How to be the Most Confident in the Room

question 6 : find something that you like, but for that, you gotta get out opf comfort zone, try new things, meet new people that will introduce you to anything and then just dig it ... atm my goals are having a great garden ! and sparing to get a boat in 2-3 years to get 2-3 years sailing around the world ... i mean i have some money to do what i wanna do so maybe it's the 1st step ? doing money to increase you capacity of doing whatever you want, i mean i was totally against this ideology when i was younger but the money is not the point ofc : on the way you get skills and interests, so you can be better at your goals when you wait with that goal in mind ...

Mark why the fuck your every video make sense.

- not related success but failure

- you will fail. maybe this shit is pointless. sacrifice is worthwhile.
slowly confident

- don't attach emotions



- when I wake up
girl nice at least she was attracted.
she wants 1, 2, 3
be cold tho


- jack of all trades?
cross reference helps sports, etc

- what if I'm wrong


- podcast
1. sense of doubt when talking
2. in person
sense of unconfidence


- goals create meaning (whats the worthwhile thing?")
nothing matters anyways
1. sense of growth
2. other people sense of growth
3. what is worth sacrificing for
there is no right answer
BEING JATT

Someone who taught me a lot about the nature of confidence is mike Tyson. His ideas are very similar to what you mention here

Watched it the 3rd time now, your videos are pure golden advice for (young) people out there, thank you so much!!!

I’m not going understating but this guy is kinda saving my life

Step 1: be a rich, handsome movie star

I always had generalized anxiety, but, a few years ago I finally gave into my stubborn pride, and asked my doctor for help with it. The doc suggested medication, and started the process of finding the right medication to help me balance anxious feelings with my life. We found it, and it has helped me tune down the anxious voices that were screaming in my mind constantly. It was a drastic change, actually. I essentially gave up on trying to be "normal" - great, right?
Not at first.

At first, with my blatant and often overpowering alarm system turned, quite suddenly down by 80%.. I ended up learning just how much I relied on those alarm neurons to keep me out of various forms of trouble!

video importee dans ma tete

Be the best at something, know how and why you are the best.

It just hit me, this dude is so obsessed with FUCCKKK this, and all that 😅😅

❤

I disagree on saying that there's nothing inherently wrong with feeling anxious. Sure you shouldn't beat yourself up but its more than just an emotion, its something that stops you from living the life you were meant to as your are shut down and stifled, physically and mentally. It's often people that have never experienced anxiety that have this kind of blaise attitude to it not realising the fundamental effect on life quality it has

Mark, you are a cool dude man. You seem like someone in control of his feelings and life. And if you can do it, I can do it and that gives me confidence. Keep it going and I'm going to lay back and watch your hilarious videos and laugh on things I took more seriously in the past than I should have taken. Cheers

I question myself all the time, I think it comes from self esteem/insecurity, but I feel like the older I get the more ok I am with being wrong

I'd like to touch on that part of you said everything you do is less wrong or wrong what if you was right and everyone thinks that your answer is right?

I am glad thay i know you

Thank you my brother

Hi Mark Ive watched about 10 or 60 of you're fucking videos. I thought I knew but I now know if I knew I wouldn't know. This is your fault Mark. I have finally hit the fucking subscribe button because I think I know: I love your videos and the manner in which you present them. I honestly do. I also enjoy Jordan Pererson. Thank you so much. I'm Frank from South Africa. Be blessed and be safe.

It’s not easy in the least; if you’ve dealt with some negative experiences in the past that left a psychological scar, you don’t merely want sacrifice yourself for something meaningful or forgive yourself for failing, you have a strong desire to compensate for something that has been lacking.

It’s this feeling of gut-wrenching emptiness that’s resulted from a persistent internal battle — which in some cases led to a mood disorder, like depression — that deprives one of natural confidence or makes ‘normal’ social interaction nearly impossible.

Also in less severe cases of social insecurity, it can still be f*cking hard to use a mindset to overcome, well, your default state of mind around others. You can so easily fall back into old rusty thought patterns or emotions, but the thing is, sometimes you just have to keep pushing. Push yourself into saying or doing something to step over that initial barrier. Or if you have a really bad feeling about a gathering altogether, you may not be in very good company and want to leave. And sometimes it can be valuable to be a little decisive in that too; there are so many mindless chatterboxes who can honestly drain the hell out of you. So try to surround yourself with as much nice people as you can, which sounds so simple but holds true. Never blame yourself too quickly for feeling uncomfortable

Bro your answers are relatable 💯 you are awesome ❤❤

Probably the best video I have seen related to life and philosophy 🔥🔥

Thank you for the message. The message about be confident about failure is huge for me

Thank you for the great video. Getting comfortable with failure and comfortable with the idea of everything will be okay. The sun rises and sets no mater what you do.....

I dont know what to write so i am writing "anything"

Confidence is related to your relationship with failure. Confidence is understanding that you're not going to be perfect and great every second of every day. It is being comfortable with failure.

Emotions are not the problem but the narrative we attach to the emotions become the problem. Embrace every feeling for just what it is without giving it too much meaning.

Confidence comes from experience. Build confidence in one area but also related areas.

Goals create meaning.

On the meaning discussion - and for the people who cannot find any meaning. I find Anna Lembke's advice pretty good; Look around in your environment, understand where you're needed, apply yourself there. You'll find meaning.

Bi-winningggggggg!!!!

Define confidence first. When you know some people will always dislike you after curing cancer, then you’re condifent

I didn't know that u r the author of the subtle art of not giving a freck

Most meaningful in my life? I make things. It doesn't matter what it is. I learn about the thing, watch a bunch of videos, read a lot of stuff, and give it a shot for myself. I learned somewhere in my early 40s that I don't build a thing or learn a song, or whatever it is, to admire it when it's finished. I do it because I have to be making shit to be happy. Not the destination, the journey. Not exactly deep wisdom, lot's of people say shit like 'life is not a destination, it's a journey'. Those people are right. It just took me about 42 years to discover what the hell they were talking about.

To sum it up: get over yourself

What about Mohammed Ali and his famous saying "I'm the greatest!" Was he compensating for something?

1 year old i know, bit dudes literally repeating one example four times over haha

Sounds weee bit like being a budhist monk.

birşeyin herşeyini , herseyin bir şeyini bilin.
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Mahk you tuhd! I like whatcha do. Thanks bruv.

Top swimmers would break their legs (stress fractures) if they were to run much.

"What if I'm wrong?" I'm pretty sure he's projecting on that one, and it makes sense from his self-confidence--but that's most of what he's selling. In my case, I'm always sure I'm not right, but the question is "Why do I think the other guy might be even more wrong?" Or actually the big question for me has always been "How can I become less confused?" Sadly, it seems the more I learn about anything, the more questions need to be answered... So I often wind up feeling more confused--until I compare notes with some greater fool, and there are LOTS of them around, especially on the Web.

If you’re not doing a damn thing because of your “why bother “ attitude, then I don’t want your advice, I don’t want your suggestions and I certainly don’t want a relationship with you.

Cocaine. Period.
Disclaimer: it will ruin your life in every thinkable way

Sacrifice dat A$$.

Confidence is knowing you're the ugliest man on Earth, and still not giving a fuck.