7 Signs of Codependency, not Authentic Love

Holy shoot… I’m in a codependent relationship… 😰😰

I like these videos but why is weird music play and the narrator sounds too much like a sexy time whisper?

My partner has literally told me that they cannot be happy without me around. I don't know what to do.

The authentic love couple looks like loid and Yor

Thanks to God and DIZA SPELL CASTER who helped fix my relationship through Face+ book where I accidentally saw his ad,❤❤,

When you're doing or giving more than another in a relationship, you're co-dependent ( you believe within yourself that you are a savior-and you're not), and the relationship is toxic. Toxic people make you co-dependent. Healthy people will never allow you to give more while they give less. Healthy people help you to see how great you are without expecting you to constantly give to them. Healthy people allow you to say 'no', they even respect your 'no'', and you'll never ever feel guilty about being your true self around them. When you can't say 'no' to certain people, realize that your are dealing with a toxic person. Let's learn to protect and respect ourselves first. Here's the secret: Give more to yourself and give others equally what they give you. Stay Blessed

... NOBODY FREAKING SPEAKS LIKE THIS!

Nice tips as always, nice insight, keep it up!

I can't tell if I'm codependent or my mother is. I think it might be both.

Don't think you snuck a spy×family reference past ME

Do you guys already have a video on how to get rid of codependent habits? If not, could you guys make a video that addresses that topic? I realized how much of this is true for me and I really wanna become a better person by learning how to remove these habits and tendencies :<

Im in a true love relationship with the butcher’s nails

The butcher’s nails are flaying my brain

This is so scary. It’s weird cuz me and this guy I’m talking to go through some of these but we work on these issues a lot. I feel scared. I know I love him and it’s mutual but I don’t want this ruining things. Idk if I’m over thinking things

This reminds me of so many K-dramas lol

This is the scenario with my roommate and his mom. I called it a few years ago, manipulation too. I fear he's suckered into codependency though because he doesn't have great self worth. Worse still I think he wants a girlfriend to fulfill Him because of lack of self worth and he'll then start the codependency cycle.

I have to admit I'm pretty condependent with my partner. I take my frustration out on him even tho I try to control myself. But when I try to stay quiet and not tell him what feels wrong, I can't stop stressing or I feel like my mind is boiling. My mother was like that with my father all of the time and I guess I learned this by watching her. I try my best to change. Is there any video about how you can stop being condependent? He is a wonderfull guy and he loves so so much. It hurts me that I hurt him and I want to change and I try to, but honestly is hard. He is the quiet type and I managed to open him up at the beginning of the relationship, but now I think I'm closing him back again and I don't want to..

This just reminds me of a friendship I had with someone for the longest time. She ticked pretty much every box on this list. After I started distancing myself she got super angry at me for something that didn’t even happen. I’m almost certain that she simply couldn’t find a reason to be mad at me, and just made things up in her head to cope with it.
It’s been less than a year, and while I still feel lonely; I feel so much better without her. She was such a burden, and I think how different my life would be if I didn’t let her make decisions for me… the friendships I’d still have.

Love the way you used Artem,Luke, Vyn with Rosa

Here's a hypothetical: if you have no pre-arranged plans to talk to your partner on any given evening (such as a text or call), and they get mad at you for not talking to them but don't reach out to you, is there something overtly wrong?

I think it's totally fine to depend on your partner for some things, but that's the thing. You have to be an individual that loves themselves before you can start to love someone else. That's why I think "inter-independancy" which is the act of acting independant but also relying on your partner if the need comes up might be the best way to treat your parnter. It's a beautiful way of having your relationship, since both sides are living their lives how they would want to but also learn to respect that their partner can be relied on if they asked them.

Wow that sounds kinda like my relationship now.

Great video, but is that Gasai yuno?!
Wait I realize there’s lots of anime characters references in here. Lol

I hate the savior codependent types. They treat you like you are broken. I feel fine right now.

Love de loid and yor reference

After watching this video, it made me question myself if I’m the bad guy in my recent relationship. I do admit I’m pretty clingy to my partner. Like I do focus on my partner quite a lot bc this is my first relationship, and the same time I’m recently focusing myself (it’s difficult). I’m the guy who over worries things to much, maybe because I’m at introvert?But I always respect my partner’s boundaries or space. Idk when they need that space. Nowadays I feel like my partner is pushing me away, and I worry if it’s my fault. Having doubts in myself. My partner is really sweet and caring, now it’s distance feeling with me. I’m doing my best ability to keep this relationship. Thank you for those who reads this. Hope your day goes well.

A wise man once said that the majority of people is not suited for a healthy relationship. I'm taking my time now since I realized that it's easier to achieve professional or personal goals than finding a decent partner. From my own experience you should not get your hopes up when 2 codependents get together. Things can get sour pretty quickly. That's wishful thinking. It's like mixing 2 drug addicts together. Sure they may bond and get things sorted out but the higher probability is that they will only make things worse by sticking together and the problem is that on the codependent case the drug of choice is the relationship itself.

My partner and I of 5 years just recently broke up but are currently trying to reconcile but this video truly made me realize that in our first relationship we were both codependent of each other, maybe subconsciously emotionally manipulated each other. But now in this new relationship we are building, I am choosing to be with him, and vice versa. We are trying to be more open, honest and transparent in our communication with each other and openly expressing our wants/needs.

The Boundaries and Self Worth parts are terrifyingly true to my case... I was so in need of approval that no matter how much time and many things he's done for me, I still can't feel anything... Like, they're all being thrown into a void :"(
Trying to gradually fix that from now on 😢...

What's the background music??

I like the feature of Yor/Loid and Damian/Anya xD

it’s giving “i call them both teddy” and that pam from the office “it’s the same picture”

Hahahahaha I'm sorry that's wrong. If you love somebody set them free if they return they are yours if not hunt the b-stard down and nail them to a tree.

Co-Dependency girl art as yuno gasai is amazing tbh

Thank you so much for this video

Anja-chan ❤️

I had a friend for a while and I noticed that he was making me more and more uncomfortable and I could not really figure out why. But now I can see that he had some co-dependant tendencies about him. Like telling me not to feel a certain way cuz then he feels upset. Trying to use guilt and pity in order for me to spend time with him and pay attention to him( you know my day is better when you talk to me) as one example. I can see why my other friend found him creepy as he told me he found the guy emotionally manipulative.

Oh no… this makes so much sense to my problems. Can y’all make a follow up video on how to become more independent in a relationship?

With support from friends and partners, I feel like it's okay not to agree with their decisions and choices they makes but don't put ultimatums, try to prove them wrong/talk them out of it (unless it causes harm to themselves or others), or say "I told you so". Making decisions for yourself can be hard already but having someone try to control or put their input on everything can be toxic. Always communicate your feelings and thoughts but remember its their life not yours.

i love the yuno gasai reference

Lol my lover is all about "u would do this if u love me"

I love the anime characters used in this ❤️
Thank you Psych2Go for once again just so happening to post a video that somehow relates to my life whether it be about myself or someone close to me that I've been seeing these issues with.

Is this play about me?

I think ND relationships can come over a bit like some of these things without actually being codependent. I struggle a lot to maintain boundaries my partner just doesn't see etc.. however theres an acknowledgement that our relationship is likely less balanced most of the time but that's the choice in the situation I guess. Still ASD does cloud things somewhat

would be nice to actualy meet an authentic person like this 😔

Is it just me or is the pink character gasai yuno?

Yikes… I do some of these…

NOT YUNO AND YUKI 😂😂😂😂