My child is not my child (Part 1) | Unpacked with Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 108 | Season 3

Paternity Fraud affects three people at minimum. The child, the father and the biological father. Extended families 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

That what you get for cheating papa.

😢😢😢😢😢

This guy it's mom's boy

A cheater got finnesed.

I'm so so so sorry my son.

Cheating is not good 😭😭😭😭

T.

Karma

The dates dont add up🤔

Withholding children from fathers and blaming fathers for being absent.

Hence there's alot of single women. La tella

You heard boys? She told her boyfriend that she's attending church in joburg only to get knocked down.

Some ladies are cruel i wonder how i wuld have cope if it was me 😭😭😭😭💔💔

All the signs were there...you cheated with a Narcissist. Going forward you need to see a therapist and check your emotional health, going forward to another relationship. You need life coaching otherwise all your childhood traumas will put you on a negative pedestal. You need to buckle up n stop being gullible.

Beware of manipulative people, they will ruin your life and affect the lives of your loved ones. Also, think thrice before you get naked with someone. I feel so sorry for this guy and all the people who end up in this kind of situation. 🥺

I relate so much to his situation, I am still in process to get paternity tests done, been looking on the internet to speak to someone with experience of such an event of accepting a child and in the long run you start getting doubts due to events that took place during and before pregnancy.

I wish people could share their experience and advice others.

Please get therapy my dear....your childhood traumas are affecting your relationships....

This guy want to be thanked for taking care for his child 🤔

Narcissism is going to be the end of this planet

This guy is hurt bahn😭💔.. I pray you get healing bro..

I really don't care about how this affects the adults, but can we consider how the child will be affected. Papa has been papa from birth and the sdukuduku ha e sale papa. Imagine the trauma that child is experiencing.

papa panana im really sorry my brother

The pain in this guy's voice yoooooh, ke nnete fa ba re legodu ga le batle go utswetswa. They played each other too bad!

This is heartbreaking

I ❤ this guy. What a man! I pray he finds a fabulous lady who truely loves him.

Ladies continue lying to them about paternity if they're cheaters. Tit for tat. You reap what you sow. Lefase ke la Modimo le makokokoko a lona gase la bona ba nie. The lady who did this deserves to be a president in women's conference🤞🤣🤣🤣

This gent here is a real man, doing everything in his power to nurture, protect and provide for his offspring. I applaud him for all his efforts in trying to be a present, hands-on dad. Rotten tomatoes to the conniving mom who did everything in her power to use her child as a bargaining tool to have her way. Boo-hoo to her and all her kind.

Nna kere o swinegile maan. He should experience it again and again and again. Aker yena o nagana gore o hlalifile. Obe a itira playeryana ya masepa sis🚮🚮🚮🚮 banna ke boloi ene ba nagana gore ba hlalifile mxm

This guy is a typical example of “A great father but terrible partner”. Hamba juba boyokuxutha phambili, he cheated and suffered terrible consequences.

I don’t feel sorry for this guy yazi. In fact uyalayeka

Lmao wtf is wrong with huns bro🤦🏾‍♂🤦🏾‍♂

He should not have cheated in the first place 🤷🏾‍♀️

I've been in the similar situation I have two DNA tests prove that I am not the father. One i done it privately and one done by her at the Court. As we speak i did a protection order against her because I realized that she was too dangerous for me.

You’re a good man my brother, that’s why she weighed options and gave you the child

No one is perfect....

You cheated and on top of that you were reckless. Furthermore, you broke someone's heart & left them to pick up the pieces. Wathola abangangawe. Hope you learnt your lesson. ❤

The lady was a psychopath, she got him to bond with her child then decides to pull out and move to CT. 😂
I wonder what she was saying to God at that church conference, clearly she had an agenda. Poor guy, he was so overwhelmed he slept with her without a condom and decided to dump his mate. 😂👍🏽Now he is crying on T. V.

This guy has a beautiful heart shame he did not deserve what this girl put him through. Some women really take advantage of these kind men and mistreat them so badly and take them for granted. These days it's not easy to meet a guy who wants to be present in their child's life and support them financially. His story is painful shame, the pain in his voice you can tell that he is shattered. These are the kinds of things that drives men to kill their partners and take their own lives. Women cheat a lot, I mean I can never understand the concept of cheating if you no longer love someone let them go instead of cheating on them.

This is heart wrenching 💔. Love & healing Abuti

As a woman, I can safely I DO NOT CARE about the circumstances that led to the how the baby was conceived because that is a different story from what is being relayed today. My heart truly breaks for all men who are loving fathers and do their best to be there and fully supportive and give their hearts to the child only to find out that they are not the father....it's a type of pain I cannot begin to comprehend because fortunately for me as a woman I will always have the clarity that I am the mother.

If you find yourself in a situation where you are not sure of the paternity of the child, rather don't tell the men until a child is born and you can honestly ask for a paternity test. Or tell them from the word go that there is more than 1 possible father.

I see some comments about the karma the guy got because of him being a player.....well guess who is the innocent victim in everything? The child! A parent should ALWAYS have their child at mind, both parents. You can hurt a guy by lying about the paternity of a child but using a child to hurt someone is up there with the highest level of EVIL.

Think our government should normalise DNA tests after child birth...

Lmfao ,i feel absolutely nothing for this guy. He cheated ,ba mo tshwarisa handsball ,the universe is such a marvelous equalizer. Love it ❤

Yho guys angaba ngu Good Husband wam Lomntu. ndiyamthanda yhoo😍

Welkom hae ♥

It’s very hard to feel sorry for this guy considering that he cheated. I say it’s just a serious case of karma🤷🏽‍♀️

Anyway, wishing him all the best.

O laegile abuti. What was suppose to happen in this situation? You're cheating on your partner with a child and be shocked that she's going kid stuff🙄🙄 She was doing the same thing you were doing. And what if your girlfriend also cheated? More mess. So much irresponsibility umdala kanje. Do people not fear STIs anymore yoh😳

Seleke has always been a sweet, respectful & gentle person…we put ourselves in situations that alter the rest of our lives.

It’s a tough life experience that he went through.