Parents - 11 HARSH TRUTHS. | Ankur Warikoo Hindi

Me toh mere parents ko bejhunga isme Darna kya hai

sanskaro ke naam pe manipulation? uska kya?

I know is wrote a long paragraph about my situation, but I beg you for helping me.

Meri age 24 saal hai.

Main pichle 3 saaalon se ghar se dur raha raha tha.

College ke 2nd year mein kisi dost ko exam mein cheating karane ke liye college se 1 saal ke liye ban ho gaya.

Or ban hone ke baad main apne papa ko nahi bata paya kyu ki unhone bachpan se hi mujhe bahut dara dhamka ke rakha tha, saath hi unhone college mein admission dilane se palhe ye bhi bola tha ki agar 1 bhi exam mein back lag gai to main tujhe gaav le aaunga and he is.

My father is an Ex-Army person.


Saath hi main papa ko kabhi ye bhi nahi bata paya ki mane 12th class mein galat stream choose kar li, kyu ki uss time mujhe proper guide karne ke liye family mein koi nahi tha and mane biology subject le liya, jubki mera interest bachan se hi creative or technical field mein raha ha. But after 1 year of completing my 12 I realized that this stream is not for me, then also i prepared for medical exam for 2 years, or usme bhi mera selection nahi hua. uske baad mujhe papa ne B.Pharma karne ke liye bol diya, jitne bhi decision liye papa ne meri life ko leke saare decisions relatives ko considerstion mein leke liye.

Mere papa mere bachpan se hi mere or meri mummy ke saaath bahot toxic rahe, jaise mujpe haath uthaya vase hi mummy pe bhi utha dete the, pure close relative jaante hain ki mere papa mujhe bahot maarte the even mere 12th paas hone ke baad bhi, mane kisi ke papa ko itna exterme level pe maarte hue nahi suna na to family mein na hi friends mein, par mujhe kitna maarte the ye sabko pata ha, or logon ke muh se ye sun na ki tere papa maarenge mere andar papa ke liye nafrat or dar bharne laga jub main 3rd class mein tha tubse, humesha apni dominancy extreme level pe rakhi.

Or ye bhi eak bahot bada reason raha ki main apni life ki koi problem kisi aise insaan se share nahi ka paya jo insaan meri help kar paye, ku ki saare decision papa hi lete hain, gahr mein kisi ke koi openion ki resect nahi hoti.

Main bilkul bhi complaining nahi ban na chahata life mein but ye fact ha, mane bahot baar papa se dost ban ke baat karne ki kosis bhi ki ha, but kabhi bhi unhone meri baat nahi suni, thodi der sunte hi unko gussa aa jata ha, or dheere fir mujhe apni feelings batate batate rona aane laga, or papa bolne lage ki main darma kar raha hu.

Meri life to sabse worst to ab ho gai ha, ku ki pichle saal July 2023 mein papa ko pata chal gaya ki mujhe college se ban kar diya ha, or mane 2 saal se bataya nahi, or papa mujhe gaav leke aa gaye jaisa inhone bola tha, or meri padhai bhi chudwa di. Or ab mujhe bol rahe hain ki yahi gaav ke paas wale town me koi mechanic vagera ka kaam karle, chota mota kaam sikh ke khud ka kaam start kar lena, or 7 mahine se mujhe ghar pe bitha rakha ha, mera mobile phone bhi le liya inhone, or ab bhi main apne Dada ji ka phone use kar raha hu.

Ab main bilkul bhi ghar pe nahi rahana chahata, mere mind me sirf 2 hi thoughts aa rahe hain, ya to main apni jaan de du ya fir main gahr se chala jau, main bahar jakar ek achi life ji paunga jaisa ki main jina chahata hu, main freely vo kaam kar paunga jo main karna chahata hu, mujhe papa jaise bata rahe hain ki koi kaam kar le chota mota yaha gaav mein raha ke vasa nahi kar paunga main, mujhe apne interest ke according saare possible kaam thode thode time ke liye karke exerience lena ha, baad mein main decide karunga ki konsa kaam me main actual mein perfect hun. Main ye bhi jaanta hu ki bahar ki duniyan bahot buri ha or waha jina bahot muskil ha. But trust me yaha gaav mein na to aisa koi acha infrastructre hai or na hi family main koi aisa inaasn ha jo meri feelings ko samaj paye. Or mera strees level itna jayda badh chuka ha ki main bahot baar diwar mein sar takrane lag jata hu, or pure din contineous sar dukhne lag jata ha, jub bahot tez sar dukhta ha to main sudharshan kriya or meditation kar leta hu, but ye sub karne ke baad thodi der to sub thik rahata ha but firse vaise hi sar dukhne lagta ha. And i feel ki main eak din khud ko rok nahi paunga or suicide kar lunga, or main ye nahi chata ki meri family mujhe humesha ke liye kho de, iss se acah mujhe yahi lagata ha ki main gahra se dur chala jau or succesfull hoke hi wapsa aau.

Main pichle 3 saal se Jaipur rah raha tha or ban hone ke baad mane dubara se college fees dene ke liye part time job bhi kiye hain or main abhi bhi ghar se bahar jakar kuch saal tak part time job kar sakta hu jub tak main apne career ke related skills master nahi kar leta, mujhe confidence hai ki main apne expanse manage karne ke saath saath thodi thodi savings bhi kar sakta hu, i know starting ke kuch saal mujhe kaafi jayada struggle karna padega, but i can manage all struggle.

Mere mind mein bahot se thoughts hain jo main aapko by text explain nahi kar sakta, and i think koi insaan kisi ke thoughts completely explain bhi nahi kar sakta.

I am completely blank ki mujhe kya karana chaye.

