The problem with dating as an Asian woman

As a Blk woman I can relate. The only difference is that Asian men want ownership of Asian women and actually want to date them. A lot of Blk men want to own and control Blk women then are repulsed by them at the same time. Makes no sense!

Real slave mentality, Africans lets not be like them.

Three quarters of all interracial couples in the US are unions of WM and Asian women.

These two Asian women are not that attractive like 5 at best

As an asian American male, I believe most asian men get upset at asian women dating outside their race has more so to do with them & their inner projection of insecurity. Asian males on average have a much more difficult time being able to date outside their race, let alone inside their own race. But that's not to say sometimes our asian sisters put us down in the process of dating others due to how society portrays asian men or how little aasian men receive recognition.

However, I understand both perspectives. I have two younger sisters, as I'm older, I don't typically find myself physically attracted to asian women bc they remind me that they're my sisters haha

I personally don't have any difficulty dating outside my race, & nothing against my beautiful asian sisters but much prefer dating outside my race.

Not only but from a biological perspective, we're most often attracted to those who are "different" bc we instinctively desire procreation, why it matters is bc difference creates stronger offspring

The last handful of women I've dated were turkish, Armenian & saudi... I personally find this region most physically appealing

internalized racism :)

My sisters from another mothers, there will always be cultural expectations of dating your own race, that's uniform with just about every race and culture. Particularly for white and Asian dynamic in predominantly western society, the main issue is you're dealing with internalized racism. Your environment can very well shape you to inadvertently value white above Asians because they are the majority and the primordial model by exposure (i.e. you'll see more white leads in movies than Asian leads) and that's just how the dice rolls if you were born in western soil, less so if you're an immigrant. Whenever you experienced/felt like "you don't like being Asian"—that's internalized racism. Anecdotally speaking every Asian-American in my friend group shared this reference point, while the immigrant group (myself included) do not. I believe this influence can indirectly affect how you see attraction in many ways.

I believe most of us Asian men are not here to victimize WMAF couples who are in a healthy relationship, nor we're gatekeeping your romance/love life if you do seek love as interracial. We're just not down with the numbers of Asian women who are parading white men above Asian men, and the optics WMAF couple gives is bad because of that very reason. And this is all a byproduct of (you guessed it) years of internalized racism. So I check my biases, if you're happy be happy. But please do us a favor and don't discredit Asian men for who they are. We don't need calls coming from inside of the house.

Btw this type of pushback transpires in any interracial space; Asian men and white woman, black men and white women, so on and so forth

The host seems more honest then the guest. She has dated both asian men and white men, and she found her white husband to be attractive and they ended up together for probably not just pure physical attraction reasons. No big deal.
The guest is a bit dishonest, as she uses some cultural excuse of asian men have asian families and she doesn't want to deal with that, as an excuse for why she dates white men, which have nothing to do with each other. Cause their are more then just east asian and white races in the US. Just say you prefer white men and find them attractive, its okay, everyone has preferences on physical, height, looks, etc. Nobody likes being gaslighted.

when white women date blk men,it's all cool and accepted but when someone dates a white man, oh hell naw...

These are the women that destroy society.