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i mean i ship some people because i think its genuinely fun to dive into harmless fanfiction alternate universes,
but i know to draw the line when it comes to the people.
its okay in a story, but never drag it into real life where it harms people.
This is like Aldub in the Philippines
ОтветитьWhen I saw the title I immediately thought of kpop. The shipping in kpop is insane. One fan sent death threats to V from BTS for being in the way of the love between Jimin and Jungkook.
Ответитьthis always reminds me of the whole gaylor thing—the swifties who are DEDICATED to taylor being closeted. it’s INSANE.
ОтветитьThis video has aged beautifully, Taylor Swift recently said she was super uncomfortable about the toxicity of her fans sexualising her interactions and shipping her with her friends and the fans of the ship went utterly insane.
Ответитьcan’t believe dan and phil weren’t brought up in this video, id argue their shippers were/are just as bad as larries and it 100% played a part in dan not wanting to come out
Ответитьi used to ship two guys in a certain band that HEAVILY leaned on the narrative that they were together in what i think was a way to tease the fans, they even kissed briefly during a concert and you just know the community went insane. those guys kinda made that whole thing into a part of their onstage characters and even though i've disavowed rpf (i personally think it's invasive and uncomfortable), i can't deny that they were very silly with it
ОтветитьReylo in extend Daiver (Daisy Ridley and Adam Driver) is so toxic because there are LEGIT Reylo "fans" who harassed Adam Driver's family and force him to date Daisy Ridley instead. What made me physically ill is that Disney IGNORED this issue, and decided to blame the fans for the failure of "sequel trilogy" such as being racist or sexist. 😡
This is why I abandoned Star Wars not long after episode 9. And considering what happened now, I hope Kathleen Kennedy get fired and blacklisted from the industry for not just spitting George Lucas' legacy but for purposely making so much decisions that only sinking the company down.
K-pop is worst especially those taetookers omg it’s so sad
ОтветитьI enjoy shipping fictional characters, but when it comes to real people… that’s where I draw the line.
Ответитьthose Camren videos had me in a chokehold as a kid 😭 never realized how insane and harmful it all was until I got older
Ответить👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👌👌👌👌
ОтветитьI kinda disagree on "not a character but real people" part. like obviously they are real people with real emotions and there is no right to get into their personal life but celebrities (especially k pop stars) have some kind of a persona I feel like
ОтветитьNot only ships btw band members, but also attacking their partners online and stalking them in real Life.
This happens all the time with all the wifes/girlfriends of the guys from 5sos. Luke had to move from his house bc of safety issues :(
BRITISH IRISH BOYBAND!!!🇬🇧🇮🇪
Plus I'm a Larrie and I myself sometimes feel that some have gone crazy like the rumours about Louis son not being real or all the hate on Eleanor,even sometimes I feel guilty about it and the damage we might have done to them but on the other hand they really have tried giving us proof to believe in larry,and just the other times I feel like larry was a ship made by the management presented as a secret relation to attract more people to the fandom!I don't know Im just really confused...
i know this is an old video but i have to just share my story of that once me and my girlfriend at the time (two women dating each other) got called homophobic by a larry shipper bc we didn't ship them like WHAT DO YOU MEAN?
Ответить⚠️i am just voicing my opinion, no hate pls⚠️
as someone who ships larry, yes, i do believe some people in the community are extremelyyy toxic. but trust me, i feel like it’s changed for the better since i joined in around 2021. and, i think louis’ son is adorable and literally is a carbon copy of him, idk why people think he’s fake.. also, if you’re wondering why i ship larry, i think that there have been too many coincidences that have happened over the years to deny that they weren’t together at some point in the past decade or so. does it mean they’re together now? no. i’m just saying i think it’s highly possible that it happened
back when i was 7 and joined the directioner fandom (still a directioner) i felt like i had to be a larrie because if u weren’t the toxic larries would say “ur a fake fan blah blah bla” but i definitely knew when they were saying louis baby is fake n stuff thst it was just not true and that these people had to be deep in love with harry or louis and don’t want to see them with any gf
ОтветитьWhen western people find what happened to Xiao Zhan in 2020 over a fic, their would lose their mind. I am not joking when I said that him almost lost his career in the industry of chinese entertainment because of a fanfic.
