How Years of Porn Consumption Affects Brain's Ability to Form Relationships

It seems viable to have a Healthy Gamer Onlyfans if the selling point is something like psychiatrically-monitored prngrphy contents. Like... a prn that is "educationally safe" or "received efforts to be less harmful to how you think in anyway we could imagine".

Personally I want porn to be perma banned and everything about it

Porn is destroying my live. I started it in 2011, when I was just 10 years old. Since then I've been doing it daily. Can you imagine an young man without any will power? That was me during my youth. I didn't want to study, I didn't want to go out, I didn't want to have a relationship and the worst of all, I lost time. It only got worse as the time went on, I went to university, lost a lot of subjects, didn't want to study at all, and the things I watched only got more extreme. Now I think I'm in the worst period of my life. I'm 23 years old, I have a girlfriend but the passion I had for her is almost gone because I can't let my bad habits go. I'm also catholic and I just refuse to live my religion properly. I have no idea what to do. If you think that porn is not addictive, read my story again.

How many times do you have to use "like" in a sentence before it's pathological, Dr. K?

I wish I could go back to seeing men the way that I used to before internet porn became a thing. Im so disturbed by what so many of them like that I feel like i never really knew men at all. I'm surrounded by secret monsters every time I'm in public, and I dont know why it's okay for women to have to live this way. How are we supposed to trust them? This is so far out of control.

porn is 100% poison.

The average brain does not form a relationship. But sometimes people do.

I wonder if Dr. K eats rice and dalithoy.

"The simplest questions have the most complicated answers."
What is 2 + 2? Hard to say.

Also. It’s not jsut that partners feel like their SO is cheating while viewing porn. They ARE cheating (because your brain doesn’t actually know the difference between sex with a real person and sex with a screen, but also bcs when your partner feels like it’s cheating then you should respect that) but they’re just doing it in a way that they’ve been told is safe and ok and not socially inappropriate. Kinda like when dudes stare at women and say “I’m just looking not touching” and so if their person is sad or upset they use this stupid social norm to throw it all back in their face and keep doing it. It’s ridiculous

We need a new vid from you on this topic please. I abhor porn bcs it’s ruined two relationships now and I feel like it’s just wrecking men 😢

The waifu, and husbamdo, revolution! 😊

I knew about this and used it to my advantage, I totally destroyed my attraction to women, this has helped me avoid so much BS in my life. Now in my 40s, most of my friends are either
- divorced
- going through a divorce
- henpecked husband's

Invaluable video, highly recommend every man to was pron as much as possible.

OF ruined a Civilization.
Twitch is a gateway to Pono wake up.
As soon I stopped watching Twitch, I stopped having Urges.

It's true that we don't really know where porn and only fans is going, but it's safe to say that this will not lead to anything good for anyone. Even girls on only fans themselves are finding that they aren't making as much money as the company promised and they can't take their pictures down later like they were led to believe they could. Everything about porn is extremely destructive, and I have a lot of sympathy for anyone struggling to overcome an addiction.

Jesus set me free from a daily (often multiple times) 11 year addiction over night

I would love to find or make a study looking at people who self identify as addicted to porn and actually figure out if porn is a problem for them or if it is just shame around porn use and sexuality. Lack of sex education and a sex negative outlook can mess up relationships to sex and sexual content and religious organizations are all too happy to label normal sexual behavior and interest as sinful and addictive behavior. I am really skeptical about sex and porn addiction as a future LMFT and AASECT certified sex therapist. I am still in training but the research I have come across so far defines addictive sexual behavior in strange and judgemental ways. It seems biased. I would love to hear your basis for thinking that these addictions are legitimate. Thanks so much for your educational content

OMG.... ending the clip on the Waifu Revolution was grim AF.

Entiendo que el porno pueda ser malo en exceso pero, que hay de los que no tienen acceso a chicas y no tienen de otra que buscar desahogo en el porno (como mi caso) puede que sea algo vergonzoso de mencionar, pero en estos casos donde no hay alguna chica con la cual tener intimidad, no queda de otra que usar esos medios, y si he intentado conocer chicas para ir a algo más alla pero siempre se hacen para atrás
OJO : No soy adicto al porno, de vez en cuando acudo a eso, es una sensación vacía qué te deja a veces porque no tienes a una mujer real, pero recalco, no hay otra alternativa (salvo prostitutas, qué no me gusta)

What is this pornography everyone s talking about? Is it that travis scott intro from rodeo?

for a wholesome creator his chat is complete cancer

If you know who you are , then nothing can affect your lifestyle . I enjoy porn , and it gives me dopamine hit, cause i love to find new stuffs , that's the fun I enjoy having. I am in a relationship for 4 years now, Porn haven't affected my mental state nor my body nor my relationship in any shape or form. I treat porn as an entertainment and learning some new stuffs just like gaming, and yes porn can give many lessions if you see it that way, I never felt embarased or down about it , porn made my sexual tensions or desires and to control my sextuality in many cases. I am an average looking man 25 years of age, I can communicate with any woman without any problem,and they tends to enjoy my presence,cause i dont see other woman in sexual way, I can control my emotions when it comes to get in trouble, porn helped me to learn that. It helped me to release excess erge or needs of sexuality , Porn nutralize a man's sexual spike when not needed .

The problem is sex workers and only fans and thot culture has made porn more natural than evil.

