Worst Parts of Being a Man (FTM)

I literally subscribed before the intro ended I just love his personality ❤

but if you are dating women and you are a woman, doesn't that make you in fact gay?

Is she still alive?

Bro Tim Kennedy?

guess you want to play with the girls still wow ! it seems your not happy girl or boy ? pray your happy but let me say your very girly ! just hope all you've done to your self you be happy with it

"I wanna tap that" (speaking about beautiful ladies). I feel like this came from self overrated women (who think they know how men think, but really don't). This is terrible stereotype...

I dint think you were gay I just thought chilled, surfer dude with nice eyes tbh.

You still sound very feminine to me you need to work on your manerism

So are truly so so hot❤❤❤

Maybe the reason you are struggling to make male friends is jealousy on their part. The smart men see you as serious competition. The others are simply men you wouldn’t want as friends.

You are a gorgeous man with bedroom eyes that knows what a woman wants, has a great personality, knows the importance of listening to a woman, is insightful, articulate, a great communicator, intelligent and a nice guy. Hang in there, you haven’t met the right men and women. They are out there and maybe it’s time to find additional interests that attracts the type of people you want to invite into your life. Don’t change. It will happen for you.

Probably more manly than most of these soy boys running around

from 999+ tinder likes to just a few

as a trans guy i relate so much. having had the perspective of living my life as a female presenting person though, i realized how much of my daily interactions were with other people honestly men being a bit sexist. the way men talk to girls vs guys is just different especially the waiter situation really reminded me. i grew up in a smaller town so... yeah. it was rough. now after coming out as trans, i'm extra careful in my interactions to not have that toxic masculinity and agressively "friendly" behavior. if you're a trans guy reading this: toxic masculinity is a huge battle for us trans guys because we feel we have to work extra hard to prove our masculinity in society, but don't let that get you down!

I wanna what his experience with women is like. Before they know he’s transitioned.

You have beautiful colored eyes. They remind me of swimming pools.

Reasons why men are men and women are women. I don't know how to express what it's obvious in a better way.

Your eyes + skin + teeth is the trans flag! ❤

Disgusting Men's restrooms have always bothered me and I can't stand them.

Such a cute doggo!!!

Your a gorgeous man!...Follow your heart!...Keeping being you!...I am a trans woman! Peace, and happiness within!...Is so important to obtain for yourself!...I wish you much happiness in your life!...Stay positive and spread positivity!🙂❤

You haven't been a man for 4 years, or 8 at this point. The issue in the video here is that its a woman experiencing, a woman's experience, in the context of a mans life. You can take all the hormones in the world, no offense this is you playing pretend at your best. You don't know. You are still valid as a human, and deserve respect. But you don't know.

Imagine that one short guy you used to hand out with at school who was just too sensitive and wary of what everyone is thinking of him.
Now, imagine he's 30 and still hasn't grown out of it.
Now, on top of that, imagine he's the most irrational woman you ever met.
That's what men see when we look at you.

My goodness, your eyes are so beautiful!!! 🤩

ah stereotypes....

Where are you going to the bathroom at?!!

Pooping for 20 minutes! lol! 🤣Do girls not do that?!

You do act gay in the way you talk. Its very feminine. Also when you see a beautiful girl as a real guy with curves in the right places thats what we notice! If they say they dont look at that they re flat out lying about it. Yes we do act somewhat aggressive in sports because we like to challenge eachother but mostly to show we are the stronger ones.

We can have deep conversations but it doesnt happen often. My friend group and I go on vacation every year and we dont talk much on the way there. Its normal because we can be at peace in silence.

On the bathroom thing. Omg! I'm just starting to work out if I want to transition, mtf, or not, but I've never enjoyed the men's or boy's bathrooms. The lack of stalls and the overall impression that everyone should accept the lack of privacy and disgust is insane. I've gone far too long without going to the bathroom just to not even have the embarrassment of walking in only to turn around and walk out.

On the gay thing, idk, I've had friend's parent's call me the f-slur thinking they were being magnanimous while I thought I was the straightest kid in the world. But, the worst of it, and I'm not sure how you can prepare for it, is getting the homophobic remarks and demands from a girlfriend or otherwise romantic interest. I hope you never have to deal with that, but there's a lot of terrible people out there and this sort of homophobia hides deep inside hidden away from friends. Hell, I even had a gay guy tell me I needed to act more straight if I wanted a hetero relationship to defend his friend. Personally it's taken a lot of time and therapy to undo the damages I allowed myself and others to inflict on my personality due to trying to conform to the notions of a romantic partner, and more broadly societies expectations for what a male presenting person should be.