ОтветитьThis honestly makes Frerard look like a perfectly normal, realistic ship
Edit: Tayley (Taylor York and Hayley Williams from Paramore) is the only popular ship which has ended in the two people getting together. Was honestly very shocked when I heard the news.
this took me back to my 2020 larry phase. glad i recovered <3
Ответитьlarries and gale+katniss shipers are actually delusional
ОтветитьI had no idea about the real people…I legitimately thought it was going to be about shipping the Phantom of the Opera and Christine
ОтветитьI've always said: Shipping two fictional characters is fine (within reason of course, LEGAL reason 😐 and this is not even touching on the people who are aggressive STANs/harass and bully types which is problematic for a different reason). SoapGhost? Sure, whatever. Any of the Avengers shipped with one another? Sure. Do lil drawings and fanfic or whatever. They are fictional, unalive characters, and will never be affected by shipping. But when you begin to go outside of the fiction and applying shipping to living breathing folks? That's a problem.
ОтветитьThankfully I'm normal. I just ship fictional characters who are related to each other.
Ответить“Taekook” shippers from BTS are possibly the most toxic + hateful group of fans I’ve ever seen…
ОтветитьWell, two years later and crazy fans pushed Kit Connor out of the closet. I mean, bullied him to talk about his personal life, because he said multiple times he was comfortable with his sexuality and his life, it was just NONE OF OUR BUSINESS.
Now imagine being that crazy about "supporting" their ships or being a hero for protecting their idols and end up being THE PROBLEM ITSELF... I love shipping, I think it's cute, sometimes it's hot, but the moment they cross the line and destroy real lives I just can't. That's why I don't engage in any of those groups online anymore, I just don't want to be a part of it when they actually manage to destroy my next favorite person's life.
I know I’m really late but larry is so annoying. I’m a Harry Stan but unfortunately the price I have to pay for loving him is larry videos coming up on my feed too often 😭 people literally cheer when they go through breakups so larry can get together smh
Ответитьshipping originally wasn't even about hoping two people/characters end up together. in fiction, people used to ship characters from completely different franchises, like shipping was originally just another fun way to interact with the media
ОтветитьA really memorable moment for me was this interesting Joergen Klopp video (i have no clue who he is, just a random clip that showed up on my homepage) where he had a little joke-y flirty moment with his like interviewer or something, and the comment section was filled with people who were just SO READY to start shipping them. I was in there like 'haha guys if you really wanted to ship them, why not just make up your own OCs instead of using real people?" and the response was 'it's just not the same.'
Note that this RPF had no 'management keeping them apart narrative' nor were they really actually in a relationship in any possible way. They're strangers/ Their personalities don't really feature bc it's only one small clip of them. There's not really any major benefit to making them the main characters of a ship instead of just making original characters, as there's not much time spent with their personalities nor any antiestablishment conspiracy narrative seed interest in them specifically getting together. At most, this would be a meet-cute set-up for a story. They could do an 'inspired by' story of a sports dude and his interviewer, and the amount of 'making up original characterization' would be about the same, since it's not like they know the random interviewer guy or Joergen enough to write them.
Still, something about the 'real people' aspect, that there's video proof of this happening in real life, really made people obsessed with specifically those two being the characters they'd want to imagine. Like a 10 sec clip is enough to get invested, basically. That's why I'm not really sure that you can prevent RPF. As long as there are shippable moments on camera, and we keep the trend of celebrities being unable to control their image because they 'belong' to the public, then there'll be people who'll think the ship supercedes the people. I think first we'd have to better define the boundaries of a parasocial relationship and push back on celebrity culture with paparazzis? Notice that the time of these two bands being shipped were the beginning of celebrities being personal on the internet, where it was still new and exciting and nobody had heard of parasocial relationships, yet. I think maybe with time, this culture of shipping will get more and more pushback and caution.