*KINDLY READ IT ONCE IF YOU ARE NEWBIE TO NOFAP AND P0RN CONSUMING *
So back in the 2016 I started watching p0rn and fap two or three times in one month
and same happened in 2018 & 2019 ( in march 2019 i complete my school and I hadn't my personal phone)
but when i went to college i got my personal phone in mid 2019 and boom my porn consumption increased day by day and when the 2019 winter came i lost my sanity by watching porn idk what happened with me I start watchin again and again whole days & in feb 2020 the fukin lockdown came
and my dark ages had been started
in 2020 from feb to september i fapped almost every day most of days two or three times and then after sept i realise some changes in my mental spritual and physical health , I was very frustrated about seXX and Sexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, then i starting nofap and I failed at just 3 days and doing the old things again and again

the january 2021 came and i was thinking (guilty regret anger) about what I have done the last year i.e 2020 because in 2020 i fapped more than 500+ times and then i talk myself that i will not doing the same things this year

BUt i had some PTSD kind of trauma which gave me fking anxiety and I was not focusing on my study and after two or three days i litrelly dont care about my those two old days promises and then I stated again and again till July 2021.

Then I got frusted about myself so much at that time i knew what is going on with me and I cant stop myself yet again I start nofap and starting some Holy books , deleting social media accounts and doing some physical activities like yoga calisthenics, as the result I complete July and august without nofap and I feel very happy mentally and physically but when some weeks were passed my old habbits trigged me and I cant control myself so I decide I will only watch P0r and will not fap , and i did the same things I didn't fap but watch p0r but on 4 decmber 2021 i could stop me and boom I lost the battle
after finishing i was fking hate myself for what i had done. and decide to do it again

5 dec 2021 gone, 6 dec 2021 gone but when 7th dec 2021 came I trigged because it happen with us after two or three days . same things happen with me and i dint care about myself and my brain want lots of cheap dopamine so I gave it by watching and fapping and then i start again untill feb 2022.


in 2022 feb, i wants start no fap again and i starts by doing old things like yoga meditation calisthe. i complete feb then March, May, but in June 2022 i did the old shit again and did many times like whole month and even in July

and then i took a pen and copy and write down my problems like why i watch and what triggered me and other cons .
so once again I start my journey on 3rd August 2022 of nofap, first days gone then weeks and then months and then one year....
I triggred so many times but now i dont even fkin care about cheap dopamine now I only care about my spirituality, mental health and physical health

*In 2016 I fapped barely 25-26 times.
in 2017 i fapped around 30-40 times
in 2018 i fapped around 60-80 times
in 2019 i fapped around 130 (50+ in december)
in 2020 i fapped more than 500+
in 2021 i fapped around 200 times
in 2022 i fapped around 100-120
in 2023 i fapped ZERO *

i saw many more dark sides of p0rn which i can't describe here like p0rn gave me Insomnia, Migrain etcccccccccccccccccccc.........
but after doing 15 months of nofap I can say that I won against all those dark sides of p0rn.

now i've a good job, five pets(one dove, one kitten, one pigeon one calf and her mother) i spend a good time with them, happy family, calisthenic equipments,






*DONT WATCH P0RN IT'S MODERN DAY DRUG , ONCE YOU DRINK ONE SIP OF IT, THEY WILL GIVE YOU THOUSANDS OF GALLON DRUM ABSOLUTELY "FREE"


*AND ONE MORE THING P0RN IS NOT FREE IT WILL COST YOUR SOUL, YOUR TIME, YOUR FOCUS, YOUR SANITY, YOUR CONFEDENCE AND MANY MORE *

Sorry for bad English because I'm not from English dominant land



*HEY KINGS DON'T GIVE UP AND BECOME THE GREATEST BLOOD OF YOUR BLOODLINE
HAVE A GREAT LIFE MY BROS
GOOD BYE TAKE CARE*

Of course compulsive watching porn is harmful, but how much of the anti-porn discourse isn't just a different version of "Video-games will make you violent"? Are there any studies that show that porn has some ability to harm you more than other forms of content (e.g. violent games/movies)?

all my attention was reading chat

Not how I thought the video would end. lmao

I, because I was young curious and had unrestricted internet access, was exposed to porn at eleven. I have been pretty much addicted since, but I really want to try and stop now that I see the long term effects it can have on the brain. I’m glad that it’s now November because it gives me a reason to abstain and stop. And no I’ve never been in a relationship because I’m lonely

2023 still no waifu revolution and I have to interact with females to have sometimes sex:(((

Porn is bad, will be bad forever at least since we are still humans.

If you can’t get off just hit the g spot

Did a lot of talking but to be honest you didn’t really get into the details much like your title and thumbnail suggests.

i think i was first exposed to porn when i was somewhere around 11-13, i cant remember exactly when but it became a fairly frequent thing. maybe not daily, but every two days at least. it took me finding someone i was interested in to try and stop, because i realised from her view, would she want to be with someone that was consuming this type of content that frequently? im 22 now and im starting the nofap journey so that i can change myself into the best possible person i can be

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I have had a porn addiction for six years did the thing for 2 times day which it was 62 times a month It had willingly want me to change as a person it was for me self punishment to eliminate any bad thoughts yet made them stronger

is the promised HealthyGamerGG OnlyFans up and running now? :)

gg dude 👻

I have the same bookshelf 😂

Check yourself before you touch yourself

hey so this video is on the interviews section ??

I smack the meat once every other day and that’s fine for me 👏🏾💪🏾

Proof there are too many psychologists--they need to create a perceived problem they can cure--If you are watching too much porn, just watch it with your girlfriend or wife--you will soon find something else to do .

Not true

Gentlemen, no matter what people are telling you... DO NOT INVITE MORE GOVERNMENT INTO YOUR LIFE. Do WHATEVER you have to do to avoid getting married.

Waifu revolution is coming, indeed

Dr K and team, this video sits in a wrong playlist