When the Narcissist goes through a breakup

And the award goes to the narcissist 🎉

So is this what he's doing, i assumed he would probably looking into one of his other supplies

It’s ok for you to feel this pain. We alllllll do. Lots of us have the same kinds of thoughts. Just because you have NPD doesn’t mean all of your feelings are abnormal. Be kind and give yourself grace.

When i descard my narcistic ex after 10 years ....we was like months same time off and on social media i fellll him when his be on when his wrote when i mett him in centrumi just felllll alll i was play hovering game and i was exaiting to play his was weit for other suplay i was the trenager i felll it his practice on me all stuff be better for other suply and yes two months after his discard me his jump for other 😂 its creazy 10 years ! God!

Thx really you fir sharing ,"emotions " and make me understand what hapening in his head i can not imagine how hard its must be i dont hate him i try undrstand what hapening to me and sposto his give me explenetion its you insted 💪 be stronge

Dude, holy shit, this is intense, but in a good way. All your words and thoughts are normal after a breakup. I love your channel. Keep going and fighting the good fight.

I'll be real. All of this is for attention...idk if there is help for any narcissist out there but maybe recording is your own personal help or maybe it's just the fact you want attention because you know you lost your supply. Be real.

I don't pity you. I am rooting for you. You'll get there. You're on the path.

You're enough. <3

I dont pity you brother, I admire your realness. Im neurotypical... I think lol and we have these kinds of thoughts too

You are definitely not a monster. You may not be as good at being in touch w/ your emotions. I can assure you that you have as much ability to feel as the rest of us. You look and sound so profoundly sad and hurt. There is no mistaking that or faking that. Your emotions are very real, you just have a harder time feeling connection to them.

I can see you struggling w/ all this pain of being more in touch w/ emotions than you used to be. Thanks to the hard work you've done, that you deserve to be so proud of. Then wanting to fall back into old coping patterns, because it's painful to feel pain. It's not pity man. It's a winning combo of empathy and admiration for how you've done the work and are brave enough to share the results w/ us. I do not think I could do what you just did.

Well, it's been 8 months. How do you feel about it now? I don't pity you at all. I empathize with you, because I hate myself too and wear a mask every time I have to be around people. I've only had one long-term relationship that lasted more than a year, and he was so stupid I just got bored with him. There is not ONE THING wrong with needing someone and depending on them for something you need. Tjos video is so raw and personal. You've taught me a lot about how my ex's mind operates. <3 <3

BTW, how old ARE you?

I appreciate how raw you are in this video but its ok to be upset about a breakup. It doesn't make you weak. You're not a robot. People will could be there for you, depending on how you treat them. If you treat them badly then they will eventually leave. I feel like you're not taking accountability for your part in the breakup. I dated a narcissist before and there is only so much a person can take before they break.

these comments remind me how good the world is. Everyone is so encouraging. I know you struggle with feeling loveable but just remember, by choosing to be open and honest about your experience you are bringing the good out of people. You're worthy of goodness. <3 Sorry you're hurting

You are fine though. Try God he will heal you and bring the right people into your life.

I wish you could see yourself through my eyes. You’re amazing. Your vulnerability is one of the most beautiful parts about you. The things that you perceive as flaws are actually strengths.

You’re not broken. You just have some issues that you didn’t ask for that you have the courage to work on when most don’t and you even share it with the world and face the possibility of harsh judgement and criticism. You are so much stronger and braver than you know. After seeing all the sides of you that you put out there, I would be with you.

I'm sure you already know this, but you developed npd because your genetic makeup left you more sensitive to your environment. If you didn't feel things deeply you wouldn't be a narc. Feeling abandoned is one of the worst feelings. I have bpd, and blame myself when relationships end because it gives me a sense of control and makes the world less scary. If it's because I'm bad, I can feel secure when I become sufficiently good. The idea that we live in a world where people can just hurt us even if we do all the right things is scary.

Thank you for sharing! I learned a lot with this video. Take care of yourself!!

He does not care. It's incredible how empaths fall for this. No psychiatrist can teach emotions to him. An empath needs to stop thinking as empath. They feel worthless and need people to regulate their egos. If you like the Narcissist then great, have sex with them but don't engage in relationships because you will always be Devalued. If this video was real honest he would say yes, I need you to regulate my ego by manipulating you. But probably everyone will run away. That's why they lovebomb and say they care and love and yada yada yada.

I’m not a narcissist but I gave a man a chance who served 17 years in prison because I’m an Empath and wanted to believe everyone sees the beauty in everything and everyone as I do. Needless to say he completely discarded me, left me no choice other than to leave.. The ending was completely toxic and I was very afraid.. Although he claimed to have immediately move on, he stalked and harassed, even had his ex wife harassing me. All because I wanted to get my self care In check, was gone for a few days only to come back and realize he had moved on..talk about pain and betrayal…this was the worst!!!!

Do you only feel like this cause they left you? If you leave them.. do you care ?

I'm pretty empathic but I have never resonated with any other video ever. Fack human feelings. Taking my meds ❤

Going thru a break up as well, i also have NPD

Hey dude, thank you for these videos.

You helped me understand, we are all fucking narcissists. This is not something you are doing for attention.

This is something you are doing to connect with us, and with yourself. Its hopeless at times like this. But, you don't know who I am or why i decided to write this.

But I'm also trying to connect with you, and with myself.

No one really takes anyone or themselves seriously.

