How to trigger a man's hero instinct

Its a masculine energy in everyone, so not mens based.

Im bisexual and i will not care about a woman, if she dont catches my protection and hero instinct. So a lot of feminists who act like they dont need you, will unconsciously pull you away.

You also dont need to be unnaturally in your yin, when you are born with more yang naturally. You only need to seek a balance.

You know speak like you only attract a "real" men in his masculine presence when you push yourself to be very yin and thats a misbelief. You must be authentic and a lot of yin yoga lovers and podest behavior of the yin deeply forget, that they NEED the yang in themself rather than seeking it externally. They push it away to not come in contact with it.
Yes if you went to masculine and pushing emotions and vulnerability away, you can open up for yin, BUT dont think, that you have to be yin totally to finding love.


Energy will always attract and everyone is energetically different. If you are more yang, you need more yin in a man.
If a men is more yin and feely, then he attracts more yang in a woman. Simple wisdom

How did you do this when your a single Mum with 3 kids though ? It’s so difficult 😣 Every day is a task and a challenge to not become the masculine role clearly not present enough in my kids life and to top it off. The state officials, the external pressures of bringing up your kids, finding work that fits around them. Juggling this and that puts you in masculine energy. I’m fully aware of it and I try to get my feminine back. Men clearly see this energy in me because all they do is look at me, they might smile and that’s it !! Exchange and receiving over. Maybe they think she looks like she’s fine on her own and coping but believe me. This situation was not what I truly wanted but it was necessary for my soul to become single. The government don’t appreciate Mothers. They want you to turn Mothers in to men. Make them productive and valuable in society. Make you leave your kids for someone else to look after them so you can become even more tired, vulnerable, washed out, stressed !! I wonder how it is possible to be walking around in my sensual feminine energy with this stigma on my back ?

Sometimes we also don’t want to be masculine.. but the fact that you have been providing for yourself for a long time , you are your own counselor .. it becomes even hard to tell your man what you’re going through, it feels hard to ask for help. Sometimes also men need to make us feel comfortable around them so that we are open to them

Thank you! This is just what I needed to hear today. I am in the midst of a very difficult relationship and just started to think possible strategies but it somehow felt wrong. And I now understand why.

Excellent! Thank you! A friend sent me the Hero Instinct video. I just watched it. Then looked for something else. Amazing, I came across your video. Spot on. Exactly what dr.Gray talks about

You didn't tell us how so why post this?

It’s wonderful to come across your site how interesting I love what you said about staying in your feminine energy. I think that’s brilliant. I will look forward to looking into your site and having a wonderful time exploring on your thoughts on Dating and Men…. and especially remaining in my feminine energy, which is so important for me because I am Greek!

I’d like to add if you let him “wear the pants” and fill that hero role you will notice your relationship take a turn for the better I promise that if you take the feminine role and compliment him often and make it known you appreciate the things he does and be his cheerleader and sidekick he will give you the world and will go out of his way for you if you do those things metaphorically speaking he will fight the battles if you will mend him when it’s over (he will be the soldier if you be the medic) I always think of a relationship as hero and sidekick like Batman and robin and people say they need to be equal and criticize me but Batman wouldn’t be Batman without robin. People think the sidekick is not as important when that’s not true at all the sidekick makes the hero a hero and without the robin batman is just Bruce Wayne. What I’m saying is be the sidekick, (who is as important) let him fight the battles with you right behind him giving him what he needs to fight and win if you do that you have him at your service to do any and everything for you. I promise it will work if you find that your relationship is not what you want. Do these things and watch things change in an instant

As a man I agree with this 100% my ex was so masculine with her energy and then would yell and scream at me for not being the “hero” and it’s because she wouldn’t let me all my girlfriends before were very feminine and they were the best years and relationships I have had. They let me be the hero and it made me feel amazing and love them deeply. Tbh I still think about them (2 out of the 4 long relationships I have had) those 2 are the ones I still think about years and years later and I still dream about them and honestly I still love them. The other 2 I hardly ever think about because the relationship was missing things so ladies if you want a man to love you honestly forever be feminine and let him be in charge.

how can i get into my feminine energy?

How could I find a man who doesn't mind a woman with higher masculine energy unless I just need to wait to find a man who accept a my natural masculine energy...

