How to Set Boundaries & Stop People Pleasing

thank you so much for this video ❤

Saying no to family gatherings with my husbands family has been a lifelong challenge due to his not supporting me.

People mistook us for being arrogant or rude when we set a boundaries. But ignore them, move away or remove them from your life. Unless you take care of your needs there’s no one will do it for you.

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🤘🏾I’m learning now for real thank you!

its like learning a part of yourself respecting yourself even tho sometimes it hurts like crazy but still choosing to stay true to your ownself and leaving situations and people that are disrespectful

Thannk you for theses tips I really needed this keep making videos like these

It was awesome I needed to hear this, very educational and constructive, appreciate you for sharing it!

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🙋‍♀️The People Pleasing ENDS NOW.

You are so right ,I'm not people pleasing ever again 🎉

I like this video. Very good advice

I'm about to make every line you said a quote in my journal. This was beautiful. Thank you.

this was so good to me. thank you, i took notes

Hmmmmm I said NO, n got cussed out. It took me a bit 2 get grounded ❤

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I only beginning this in my 40s 🤦🏼‍♀️ but wow what a breath of fresh air

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Younare an incredibly smart person and such a keeper! Go in Sales too like me! Hope you're living life to the fullest, man! 😀👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

This content is rich. A book I read recently was equally abundant in insights. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn

this is my biggest problem...
to the point theres nothing left to my self... that I learned in a hard way that I should learn to take care first myself before anyone else ...

Tha ka for this video! It’s explain a lots 🙏

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Thank you very much, this video is what I've always needed in my life.

I have just taken on a man with alcohol addiction. I've sorted his life out and he became abusive and aggressive towards me. We fought and I told him never to come back. I feel used.

This is the video right here. I have been overcoming being a people pleaser over the last year and have made so many breakthroughs and discoveries. Saying no was so difficult for me because I was afraid of making others angry. OMG! It feels so much better to take care of myself, communicate my needs and honor what's best for me. Thank you 💞

This is perfect for what I am dealing with currently. Thank you

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This was wonderful! Thank you!!

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when you are ready to leave the event, go home! don't wait around for hours just for the sake of other people when you'd rather be at home. your time is valuable

I'm a language leaner, so i was really happy to find ur vid, it helped me a lot.

i remember being called selfish because my best friend offered to break out of school and i refused. Guess what happened? They are not even my friend now. I'm proud of myself. (even tho this is very old.)

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This was a wonderful video. Thank you!

i really needed this ,, thank u so much <3

Thank you for pointing this out. I'm glad to find your video. I'm 30 years old, and I realized that I have been a people pleaser all my life because I do not want to disappoint my family, my co-workers, etc. Now, I want to focus on self-love and taking care of myself since I have deprive myself of such for a long time.

Thanks a lot for the knowledge!

My tolerance is challenged every time in family gatherings.

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I have a question. It's said that if you don’t draw a line people will use you.
If i see people that are vulnerable i would never think of using them. I leave people alone because even if could use them I don’t want to and I don’t need to.
I prefer being alone. All of my friendships are mostly on the giving side because when they ask for something I'm glad to help but I don’t need anything from them or I do occasionally once a month, so
I keep wondering, if all people have skills then why are people so needy?

Am i the only one?

✋for everything I never liked doing from overtime 😔

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I don't even know where to start practicing all this. I think this is the hardest thing I need to learn. I've never even thought I had problems with boundaries as everything I do feel selfish so I thought I am a slefish person ignoring everyone else around me. A lot to digest...😂

This is so much needed..thankyou