Command Respect & Show Your Worth WITHOUT Saying A Word- This Type of Woman Always Gets Used!

Things don't happen for a reason, but if things happen, sometimes we have to be creative to find ways to heal or get through that distress.

Dear Lisa!
I do love your channel so much. Could you please stand back from advertising wine. The increasing number of people addicted or dying are causing so much harm. Please, do not be a part of this sadness. You bring so much joy.

WOW. THANKS for this

This explains so much... I'm not a girl's girl... Now i understand why....

Lisa-
Thank you for another wonderful video! You put such good things out into the world. Appreciate you alot

I always think of the "Superman pose" scene from Greys anatomy

Let me just say, physical abuse in a relationship almost ALWAYS comes with emotional and verbal abuse. I’ve been there but I know others and it almost ALWAYS comes with those too.

How about that right when I thank you for being commercial-free a commercial pops up 🙈

Thank you for being commercial free! I love your promotions for women of impact, they're refreshing 🥰

Emotional abuse IS very confusing. You second guess yourself so much. I just ended a toxic relationship with someone I actually loved and still do. But, it was unhealthy and so I am staying away. This is NOT easy. I miss him. It is taking all my strength to walk away. But I constantly second guess my memory. Thank goodness for keeping diaries. When I start to think...well maybe I am not being fair...I go back to my entries and have to at least temporarily reinforce my decision to stay away. It sucks so bad. I am so exhausted right now. I work at a desk at home and I know the best thing for me is to get up and get some exercise. It would help my mood but I just collapse after work. I am so exhausted I am starting to wonder if I am sick. I am gaining a bit of weight and feel so unhealthy. The only saving grace is I eat relatively healthy to balance things. I have no support system at all. Therapy is expensive. As Amy identified, this is when people start to have scary thoughts and want out. I keep going for my son, but I really don't want to many days and thankfully I am a bit too chicken to do anything about it. Lol. I keep telling myself, this too shall pass. This is my favourite saying apart from Nelson Mandela's saying "It always seems impossible until it is done".

As Amy talked about her friend's body language changing when she received a text, I thought, that is terrible that her friend is going through that....I know...but I hope she really appreciates the gift of having a friend and a friend who is that in tuned to her needs. I can't imagine how that type of support would feel. A game changer.

Guys, don't leave people alone when they are going through stuff. Check in. Take them out. You don't need to be a psychologist. Just an outing and a distraction sometimes makes all the difference.

Power, unless it is from within, is corruption. People hand their own power to people and don't realize they just lost. Shared power is cooperation. No human being should be put on a pedestal.

Good talk, but Hillary was also being shady & shutting down Bernie rallys. That's why people didn't like her either.

Shrink at 11 ?Dominance at 5 for Boys.

Wow at age 11 we start to sprinkler

I love the very flattering colors you 2 are wearing!! Nice!

Omg!! I think that's part of why I'm afraid of success. Bullying. No more fear!

Bravo. Standing ovation. Regards South Australia. Be the sun and not the weather.

The bully you described sounds like Kanye West. He bullied Taylor Swift.

Lovely talk ..thank you. Lisa please add names of the people interviewed so we can find it if we wish to

Certainly one of the best interviews I have watched recently. Every topic resonated with me and the examples given by Amy on improving our mood and state of mind are so easy to use. I watched this interview twice and have made notes that I will use as tools. I feel very grateful to have come across this source of valuable information. Thank you Lisa and Amy!

I love your pink boots and the fact that you are being authentic!

Hillary is a narc. Not a good example. The most disrespectful woman we’ve had

Dear Lisa, once again thank you for your amazing work. Can I please make a suggestion that you interview a time management expert some other time? ❤

Amy Cuddy’s book “Presence” is one of the best books ever written!

i refuse to make eye contact w a man that i’m not interested in. men seem to think if i look at them that i want them ?

Thank you for having her on the cast! That study about the dolls though 😱 Scary. Let's do better and 🔨 the patriarchy one girl at a time.

Really appreciated the section about the competence and warmth dimensions of stereotyping. It’s intriguing that some people have to loose their warmth for their competence to become visible. Perhaps that depends on the cultural markers and/or personality of an interaction partner.

What beautiful and charismatic woman!!! Thank you so much for this interview!!! Amazing stuff💝💖💖💖

These podcasts gurus are useless, you consume content that doesn’t really change your life, vague advice benefiting only the channel creator

Such a great channel. Lisa, think of us as your children. You are empowering us to be strong women. Thank you ❤

I love the subtext of this conversation. Amazing.