Another thing. Not all RPF-ers do it bc they think it's real. It's this weird dissonance where people are conscious that they're not actually writing the people, they're basically writing about the public personas, and therefore it's fairgame because the public personas are manufactured. But at the same time, they'd rather write about the real people over making up their own OCs. Again, parasocial culture would need to be pushed back against, but also it's the community investment aspect. It's easier to rally people to read your content/find people who like the same dynamic when you all can rally over hockey player feels (apparently they're a huge RPF fandom) or Wang Yibo x Xiao Zhan, but promoting two original characters is a lot harder, even if they have the same vibes bc there's no prior investment. So why not create the prior investment?
Like create a new space where people encourage writing 'inspired by' works instead of RPF? Like a wattpad where people can find and pool their RPF feelings with comics/books/fics that fill the same niche? I think if the main part of shipping is community and an interest in a certain relationship dynamic, then I think with enough incentive (with their own community, ease of access, and precedent), it shouldn't be too hard to get people to be fine with a thinly veiled repaint of the real people. If the insane 50 Shades and Twilight community were fine with Edward and Bella being swapped out with Christian and Anna, why not get the BTS shippers to create their own boyband Goncharov-style? And then all the RPF repaint couples can have their clever little fake names. Like the Loius x Harry repaint would have a guy named Larry and a guy named Stiles, that way the people who want to ship them can have their little conspiracy community aspect (haha, we're shipping harry and louis but nobody will know bc we're swapping out the names and details) without actually interfering with the real people.
Crazy how now blackpink and bts have their own shipps and the shippers are exactly as the others if not worse
ОтветитьIf Larry WAS real and Freddie wasn’t his, why would people still support Louis and his family for putting an innocent child through what would basically be a Truman show life?? Thankfully Larries are just delusional, otherwise Freddie would need therapy for life (hopefully he’ll still get support when he joins the internet)
Ответитьi feel like shippers are well aware that they are crossing boundaries, but they simply don't care. they think that proving their "point" is more important.
Ответитьas a bisexual i found "larry stylinson" cute and comforting in the beginning, but the first time louis denied it i left it alone and realised how wrong i was to support two people into a relationship that they said made their friendship hard and switched over to liking eleanor and harry's gfs, i wish others would have taken the route i did back in those days because then louis would be less homophobic (which tbh he has every right to be considering lgbtq+ people, the majority of larry shippers, harrassed him for years, if i were straight that would turn me pretty homophobic too if i'm honest 😂)
ОтветитьSo mabey a ship nobody remebers but when i was around 14/15 year old i shipped Selena Gomez and Demi Lovato really hard ( back when there were best friends). And there was a thread on the Internet, i think it was something like "the L something" where people commented on their "relationship" ( like all the prove for them beeing togehter ) but also all their whereabouts. Like you could go on this page an literally see people commenting in real life time where these two were, what they were doing, who they spend the day with and if a new "proof" appeared that they are indeed a couple. At first, back then, i was really into this, i spend hours chatting with those people, always looking up what my favourite couple was doing, going back all of those ten of thousand of pages to get all the information. After a while i kind of realised that this was just full on stalking, i mean like there were pictures of them, together or seperatly everyday, dont know who took them but yeah, to think back, it was really creepy. I think and hope this Website doesnt exist anymore. I cant even understand today how i could be so obssed with this.
Ответить“Canadian winters are basically 95% slush” I relate to that so hard as a person who lives in Gothenburg, Sweden.
ОтветитьOn the topic of kpop queerbaiting: absolutely yes, and super creepy. Like you have some idols who have fully declared they're queerphobic (a whole other dumpster fire of a conversation) to then just engage in overtly sexual behaviours on-stage with bandmates. Like...???? It's messy from every angle and, as a queer person, just makes me uncomfortable from every angle.
