7 Things Introverts Need in a Partner

And we don't get jokes most of the time.... things don't make sense.... until we analyze it🤔

I do NOT want to be dragged out of my comfort zone! You must be an extrovert! But for those gawdawful times that I HAVE to associate with a bunch of other people (eg, an office party, a cocktail party, a family get together) it's helpful to be paired with an extrovert who will do all of the talking and interacting, and I can just stand there, eat hors d'oeuvres, and drink an adult beverage.

I know this is very late commenting on the original post, but...

I think that the important thing to remember is that you are not either an introvert or an extrovert! It's a sliding scale, with most people being spread out somewhere around the middle.

I'm probably more towards the extreme of the introvert side of the scale, though. I'd like to say that I can very much combine point 3 and 4, as I don't curl up in a ball if I have to go to some social event/meeting now and then, but once they go beyond lasting 2-3 hours I will start only thinking about how/when I can leave that place and go home! The exception was mentioned earlier, because if I can find ANYONE to talk "deeply" with, then I will not notice the time passing at all.

Love being an introvert.
Don't need or want a partner !!

INTJ female married to an ENTP. At first you might think this doesn't sound ideal. But wait. He will do all the phone talking happily! He will talk to anyone anytime. He will order the pizza, talk to service reps, and entertain himself for hours talking to friends on the phone and leaves me alone. That's the good part. So when he talks to me, well he is very interesting that's why I married him. It is NEVER dull! And once I have had enough, he will go off and write a program or something. No hurt feelings. The down side is not entirely all bad. While his sudden random ideas can illicit terror in me, he has learned to break the ideas to me slowly and then gets me to plan something. This causes me to think it was my idea. The truth is, we are good for each other, he forces me to interact with the world when I wouldn't otherwise do it, and I cause him to think before he acts on some crazy idea. This usually works out for the best because we both need our behaviors shaken up a little. And as an INTJ, you know I am always right..

Thats great! I’m an introvert/extrovert so I tend to prefer being with an introvert. Extroverts are just too much for me!

I guess I'll be single forever. 😢

Great info for the most part! However, speaking personally for myself, I'll say that I do NOT need or want to socialize with anyone other than my sweetheart EVER, and I do NOT need or want her to get me to "grow" in terms of being more sociable (although I would be fine with her challenging me to grow in OTHER ways NOT related to socializing)! Also, I need to point out that there's not just one scale of introversion, there are SIX (per the ocean personality test) -- and personally, I need my sweetheart to have similarly low scores on gregariousness, excitement-seeking and cheerfulness to the ones I have (my score on cheerfulness is only 6 out of 20, and on the other two only 4 out of 20), but I would be OK with someone who has a different score from me on friendliness, assertiveness and/or activity level!

Erik Thor said ur an INFP

I’m an introvert, at least to a large extent. This is bang on!

As a introvert this 1000% true for me

I’m an introvert but I’m definitely not sensitive that actually bothers me

I need a partner who just leaves me alone.

I’m just like that, if I don’t get my space I give them attitude and I feel like I’m being suffocated. I guess it’s why I’m single more than a relationship.

You beautiful shut in 😂 that made me lol

Woo nice👍

I cant even count how many girlfriends I have in my "mind life"
I am 16 and introvert and never had a girlfriend and havent talked with girls much in my 16 years... But that doesnt mean I dont have any crush... Its just hard for me to talk to anyone and like impossible to talk to a girl especially in school and when I've never talked to her... And then I just overthink for no reason. "Does she like me? We have never talked or anything but I feel like she is giving me some signs" but like seriously I always feel like I see some signs and that gets me excited for no reason

Leave the house? What do you mean 'leave the house'?! Outside? With nature? And people?!

There are two kinds of people in the world. Avoid both of them.

how big an idiot was i....i was doing everything u ask us not to...i am so sorry babyyy

In short, we introverts are cats. Deal with it or dont, but don't bother us

Why do introverts need to "get out of their comfort zone"??!! You get out of your comfort zone! Leave me alone!

As an introvert, I can handle about 1 date outside the house once a month LOL. Other than that, Netflix and chill or cuddle and read a book in silence are the perfect at home dates. Romantic, candle lit dinner in a dark, quiet corner is a great outside the house date, but so is a walk around the mall where the other person holds the whole conversation and I can just nod my head and they can let the background noise be the noise they need as an extrovert... So far I have only found 1 friend that can except me this way... and he's not interested in dating. LOL

I much prefer being single.

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This whole video reminded me of my cat😂😂😂

The introvert I like is so sweet she loves when I touch her and take her hand while we're talking. I look forward to many days and nights just holding her close to me.

But Introvert Introvert perfect match ❤❤❤

The first time I feel special because I am an introvert after feeling like a stranger in my surroundings
Thank God :')

I feel this so much.

that space I'm craving for so long🥺

I know this seems funny and silly but he is seriously onto something and the information in my opinion is very accurate
I hope some people will learn from this video and take it into consideration everyone has different needs and just because you may not understand introverts easily does not mean their experience isn't valid

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Same I love my independence and that clingy is such a turn off

So true!😂

All we need is an understanding person that won't change us and won't gossip or understand that we need recharging alone time

A social event once every three months.... if that! Is our preference 😊

My aspect of fun as an introvert with my partner would be a night in watching Netflix or a nice walk or a nice private dinner or just playing some card games uno a fun one. I don’t need to be dragged to parties or places with lots of people I don’t know. The worst is being dragged to a party and being left alone in a room with 50 some people and not knowing anyone of them.

… also trying to get a word in among people that think they know it all… nah rather be silent

yeah just leave me alone, thx

I'm luckly enough to find a fellow introvert partner. Wonderful relationship

Its true I'm sensitive I think I'm introvert too

Finding partner for introvert is as easy as climbing mountain for the blind 😄

It's weird when people are like you're really quiet. And you're like yeah I am quiet😂

I used to live with this very very extroverted lady. It was a long long 8 years. At the end she was like I'm moving to Colorado and I said send a post card.

My alone time is for EVERYONE"S safety., and I need a divorce. Shallow conversations. ugh.....

This is very informative.. I was shocked when I knew my husband is introvert. He want some space 😢

Hey there! Loved your video on "7 Things Introverts Need in a Partner." As an introvert myself, I totally agree with everything you mentioned. It's crucial to find someone who understands our need for alone time, respects our boundaries, and values deep conversations over small talk. Great job breaking it down! Can't wait for more awesome content like this. Keep rocking!

As an Introvert, If I really get comfortable and close with them I'm the most talkative person in the world😂🤣❤.

I hate sometimes being an introvert but sometimes i love it, sometimes i want to be very sociable and less sensitive to thongs and people,but i need to appreciate and accept myself for who i am ❤