One slight problem ladies..... who of the two of you wants to dominate? Or can you be level? I hope lisa lets the blue lady dominate. Because the lady in blue isnt ' big' enough, to be EQUAL. Also, female power isnt about chest pounding.
This is wrong! You SLEEP HOW YOU NEED TO SLEEP. YOUR BODY IS HIGHLY INTELLIGENT. SLEEPING IN FOETAL POSITION IS TO PROTECT YOU!!! It does not create anxiety!!!! Its to protect you when you were already anxious!!!!

I believe that more than teenage years can contribute to a person’s attachment style. Any traumas can impact your attachment style. However, some traumas we’ve experience as adults could be from unhealed trauma we experienced in childhood and teenage years, forming as a pattern to heal. I’ve processed that an experience that I had a couple of years ago was tied to some of my painful experiences in middle school. Attachment styles can change, depending on the relationship and where a person is in their journey.

Sadly, yes there are real consequences and risks for girls and women when expanding themselves, that's part of what really needs to be understood (dealing with the negatives) not expecting positive results. Telling girls to stand up stronger without giving them a realistic expectation of the consequences and risks that will likely follow, is not helpful in a complete way. Thank you Lisa, I love your show!

The studio set up is very good. I think it’s very inviting and your guests would feel very comfortable and be more relaxed and open when talking.

I love your work and all you share with the world. But I cannot stop myself from pointing out the obvious...you two are 'dressed up' EXACTLY reflecting the problem you are shining a light on. Please, see this. Women play a HUGE role in the problems men are creating. We are all connected. We are all responsible. (-;

I find people get jealous of people who are confident. Especially when the woman is confident. And confident women attract narcissist. A confident happy woman is a project for the narcissist. Am I wrong? Just my experience and what I've learned about narcissism.

Lisa, I love this episode, but the amount of interruptions for ads made it hard to get the complete message in places. Not great for people with ADHD and working memory issues.

I have been getting punished with 'stereotype backlash' since I was 7 years old. And it started with adults, including an administrator at my elementary school. I was a dynamic, athletic, capable, insightful, intuitive, and intelligent kid. I saw things for what they were and protested mistreatment accordingly. I wish I could remember what it felt like to be myself in a natural way, not in attempt to reclaim myself following all of the conditioning to the contrary. Thank you for giving me language for the spirit-killing I've survived.

You lost me at Hillary Clinton 😫

My cat puffs his body when he’s agitated

My father was emotionally, verbally and occasionally physically abusive, and drank a lot. He picked fav’s and pitted us against each other, and you’re correct, those who were favored weren’t going to jeopardize their positions, even though in the long run, it really wasn’t going to help them either. People outside of my family would say how attractive, intelligent and talented I was in so many areas, but my father would put me down in front of them, and I thought accepting their compliments was a betrayal of my family.
Later in life, I realized I did so many things at school, because I was trying to find something that would make me worthwhile in his eyes, when nothing was going to.
I can also identify with the girl that talked about being a tomboy girl. I had twin brothers, who were my pals until I had to start acting like a “lady.”
One of my friends in jr. and h.s. who chose me to be her “bestie” was a bully. I saw how she treated others, so I was afraid of her and allowed her to choose me and had to watch my p’s and q’s. Notice a pattern?
One of my twin brothers ended up marrying a woman who, like my dad, was also a bully and decided to segregate my family from each other. I was the first to go. And like you said about bullies yes the rest kept their distance from me then, to protect their positions. My youngest sister married a bully also.
So growing up with my father, and then having it happen, according to my siblings was devastating.
So, guess what kind of mate I chose, unwittingly? A machismo, bully who I could not prove myself to enough. I had to escape.
I’ve been spending the rest of my life learning and peeling the onion. I know I must be mindful b/c this is a lifelong business.
Thanks to my studies and being willing to be influenced by people like yourself, I have a chance.
I divorced the final vestiges of my family, b/c too many of them still play those games, and again many aren’t going to jeopardize their positions.
Thank you. Right on. ❤😊

I once walked up to two men I barely knew and asked for a cigarette and one guy said 'say please' and I looked at him and smiled and said 'NOW'. They both smiled and both tried to hand me a cigarette with a 'yes ma'am added.' 😂

I am really looking for solutions.

Oh my God. This came at the perfect time. The universe gives you messages when you need them, my God...I was emotionally abused by my husband, cheated on, when I was the sole provider for 2 years. When he hit me, I called the cops and THAT was EASY. The mentally/ emotionally abusivneness I endured is.... oooffff....and you know , I recently started a boxing class and had CPTSD flashbacks .... and got told to take emotion out of it. I explained to people with all due respect CPTSD is not an emotion. Wtf . 😤😤😤

Just call in black panther medicine …you will never look back

It’s actually not physically safe for girls to take up too much space in middle school. They will be bullied or blackmailed for being intimidating. Public middle schools are getting worse