Nothing matters. You might as well keep on going because it doesn't matter.


I love your stuff. Thank you for doing this. It will get better.

Honestly, you’ll get over it, all NPDs do. Mine fooled around while I was in chemo and the girl he did it with was who told me. The last thing he yelled where his kid could hear was how lucky I am to have terminal cancer. NPDs feel like they’re not good enough because they AREN’T. They don’t even try. You’ll find something else, or someone else, to distract you and you’ll be fine. Even your honesty is perfunctory and yes…you are stupid and incapable of real emotions.

Thank you for posting and sharing you being openly vulnerable. Brave!! Proud of you!

😢 I wish I could hug and talk to you....if it were ok. This was painfully beautiful to watch and understand. Thank you.
❤❤ 👥

Wow he even said this was for attention. There is always a malicious motive whether lying or not.

❤ take care of yourself do not let them beat you your not insane you are human maybe therapy I'm going through same thing with bipolar disorder the right one will come ❤

I am grateful for your honesty on this. Can’t fathom how hard it is on you. I’m dealing with some things but I admire that you open up about this. Very brave 🙏❤️

I actually think narcissistic mortification is the most painful thing on this earth. First one is always the hardest but the ones that follow all hurt really bad

I was abused by a narcissist for over two years. He ended up ghosting me at the worst possible time. By the end of the relationship I could read him like a book. He is now 60 years old, and he has destroyed every good thing that came through his life. Please don’t take this wrong. From what I see here things can’t get any better for you. It’s a continual cycle. One thing that helped me to make it through that experience was watching Polar Warriors. I suggest you have a brain scan and try to get medication and the help you need. Honestly, it couldn’t hurt. Maybe you would find some peace in your life if you did that.

In your state of mind, it would be impossible for anyone to be there for you. You need to be there for yourself. It will continue to get worse unless you get professional help.

If it weren’t for my ‘no supply’ policy with my ex, I’d send this channel to him, although this gentleman has a self awareness mine doesn’t. Fascinating and human.

To see the humanity behind it - I do think we need to treat NPD as the disorder it is; of course while protecting ourselves.

It does beggar the question is this might be a show - and we might not be the audience. That is purely speculation on my part with no disrespect for the creator, although he has articulated very well in past videos that he sometimes doesn’t know he’s doing it. I didn’t hear any ownership here either which belies any self-awareness. Halfway through maybe he will. Very focused on self.

Everyone is flawed. You can’t expect someone to stay with you if you don’t respect them. You have to learn to give in relationships not just look for your own happiness. Giving to others is the way to true happiness. Learn to love yourself so no one has to prove anything to you.

The lady also feels the same.

I just broke things off with my narc bf and it's not because I don't love him. It was constantly cheating and had no plans to stop. Seeing this is really painful because I don't want my ex to suffer ,I feel awful

It is really hard for me to have sympathy for a man, no matter how sad and distraught he seems to be, when he says he has not met a woman who has not wanted him!! I am a woman who would NEVER want you. You seem to evoke some vulnerability but then your arrogance still shows through and is a real turn off

I have a million words behind this, but my heart goes to you. I take you seriously. You probably have saved many lives.

No shame man. You are braver than most. It's easy to put walls up, it's incredibly noble to share this with the world knowing it's a selfless act to help others. Sure... You can go down the familiar path to rationalize this as attention seeking / validation or whatever spin you choose to put on this. And let's be honest.... there may be some truth to that. Hell, everyone would like to be seen, to be appreciated, to be valued, heard, etc. That's human. Introspection is a great thing, truly it's the only time in our lives where we actually grow. When we allow ourselves the time to reflect instead of seeking distractions. As someone that's been on the receiving end of a loved one with NPD, it really does help give validation to my experience. It's so easy to condemn 'the people' that hurt us...but the ones willing to take their mask off to help others... even if only for a few brief moments. Commendable. If everyone was more willing to bear their soul and look inwards, the world would be a better place. Thank You.

Your not pathetic, and I can't thank you enough for recording. My heart my respect my admiration, your a fucking trooper. Your the realist and honest person person I've ever witnessed.

Narcissist are the product of emotional abuse they did choose unconsciously to abuse other people with manipulation tactics, I have BPD and I also broke up with ..I couldn’t handle to get abused as a adult when I was abused as a child the triggers were horrible but I also played a part in this I gave so much love that he couldn’t handle that I don’t think the narcissists can be cured with DBT therapy it’s actually rare I suppose this person will always be alone

Thank you. You have no idea how much you have saved my crumbled heart. When he left me, I questioned myself, went on so many materials to understand him. I had a eureka moment and discovered he may have NPD. And seeing this, hearing all this from your perspective, gave me a better understanding of him. I no longer have anger for him. With your help, I now just feel more love and care for him. Sadly, the best way to save his and my soul is to stay apart.

I just realized you're always wearing a black shirt. Is that like your cloak? I've always do and its definitely because I feel like it makes me more invisible. I'm sorry that you're feeling so horribly in this video, but one thing I wanted to note is that you're still so young. If you want a degree, you can go get one, dude. You're really intelligent and capable.

I spent 9 yrs with a Narc I thought it was good till my dad passed and he thought my emotion was a weakness and I had no support emotionally. It sucks because narcs are loving so are empathetic people we all have issues but caring is so important

I recorded this 15 minutes after I was broken up with. I won't be replying to comments. It's too shameful