Why Enabling A Child Is More About You Than Them

My cousin has so enabled her 40 year old son that he is technically retarded. It's pitiful and she has zero awareness of the problem.

Lazy parents why did you bother

What a loser. I love working myself to death, being a felon, a failed parent, and hearing how worthless others are. Now I'm still a loser. But at least i have a true loser reel to show loser women before they reject me.

In a nutshell, lying for, making excuses for, enabling, spoiled and overall favoritism by mom for my brother has ended up with the following:
1) He quit several colleges.
2) He quit his job 16 years ago.
3) He has not worked since quitting and gets defensive if him getting a job is brought up.
4) He owes my mom thousands of dollars for a car she bought him over a decade ago, repairs to that car, electronics she's bought him, toiletries, food and whatever else she has bought him that she has kept a secret.
5) He has several anger issues and thinks that hitting females is manly 9n some way. Yet, he has ever had a fight with a man. Go figure.
6) My mom is so embarrassed by him and has no control that she takes her anger out one me for the pettiest of situations. We do not get along because of this and I have no respect for her. I actually am happy when my brother disrespect her now because I see her true colors.
7) Every chance I get now, I tell anyone who will listen about my mom's "secret" that she thinks nobody knows about. I got tied of being blamed for telling, when I actually did not, when I would tell her that neighbors or family inquired about his job status. She would go off on me and yell "It's your fault....you told". So now I definitely tell. If you're going to accuse me and make it about me, instead of taking responsibility for enabling his behavior, which lead to this, yes, I'm telling every chance I get.

It takes more time and effort to actually help someone than enable their inappropriate behavior time and time again.

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I think more awareness needs to be done about what happens when you spoil and enable your kids. I have Googled this personally because I know someone who spoils their 12 year old child and they allow them to spend $75 on an arcade claw machine and not even win one CANDY BAR. A candy bar everyone. You can literally buy 75 bags of candy at the dollar store for $75. I couldn’t believe it. The spending is ridiculous. I talk about it with other people and we all agree it will not turn out well. Unfortunately, we would get chewed out if we even thought about telling them how to parent their kid. So there is no doing any of that.

But anyway I’ve googled this topic and not much comes up about it surprisingly. So I appreciate this video.

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I want my mans gma to go on here

I know a friend who has a child with a man like this and his parents house him in their basement, somehow he has a new girlfriend. He works for the family business and so does his sister and it is nuts how they spoke of him by Jimmy not James and he is 37yrs old and has two children from two different woman that basically Grandma cares for most of the time. What kind of person chooses a guy like this to date is another question I've asked?

Gheorghe? 😂😂😂😂 That must be a pain everytime when someone tries to spell that

This is my husband enabling his drug addict son.

Where is he now 2022 ?

Half a milli views and just 12 comments?!?!

If only my daughter could meet a guy like this.

leave him in the cage stupid its called tough love this mom is stupid if the man's in trouble its his problem its like my mom says its ur problem

This are not children...Dr Phil might be the problem

Where is he now???

I want to watch the whole episode where is this?

Wow. Wealth is wasted on some people.

This is a very common problem. How are there not more comments? Lol.

first comment on a 4 year old video lmao