. that is the only thing that can help them. counseling is ineffective with a therapist without Jesus. Period. to say its not demonic means you were NOT raised by one, so you dont know what you are talking about. my mother threatened to stab me with a pair of scissors because i couldnt find them in the drawer and wouldnt speak to me for days after screaming at me and calling me names like stupid. afterwards ahe claimed that never happened and i am a liar. she never apologized or aknowledged it happened. It is Definately a group of DEMONIC entities under Jezebel or Leviathan. spiritual warfare is necessary for the victim. FIGHT against them with PRAYER and binding each group of spirits, like pride. I speak with 50 year experience.

Wow you sound like a victim and Godless. You are literally playing into their hands! You care more about what people think. Those are evil wicked spirits operating in them! Demons! The Bible says to mark and avoid! Tell the truth! The devil is a liar!!! I give glory to God for allowing me to see and setting me free! This is why this demon is able to operate no one calls them out bc they don’t want to be mean lol mean while this spirit goes about its business as if it’s taking candy from a baby.

He would even use they same “phrases” I did

True about having contacts in the side.
Had a whole plan that didn’t include me.
funny thing is …he thought I didn’t know.
I knew ..I could feel it.
It was his anger,emotional & verbal abuse that pushes me away…but the kicker to my filing for divorce was knowing he was seeing someone and living elsewhere part time.
in the end..I was right.

Oh no, what will I do…

I gave her too much credit, thinking she was mature enough to respect normal boundaries, and I was sorry for her as well because she was socially very inept. She always went on about how people abandoned her and she was always afraid of losing me. So much as I wanted her to back off, I put up with a lot that I shouldn't have.

But when I cut off her supply, that's when her true colours came glaring through and my nagging suspicions confirmed.

But it hadn't occurred to me that she could be a narcissist.

Now I think she could be.

She is exceedingly shallow, though she tried to hide it, it always came out. She could also turn on the crocodile tears and off again in seconds. That always really bothered me.

my cyber bully who has many narcissist tendencies copied me too, especially picking up figures of speech from me. Gah I hated that and sometimes she used them in the frong context and I'd have to correct.

I never felt close to her. My feelings went from "This is a sweet and potential great friend" to "Ew, what's the matter with her?" "She's smothering me." and "Why doesn't she just get over herself already!?" to eventually "Oh, girl, just leave me alone! There's nothing you can do for me!

I gave mer supply without even knowing it, and when it became clear she really was unhealthy, then my life took a devastating turn as well, and I just couldn't cope with her demands on my time and energy any more.

Dude I thought she'd shoot up a school on my birthday or attack her husband because she loves drama. Any knock at the door, I think she's finally gotten herself in the news like she wants. I'm scared that she'll try to just reappear after her restraining order she placed against me. She was calling me nonstop and I lashed out at her because when I'm done I'm done. And she fled to the courthouse and I'm glad. Because I get to make a note of it if she calls or texts after I changed my number. I deleted social media and my only public comments are about what happened. When I'd check, she'd reference me covertly in what she's posted. I've been no contact for over two years and chances are she'll read this. She's always watching because she doesn't have a real life or personality. Her hobbies are chasing down supply, lying on the internet and probably torturing everyone around her with her incessant need to be the victim or center of attention. I'm in therapy for the hypervilgance and mourning the loss of my true homie for real, her ex. All the love I had for her went to him and myself. I've unattached myself from that beast

It is horrible to be fooled by a narcissist, but it really highlighted how much work I need to do on myself to not let others determine my happiness, or how I should feel about myself. Self love is the answer

Until we find love in ourselves we won’t know what true love is

If a stove is on…… you wouldn’t put your hand in fire to confirm it’s hot would you?! Their demons! Avoid sick people. YOU can’t “fix” them

Good.

Thank You❤

If My Ex Husband was Out here Stranded on Side of the Road and Yes I would help him get to Safety but Thats It!!!

Why would You Hate on The Narcissist!!! For One My Ex Husband was Abused Growing Up by his Dad and Like You Said We would Be No Different or Better!!!

You kno I stil dont blame him!!!

Yes What You Said is The Truth!!! I have never Hated My Ex Husband for being A Narcissist and I Took it As A Big Lesson

I blocked the numbers of two narcissists recently. I don't want to hurt them only get rid of them. Then i found out someone else blocked me in retaliation for that. When I heard the gravelly angry sounding automated voice tell me I couldn't make the call, I gave myself a high five. The phone company did me a magnificent favor by pissing off my narcissists for me. That way my narcissists can't very easily accuse me of being suddenly mean. They can blame our service provider. LOL.