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It didn't work my mom told me I was adopted.
Ответитьi cried throughout the whole vid, istg
ОтветитьI had no friends or a girlfriend for a while but this video made me feel grateful
ОтветитьI've pretty much given on the idea of Love.
I see it all around me, but it never came my way.
A few times I felt I could get close to someone, only to have them tear me to pieces.
Thank you so much for putting this video up I have been so much abused lately I thought it was my fault for him losing feelings thank you for sharing this I know now that it’s not and I should take self love for appreciate then I have been I love your videos by the way ❤❤❤❤😊
Ответитьjust i want pu$$y
ОтветитьI’ve always been super insecure and shy but sometimes I really don’t see a reason why anybody would like me, im honestly shocked I even have any friends 🥲 Some days it’s just really hard and I feel so hopeless, I wish I could be literally any body else but myself. Im not as pretty as all the other girls at my school and I hate myself for it. I still try my best to be kind and considerate of others but no one ever seems to do the same for me. I’m really trying my best but I feel like everybody hates me. I wish I knew what I was doing wrong, i just want to be happy with myself
ОтветитьNo one cares if I live or die
ОтветитьI am ugly :( no one will ever like or appreciate meand thats a fact
ОтветитьNice lies but they are lies, while I could have been considered lovable it never was for anything more than a close friendship at best never further unless I was doing my own thing and that makes me feel upset incredibly because imagine how it feels to fail everytime you actually try giving your best effort only to do better when you don't actually try with the only effort being to position yourself as best you can? To never be goven an opportunity to practice for the times any effort is required because your brain or mind shuts up and goes blank when the best moments to ask for a date arrives being a small window of opportunity you freeze up in everytime... the first few times you resolve to practice in your head or lightly through the mechanism of magical thinking associate such in your mind as an obligation to fill to yourself and them when you know they enjoy your company.... imagine never being able to ask.
Imagine that finally you are getting somewhere again and getting through things you are friends and then suddenly something that you wondered if it was anxiety highlighting it turns out to be real and so you have three angles upset with you, your intelligence that tried to bring it to your attention, your intrusive thoughts begin overpowering you and then you make the mistake of sending them asking for help because having ADHD you're unsure how much you can relax on the anxiety levels to keep the symptoms of that in check so you don't say something without thinking that you really shouldn't but it could lead to a negative shift in luck or just be all in your head with just being something you imagined drawing upon being brought to church and told the devil is real and so is God but you are protected from the devil by God as long as you obey, add on being discouraged from exploring or expressing emotions with gwnuine vulnerability for years and still trying your best to do so anyway with those you trust believing they exist and so you find them. Just imagine how chaotic it is and how much you have to wonder is true or just a baseless fantastical calculation your brain and you both either willingly but forgot or made in error at some point which resurfaces.
Imagine being technically skilled but mot being given the Job because you're not social enough to pass through the interview because it's not about objective skill or potential it's about how you get that person to feel and what perception you are able to gove them, humans are primarily emotional creatures who when goven lots pf information the braon defaults to operate on emotions so if you impressed but overwhelmed the interviewer you'll be on theor mental list of candidates to consider but likely passed up for someone else unless they're one of those which follows a list of hidden requirements to check off before hiring, which you're possibly still not going to get the job due to having adhd and not really fitting into the box so neatly. So you can't land a job anywhere near what you're passionate about, you can't get a date despite desiring one and the best you can do is make others happy by being a very good friend or person to others.
Your best efforts always being when you hold back unless it's a joke being told or people similar to you that also has to hold back or hope that barely giving any percentage of energy is consistent enough to succeed despite wanting to gove more as you have more to gove but you know most people are uncomfortable with that so you don't. Life on easy mode when you are the one who has to keep telling yourself to "hold back" when people tell othwrs to give it their all because you know what happens if you do so, you excel in academics, gaming, or other areas except for when people are involved. You can throw together essays last minute with minimal grammatical or spelling errors, you don't carve out time for yourself to anticipate the struggle with boredom or focus and want to communicate without being guilt tripped for not telling others who made plans without asking you about if you had anything coming up first or having done so and the trip is considered more important than an opportunity for you to further develop a relationship or bond into something you had been hoping for about... fourteen to sixteen years of living.
