Todd's Super-Simple Flirting Method (Try This ASAP)

Giving this another run. Gotta get back to where I once was.

Gold

This is shit is just too complicated.

So you should let a woman know you’re interested by telling her she makes weird choices and that you’re unsure if you’ll get along? Please explain…

This video is similar to the Fractionation vid. I wonder how many more examples can be give to make the encounter man to woman. I like.❤

Top notch vid

OMG for the first time ever, this shit actually makes some kinda sense. Thank you Todd!!

Are the negative flirts the best way to go? Not all girls I flirt with have great flirting skills are have English as their first language. What are some positive flirts?

I really like that his examples are NOT compliments, but mild “negs” 👌🏻

The art of easing women into receiving our love ❤️

I love Todd's little jumps while he speaks. Not sure why´, but makes the intro more dynamic. Curious how that works.

this formula he gave for escalating the interaction from making a statement to making a tease to making a flirt with very low risk is life changing for me because I live in a small town and every interaction feels like a risk. this is the secret i've been looking for for years

Thank you for everything Todd

Flirt Ortiz

Teasing man to woman vice versa is flirting.

I don’t believe in god but if I did I’d say your going to heaven for sure

Like, "it ain't gonna stick itself" am I right?

Great, loving this channel. I'm struggling with the whole flirting thing but it is making more sense now.

God of social communication

Why does things need to be so difficult, ambiguous?

3 years later and it stands the test of time, the best advice I've been given! I used this advice the same day I watched it and it works! I'm going to share the story for those of you who care.

I did my first approach of the day, it was a nice and friendly interaction but failed to make the interaction man to woman, so when I went for the close, it was like many others finishing off with "I have a boyfriend". I have been struggling with this for the past weeks trying to make my interactions man to women, so I spent the next 15 minutes watching this video and taking notes, I laid on the grass for a quick 10 minute nap, and did my next approach on another cutie.

I opened with a comment on her outfit, she kinda rolled her eyes with a half a** laugh, the first sentences were platonic, and she even said "I'm kinda in a hurry" like f off attituted but I made myslef stay in the interaction. She then mentioned how she is from L.A., "ohh that makes sense, that explains why you're DEFINITELY not Davis" (Davis = city we were in). She was caught off guard and said, "What?! You don't think I'm Davis?", "Nope" I said in a calm a** voice 😎. "What does Davis look like?" She asked, I replied "summer dress, and taking photos in a sunflower field for instagram", "I mean yeah, but I can be that though" she said. PAUSE! That was my first interaction of cold approaching where a cute girl was qualifying herself to me!

We then were flirting back and fourth, I went for the close "lets get some coffee sometime", "maybe, it depends what kind of coffee you like though" she said smiling. "I'll just throw you a curve ball and say I like matcha lattes" I said smiling back. "Oh yeah I bet you like matcha since all the b*tch*s like it😏" she said snarkly. I was laughing out loud, that sh*t was funny😂. We exchanged instagrams (should have asked for the number) and we parted ways because she was kinda in a rush. I have yet to contact her.

Even though I didn't get an insta date, or kiss her, or sleep with her. I still learned so much from that interaction, because all the other ones I did were not as nearly as good as that. I left the interacion with a paradigm shift. Thank you Todd! This was very helpful and inspiring!

Todd, you used to make videos where you showed exactly how you moved around girls, "being in action" now it's a lot of words, please go back to the old videos where you showed how to hit on girls, or pick up girls on the street!.. tnx

Ive never heard these terms defined like this...that was cool lol

I love this Video!

Well said!👏🏾👏🏾

Its just disgusting to try doing stuff mechanically

I think this comes to listening really good and using intelligent play with words ( using metaphors in flirting is really exciting and can be really sexy)

Explanation about why this works : Everyone grows up seeking their parents validation. Validation is crucial to our survival at young age. Most girls are seeking validation their whole lives. But most guys give away their validation too quickly. They approve and like everything the girl says and does. By commenting about the relationship between you two, you are implying that you are still considering the relationship. Therefore, you are not giving your validation right away, and the girl chases.

A true alpha male has a clear idea about who he is and what he wants, also what kind of people he allows in his life. So the alpha male is constantly evaluating the girl and the relationship, trying to figure out if she is a right fit.

Even the naturals you see with tattoos working as bartenders, they tease the girls hard, comment about the relationship and make the girls chase their validation.

Thx for the vid!

Question:
How to deal with situation when you try to tease the girl a bit, but she is not laughing and is too closed (trying to be serious)?

Good man

Love your work bud :)

You didnt make a specific example. Would be cool if you did. Einstein said something like this. Making an example is the only way of teaching. Not only A way. But i guess. "That" is such a ridiculous thing to say is a fine example...

Absolutely brilliant! Other coaches dont teach this!

Im sick of guys named Todd!

Awesome stuff

This dude sounds so mechanical...please...this guy has no grasp on reality

Older vid, but still applies. Great explanation! 👍

I tried this via text flirting. Question-Statement - Tease-Flirt

I asked what she was drinking at Christmas - question

Champagne. - her statement

Yes you mentioned your family are rich, definitely are getting you champagne! - tease

Haha I don't usually drink champagne not that rich - response to tease

Shame I hoped we could sip champagne while watching a movie together - flirt

She found it funny. Building from a question to a flirt is possible!

Here are some lines I have written on WE FRAME (We, You & I, You and Me, Us, Together) :-
MIND YOU THESE ARE JUST LINES ON WE FRAME, YOU CAN ADD YOUR TEASE AND THEN FLIRT USING THESE!
OR SOMETIMES TO REGENERATE ‘WE FRAME’ for that it can also be used!
1. That’s how we’re going to be?
2. That’s how it’s going to be between us
3. You’re definitely excited when we are together
4. You can’t turn back the time, who wants to ? We are cherishing this moment right now
5. I don’t like having bad habits but if it’s you I can surely manage
6. Every minute gets sexy as we go with the flow
7. If we ever have to decide that who’s the cooler one among us, I’ll let you be the cooler one cause it’s among us!
8. I just don’t want you to get cranky/grouchy till the time I comeback/ when we are not with each other
9. I can now assure you and me are the most crazy people of this era
10. Oh! So that easily you will let us drift away
11. We can surely turn off our brain and surrender ourselves to each other for a while
12. The world would have highest regards for us after they experience our level of joy
13. Yeah that’s exactly how we roll
14. You know what we look like? A girl and guy who looks innocent individually but devious when together 😉
15. Haha! This tells me that we’re rekindling our lives
16. I think you found your sanity in me
17. I had no clue we’re gonna meet someday
18. You’re a lil offbeat but we can work on that
19. We are going to faint if we don’t stop admiring each other
20. We are going to die if we don’t stop laughing

I don’t know how good or bad are these but they can surely work if one knows how to use them (not all of them at once, in between the interaction) to regenerate i to you to we, for man-woman convo, intimacy, showing intent, not making it platonic!

I hope it helps to whoever is struggling to understand or create some lines to use as I myself for a quite few days struggled with this. You can use these and slowly try to build yours.

Keep gaming and keep killing it!
Love, Ritwik 💙
India.

Amazing! Todd, you make things so clear and simple. You're a great teacher!

the way you break down such complexity into easy steps is just pure genius and elegance todd

genius!

That's amazing now I understand.

Passing speech checks in rpgs 😂😂

Get a real job todd

Man, you explain this shit so well. Thanks.

You just made it more confusing