Good luck, man. I hope you find an easier go of it than I have.

trans people are so narcissistic

"Being seen as gay". It's because they see you as very feminine and being trans isn't as common yet, so the default assumption is gay not trans.

YOU ARE STILL A WOMAN!

I am a feminine woman and believe me, me and my sister's were taught to be exactly the same as you described men are taught to be. . We had horses and if we had a bad fall😊 there was no one to wipe your tears, you wouldnt dare cry. We were taught women are strong which now i am glad of. We had beautiful dresses and did girlie things but were climbing trees and playing "hide from the Germans too"!

As a older dude (in ewery sense) ill say that the first thing to know abaut being a man is that no one will ewer give a fuck abaut you ewer, unless they need you or you are usefull to them. Maybe your parents are an exception but not alway, not that much. if you cant provide noting youre usless, creepy, scum, undesired if not even wrong and dangerous, if you can provide someting (being material or not) ewerione is redy tu punch you in the face and keep hitting you wile youre down (figuratively and literally) to take that away from you and send you back to square 0. Now go get them tiger ;) I meant get some real pounding OFC ;P.

I think your open energy and manerisms plus your voice is kinda high or squicky so it gives gay dude.

My complaint is , at times, that nice guys finish last. When you are very empathic and generous women can friend zone you. I have had many relationships with beautiful women and although I am super fit and look viril sometimes when I reveal my 'femenin' side or very sensitive side a % of women go off me. So for some men being completely oneself is counter productive. The last thing is putting up with nagging , manipulations and jealousy from women. I'm going to nickname you 'Tiresias' since like the Greek mythological figure you have experienced being both poles.....it must be fascinating. P.S. next time you are waiting for some guy to take a long load say "Honey this is the wrong bathroom...you can't wash yourself nude in the men's bathroom sink and put those sexy stockings back on* and they will quickly come out of the booth.

You're not a man

Bathrooms are the reason I have an X on my driver's license.

I'm 6ft tall and 250 lbs. Wide shoulders. Big FTM 😅

I still prefer the women's restroom. If there's a girl in the group, I go with her.

But um... you are a lesbian mostly lol since you are still a female down below and in your thought processes you deff don't think like a dude even if you look like one.

How can you demonstrate delusion 101

As a natural born woman who is turning 50 next year..
You and the people like you are an inspiration to all true lgbt community..
My adopted son is as flamboyantly gay as you can imagine and he makes the community shine as well.
I’m no bigot, I’m part of the bdsm community.
Here’s my advice to all..
Every single day you open your eyes you have choices to make, make this one every day.
Be kind to yourself and others who bring you joy, find the beauty in mundane things and the world’s glorious treasures will make your heart feel lighter each and every day.
Always tell the ones you love/care for how much you do, you never know when yours or their last day will be..

Maybe, you dont think like men because you arent a man

Thank you!! Mom hugs. ❤

Come on the differennce in sports isn't "aggression". A team of fat retired men beat the best women team 10-1. They literally played with no aggression,.they have no testosterone they are boomers. I don't see a point is lying or ignoring the truth if your trying to be transparent and honest.

It's interesting having the perspective as a mtf person that is going the exact opposite direction transitioning that I can definitely see what you're talking about as someone who used to identify as a man lol

Bro…it’s your energy. You are still clinging to feminine energy that’s why when someone new meets you they automatically think you’re gay. As soon as you started this video I also assumed you were gay.

I’m also a transman. I do not have that gay energy.

You can change that.

Hi Sam greetings from Australia you're obviously born with a male brain and you you look great congratulations must be so lovely to be matching your electrical and your plumbing and looking the park good on you and and feeling good and solving your gender disphoria

“Im not gay im just nice!!” As a cis bi man i totally relate 😭😭😂

You are a chick in a man suit

That's just a small portion of what we live with every day, it comes with the package, we carry the Burden Of Performance and on top of that we have to accept the truest of facts that "Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something." Btw why is it weird that a guy is a guy? All the things that are complaints here is just the way guys are not bad not good, is just how it goes, is like complaining that the sunlight burns or that a flowing river makes noise.