Don't mind if women don't care about me,saved me money and stress.
ОтветитьThough these videos are nice and helpful I doubt I'll truly be lovable.
ОтветитьI’m 48 and no man ever chooses me. I’ll die alone.
ОтветитьNo one 😢
ОтветитьMy love is gone anyway so oh well.
ОтветитьI’m a mistake in life. I’m absolutely convinced I’m not lovable.
ОтветитьThe problem for me is that no one actually likes me. What do I do when I know that for a fact?
ОтветитьI feel unlovable because ai am a good guy. And for 10 years, every woman has rejected me. I have tried absolutely everything. And not one woman has any interest. I am not their type, They just don't find me attractive, and in a couple cases, was informed their friends wouldn't find me attractive either.
This is my last day or night. I can not do this anymore.
What is love baby don't hurt me baby don't hurt me no more.
Ответитьi know I am wonderful and worthy ......it is just NO ONE else thinks that
Ответитьi love myself just fine.....just no one loves me at all .....I am not loved by anyone on this earth...it is true....I have no people in my life.....
ОтветитьAm I deserving of love as a man? It feels logical to say yes, but in today’s society and my generation (22M) I feel like the answer would be no.
ОтветитьEven after watching this video I still don't feel lovable :(
ОтветитьThis channel has gotten me through dark times. Much love
ОтветитьThank you.
Ответитьno
ОтветитьIt's my impression that, in all my relationships and flings so far, no one has ever loved me (because of me). They only focus on certain aspects of me they may benefit from. That's why I'm feeling unlovable and lonely...
ОтветитьTry as I might, I just have so very little motivation to live anymore. No energy and no hope. Too many years of painful experiences and failures. Sleep provides a brief respite.
ОтветитьNo,no one dose
ОтветитьThank you so much i feel better right now ❤
ОтветитьEven with a significant other I am completely alone. My mom died this past year and when I was lonely I could call her. I don't have really any close friends to do something with. My bf makes plans with other people a lot so I am alone a lot. My job brings me pain mentally. I don't have anyone to talk to when I need someone. I feel so bad about myself.
ОтветитьMy father made another family, my mother doesn't want anything to do with me. The army turned its back on me, my relationships often ended with them finding a better man.
Recently I began to grow emotions for someone and I thought they felt something for me as well until.. Well.. They got another man...
I am worthless and my reflection is shattered, the broken glass just keeps cutting me on every step, all I can see is everything I hate and everything everyone hates. I don't know, I don't want to live nor I will keep living anymore.
I'm not for just n e body and eveybody
ОтветитьHas anyone ever been in a relationship but don’t feel loved by your partner? Feel free to lmk your thoughts❤
ОтветитьWow, 'no matter what your brain tries to tell you'. I haven't considered that one. It would be helpful to know more about how that works
ОтветитьI feel like people are just being polite. It doesn't help that some people who im 'friends' with act like they hate me but I can't just leave them cause when there good im realy happy. I also don't feel like I have became a bad person. I used to be so kind.
ОтветитьI’m sorry for anybody going through things I love you I’m so sorry
ОтветитьFinna kill myself
ОтветитьI love u, and i love this channel
ОтветитьI was at my friend's party last night and when I saw him just casually talking to everybody in my head I was like, he probably has someone that says "Good morning" to them or ask if they already ate. it's just very sad because even from my mom I never get these kinds of questions before. it's just very hard...
ОтветитьGreat video. ;)
ОтветитьThank you
ОтветитьI keep getting rejected and idk if I’ll ever get with a girl I’m so unlovable
ОтветитьIf I come back more than once to hear this, Is there something wrong with me?
Ответить....I just wish my person loves me like how I love him....
Ответитьborn ugly alone 4 life
ОтветитьThank you
ОтветитьAll of this is untrue
ОтветитьWonderful 👍
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