The INBRED SHAME Of Emotional Incest (Ask A Shrink)

The Catholic Church is number one abuser of the mind.

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"I never wanted to have children, I never wanted to get married, your father wanted that." That was my mother's favorite "joke" she used to tell me and my little brother everytime we did something that didn't please her, which was often. Sometimes she would laugh nervously after saying that, more often not.

Brad the audio is kinda low on the videos...

I became ashamed of myself at a very early age due to having a Mother that used me as a therapist and to having been born with an eye condition that caused me to look "abnormal". Instead of receiving the support I needed from my parents, I was expected to be the support. All of the was a double whammy for me, and it is taking a lifetime to recover.

These information is revolutionary to many adults , men and women, many who feel a certain way to be subjected to their emotional incest mothers, this will cause a big hit back, millions of marriages and children suffer because of this sick behaviour

I didn't even know I wasn't being who I was. Mom must have bulldozed me into being a copy of herself when I was too young to remember. At what age does this typically happen? I can't even imagine what I'd be like if I was raised by healthy parents.

Brad, I so appreciate you and your work. I started crying during this video... you are giving me the words I need to understand my situation and liberate myself. Thank you!

The part about just being just breathing and taking up space hit me hard. I'm from the "children should be seen and not heard" generation but to the point I was invisible until it was time to vent rage.
There are so many channels here on Narc and parental abuse and many are great resources. Unfortunately your childhood experiences make you the expert on this topic and I want to thank you for sharing with us. I have no doubt that recounting this to your audience for education's sake is painful but thank you again. Some of us are still trying to rationalize the abuse.

My husband already made lots of progress w his therapist & with the info online about narcissistic abuse, but you are bringing another really important facet that we were still missing. Thank you

Could you maybe make a video on how to confront the parent? Now that i have noticed that I have been my mom's emotional crutch I am very angry at her. I don't want to keep lashing out at her though and I got my first apartment recently and it feels amazing being away from her but i feel guilty for not wanting to see her because she keeps on acting on a certain way even though I have also set up boundaries.

Im so wrapped up in all these factors of emotional incest. Its very hard to deal. I just discovered your page a week or so a go and this is all a big awakening. I know I should talk to a professional. Its hard to get started. I want to get better and lose my facade that my mother built and get rid of this constant shame.

Hi Brad, Ive been binge watching your emotional incest videos! And wow they’ve helped me so much. This one definitely struck a chord lol. I was raised by a mother who had EUPD and used me (her daughter) as her therapist and surrogate husband, I’ve always struggled to recognise my feelings, often feeling that I had none, heavy dissociation etc...I was recently diagnosed with emotionally unstable personality disorder as well (my therapist mentioned quiet borderline when I was confused lol) but I’m wondering if you think there is a link between covert incest and developing EUPD? The more research I’ve done on the topic the more it seems kinda obvious but I wondered your opinion? Thanks for making such wonderfully informative videos! They’re so helpful!

Sooooo good. I love your videos!!!!! thank you so much.

I grew up with this core belief that I was worthless, a mistake, and unlovable. Without realizing that the past is constantly determining my present actions, I avoided learning about my history, because it was too painful so I continued living in that cruel invisible prison, and living in my repressed childhood situation. The longer one is exposed to covert incest the more difficult rewriting that template is. At age 45 I would say when my mom dies I'll finally be free that is when I began to take a good look at my controlling Narcissistic monster I called mom.

I think religion adds another layer to this. Being Catholic and being taught if you have sex you're going to hell, and adding to that the 4th commandment of honoring your mother & father, and I feel like I'm going to hell for even speaking about what happened. I've just resigned myself to it by now though.

Thank you do much. This had been helpful.

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Hey Brad stumbled upon your videos a few months ago, they are really very insightful and helpful and I do appreciate the work you have put into these, helping me with my personal (emotional) work. You remind me of a someone I had met half a decade ago (through work) :) thank you for the help and the warm reminder.