Ответитьthese people in the comments outting themselves as larries are way u all are deranged and insane. theres no if ands or buts whether you’re a toxic shipper or non-toxic shipper, you are still the shipper and youre fucking delusional. do not ship real people. Real people with real friendships a a joke or two here and there is fine, but it gets overboard.
ОтветитьIf1D members specially Harry strongly acknowledges talking about the ship and says it's not true and labels himself whatever he is gay, straight, bi, queer like Lauren did then It may stop 9 well, I know and I understand that he says he doesn't need to label himself which is true but with his increasing popularity and grip on people he has these days he should say something about it to stop these larries from throwing all the toxicity, hatred and harassment his and louis's loved one's have to go through
ОтветитьThis is such a weird thing to me. I live in a country where gay couples have only recently been "socially allowed" to walk with their hands held, and that's only on big cities, country mouses like me can't be like that in public places. Here, you still have cases of young boys, children, being beaten up til death cuz their father tought he was acting too "faggy" and wanted to beat the gay out of him. I cannot imagine a scenario where I would safely speaculate publicaly and intensivaly about someone's sexuality.
ОтветитьLarries stepped out of line years ago…
Ответитьit’s sad bc people who are shipped together but are uncomfortable with it then have to be more mindful about how they interact with people when they shouldn’t have to
ОтветитьI'm fascinated with how Louis' name is pronounced.
Lauren is so right though, I can totally see where she was coming from. Camila's first and second album was overanalyzed by shippers too.
I'm not gonna comment if larry was real or not. Because it is irrelevant to the people other than them. Because if they are real and don't want to talk about it then you as a fan should respect that. And if they're not real and they are affected by these articles and vids then as a fan you should again respect that. The point is not that they are real or not, the point is not to cross boundaries. If someone wants to keep something private then please respect them as humans and let them
Ответитьas a larry shipper, i will NEVER EVER go as far as saying someone's children are fake and/or give proof that its real. people who do that are mental.
ОтветитьI'm an NCT fan and idk if you know nct but it has one of the largest number of ships on earth like at some point every two members are shipped together regardless of the age or whatever , and the company isn't helping either , i feel like every ship of nct had it's peak time , which makes me feel sometimes that it's planned by the company ,two members will be interacting way too much in a certain era then on another they'll suddenly start to avoid and ignore each other or there won't be as much interactions and guess what is the fans interpretation of it ?! that tHeY fAuGhT bEhInD tHe ScEnEs , the urge to explain and detect every single move of a member nah it reaches a point where they start to hate on another member who supposedly (for them) is ruining the relationship between the two shipped members like if i remember right there was a time when people were hating on Jimin (i think) because they said he's sliding between Jungkook and Taehyung too much like - - -
as someone who was envolved in this world i can tell you how manipulative it is you start to watch few cute meoments of the members then end up watching actual analysis of their small human moves , and the scary part of it is that you don't realize it until you're actually sinking and it doesn't even take much to convince you that these two are SO TRUE . . .
i think putting ourselves in these people's position is the thing that could help ( it did actually help me) like no one wants to be used like that or forced to love or touch someone else to please a stranger just because they're their fans and pay them some money
we need to accecpt that there are relationships in this world other than LOVE and ROMANCE , friendship exist , brotherhood/sisterhood exist, people explain their love and appreciation in different ways it's not necessrily a s3xual or a roamntic affection
This reminds me of a particular situation created by BTS fans between two members 🤣🤣🤣
ОтветитьI ship myself with pedro pascal too 💀
ОтветитьAs someone who isn’t a fan of either band and not a shipper it sounds a lot like conspiracy theorists to me. That’s my take.
ОтветитьIm a larrie but even icl about how toxic they/ we can be. Im a neutral larrie and the ns larries are so toxic and messed up bringing F (L's son) saying it isn't Louis's son.
Let's not forget Harry did say that Louis was his crush but thats back then and now they're not tg and some Larries need to understand that