5 Christian Sex Tips that every Married couple MUST KNOW

Thank you for this ❤

I absolutely love that comment on "men need sex to feel close and women need to feel close to have sex" perfectly said.

Throwing the phrase porn and what it portrays is dicey and can be dangerous and often can cause more damage to those seeking help or asvise (hear me out). I at least like the fact that you specifically called out a few things that are not realistic such as a womans response and a mans duration of performance; kudos for at least doing that. The dangerous part that i hear in these types of videos and even in the church is anything associated with porn is bad. This leaves the mind of those hearing this message to reject to anything they may have witnessed if watched or think of when porn is referenced. Things that can be enjoyed in a marriage bed are often shut down because its been drilled into them so much that they feel guilt or shame. Oral (giving and receiving) is in porn and the thought process becomes since it is in porn and porn is bad so is oral. "Exotic" positions such as riding, doggy etc and using toys, they are in porn, and again the though process becomes it's in porn, therefore I shouldnt be doing it. This is why i say it can be dangerous when the blanket statements that whatever is portrayed in porn is bad and not realistic. It's east to point out porn=bad, but we must be careful not to associate porn with sex and sexual acts that a married man and woman can enjoy together.