Thank you so much. ❤❤❤

good for you for pointing out that we should not have an agenda, because ultimately that’s selfish and it’s not good for anybody involved.

🤫 Victory secret Bitch!!

Like hell.Not gonna blow smoke up anyone's butt. Got to be enough for yourself before you can be enough for anyone else. So please don't be something you r not just to get a man to do what he should be man enough to do in the first place it gets exhausting and it's never ending. It just suggests a fragile ego and sounds too manipulative.

Now I know how to know if a girl is a fake one.

This is all the answer I needed. Thank you.

Thank you Naomie!😍

I’d never heard the term “hero instinct” before. I’m familiar with the basic concept, but decided to look it up in case I was missing something. I’m so glad that your video was the first one that popped up! It solidified what I already knew in my heart, that my man really is my hero. he’d be able to see right through any silly strategy to make him anything other than what he is. I consider myself a strong woman, but I don’t have to keep my defenses up with him. I can be soft and vulnerable. Hs will always be my hero, and i let him know it every chance I get! 🥰

Omg women that was amazing... thanks so much for this xxx

Great video

God bless you! This has absolutely helped

Thank you

Wow as someone who not only loves strategic thinking, but also uses that to make a living that really spoke to me! :)

As thinking back to my last successful dates with men or women I definitely didn’t have any agenda and was just enjoying wearing a skirt and having a fun playful time over drinks.

I especially liked how you mentioned same sex as well! :)

Im so glad i saw this beautiful woman! Great advice 🫶🏻

Im very féminine women. At the moment I am wanting to create a new career and attract a masciline partner. How do I focus on making my career happen in my feminie?

Thank you, really!

Its so hard to be in my feminine q my husband, he is literally allergic to feelings and emotions, coming from me, himself and everyone else.

Ladies, if he wanted to he would. There is no secret, men are actually extremely simple, if your the one you will know it. I will say it takes them alot longer than us to settle down. If you REALLY love a man, & are willing to waste two years that's how long it takes alot of men to get their shit together. Those men that are great and do everything right from day 1 are far and few.

Every man i was with fell head over heels for me and i didn't even know why i was thinking ok i understand i am good looking but it had to be something more than that and that's it because i'm so feminine i am strong woman but appealing soft gentle i want my man to protect me i have a slightly childish personality and that's it i want to be protected i am good at showing my appreciation for them i thank them i give compliments.. i make them feel like a heroes by just being myself. Thank you for clearing this out

Ty so much

Wow, this was helpful! Thank you!

Excellent advise. Thx so much, I get it!!!

Best answer ever!!!

Wow another bs video I love it 😂😂

Funny thing feminism... Some of you girls begin to understand that it ruins everything for you, because it alienates you from your female nature. These days it seems that (at least in some countries) women must relearn how to be women, and men how to be men.
Yes, gender roles... which are not culturally arbitrary like they sell it to you, but are natural. If you ignore nature because of some fallacious political ideology, nature didn't disappear because of being ignored, and it will return the favor by ignoring what you want and need until you return to your real nature.

You are 100%.

This is great advice. Especially the part about being less strategic and more genuine.

Now I know, I'm a demon. Fuck being a hero.

Great video!

Thank you so so so so much

I believe that's where a lot of us "thinkers" mess up, we feel the femininity when we're with men and enjoy it but when we're not sure where the relationship is going we start to overthink then once he leaves we're stuck wanting that femininity to return but it left when he left

I would feel like I'm depending on him to much..

This is exactly right. It's not complicated. I'd be drawn to you and you're diffently not my age of attraction, but you're right. I am drawn to very feminine... Period. Hence why I been single so long.
Please don't take that offense; but I have been called a bitch my whole life from men because I don't sleep around. I settle for non of the best. Ladies there's is dudes out there don't give up... Good things come to those that wait.
Liked and subbed.

I was extremely stressed from a situation I’m in right now but this calmed me and made me feel grounded thank you.

This is spot on! I always knew there was something off with this whole manipulating men into giving us what we need, I hate playing these games. Thank You, great message!

i like you so much! you explain everything so well and in-depth. I have seen videos on feminine coaches where I get confused. Pls do more :D

It goes back to my love language...I get it..thanks!

I agree so well with you 👍

Interesting. Thank you very much.