Please Please Help Me!!!!!!!

Adult ego is the most toxic thing that is normalised in every Indian family

The saddest part is that my parents won’t give a fuck about this video

I am suffering from depression because of my parents

❤🥺really thanku sir...i m a 14.yr teenager..

Meri mom to merekp kisise baat hi nhi krne deti , jo bhi nya rhne aata h usse keh deti hn ki me shy hu , is karan mujhse koi baat bhi nhi krte 😢 , jab aap kisise bat krna chaho aur koi aapke taraf dekhe bhi na , vo life ki sabse gandi feeling hoti h , specially womens se baat krne se mujhko rokti hn 😢

Comparison and cant find childs potential

Very well said

Awesome video.... it's so relatable ❤❤

Biggest mistake u've made is naming your son Vidur. Just imagine his school life

Fun fact:- they are never wrong only child are wrong 😭

When my parents will be watching the television,I will link this video with my tv👿

The comments show that most people watching this video are kids

Ye sare cheese mere parents krte h

TYPICAL INDIAN FAMILY THEY ONLY EXPECT US TO PERFECT THEY WANT US TO ONLY STUDY NOT TO ENJOY A SEC.THEY NEVER TRY TO UNDERSTAND US OR OUR HAPPINESS THEY JUST WANTED US TO UNDERSTAND THEIR SITUATION AND GO ACC TO THEM . EVERY SMALL THING THAT GAVE US HAPPINESS IS WRONG FOR THEM LIKE TALKING TO OUR FRIENDS , GOING OUT JUST FOR REFRESHMENT , WANT SOME MORE MONEY FOR EATING OUT .... THESE LITTLE THING IS WORNG FOR OUR PARENTS

Be silent and ignore their .......

Indian parents are never wrong only chaned government is

The local goons forced me to devorce my newly married wife because her reliogion was different(Muslim).
The sad part is my parents support them(local goons).

They are coming to pick me up to the mental hospital...

I can't take the emotional torture from my father anymore😢

I was one of those Sharmaji ka beta, and my life was a hell. Can't wish anyone such a life. I was intelligent enough to score maximum grades in school, but my father in his societal fear imposed on me max 4 hour sleep schedule and the rest I was supposed to study for my 10th class. Everytime I overslept few minutes, I was beaten mercilessly and insults, taunts and slangs were thrown at me. After 12th I convinced my father to send me to Germany, and now he shamelessly denies beating me or any inhuman act that he practiced. If you beat your kids for this nonsense, I am sorry but you never deserved to be a parent.

Reasonating with every points .

Every single word of this vedio is true and 100% Facts. And it's heartbreaking to see but it's a reality and each one of us iss been through this phase.

I think Indian parents se kuch expectation rakhna hi bawkoofi hai inhone khud apni life me kuch ni ukhada aur apne bacchho ka mindset bhi aisa kar Diya ki woh padhai likhai ko chodkar bhaaki kisi cheez me acchha naho

the urge to send them this💔

If only I got this video in 1999 😔

बहुत अच्छी बातें हैं पैरेंटिंग पर ।

बस परिवार के मामले मे विदेशी पुस्तकों का प्रभाव ज्यादा है।

अगर बच्चा असमाजिक हुआ तो रिलेशंस को हलवा भी नही समझेगा

Okk ma baap hona i galat hai,bachcha hamasha jyada samajdar hai.aap Thora galat message de raha hai

tu acting kyun karra hai itty laude seedhe beth ke bolna

I felt like I'm watching Srk when u talk 👀... U look like that

the facial expression you made when u said riste, riste and then said rishte was so funnnyyyyyy

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N sir agr parents sune hi na to kya kre btae plzz.....n normally kuch sunna hi ni chate

Plz help I'm not even have any attachment towards anyone even for myself

Iam leaving my home now..becz iam 31 and still they are scolding me

I am gonna share it in my WhatsApp to only uncles, aunts and moms generation because the noise in my mind is killing me from inside

The fact that 90% of the viewers here are teenagers only😂 parents don't even search these things ☹️

Is it only me or what well why does he sound like Amer Khan from taree zameen par

Waitt... if i send this.. they even don't know you!

Love you Sir, from Indore.
Sir I am so caught up in life’s whirlwinds that At least I learnt to pray and forgot all and became egoistic about my work and stopped realising that I had a wife and family,
All of a sudden everything starts falling apart as if it was my mistake but I was so unaware because of the social melo drama happening inside my brain and the society.
I belong to a middle class family and my father struggled a lot with finances in early days raising 3 kids at once and my Uncle giving employment to several in my joint family.
Now we have come this far but still this parenting and knit-pinning keeps baffling me when I reach home and start losing my cool just because I don’t understand their behaviour or expectations of me which I would love to have as a child.
How should I balance the love both for my son and my family at the same time not misjudging them for their own stupid pasts.

In what Era are you speaking today parents are giving full freedom in every aspect of life..today your video is just no relence

Meri badi se leke choti galti par bhi meri mummy muje maarti hain 😢🥺

Simple solution... slowly and steadily break all your ties with such toxicity and move on and don't pass it on to your own children...THEY WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND, THEY WILL NEVER CHANGE AND THEY WILL CALL THIS VIDEO UTTER BULLSHIT AND MOCK YOU FOR EVEN WATCHING THIS VIDEO

How toxic comments have been written in the comment box about parents irrespective of thier sacrifices, unconditional love and many things...There is no doubt that our parents are expected a lot from us...that means we can't say that they are always thinking to impose their thoughts upon us....

Samajte hi nahi hai

Bhai maa baap mujhe to nahi pasand

Pitti Pitti Ho Gayi Zameen Ki😂😂😂😂