5 Reasons To Set Healthy Boundaries with Toxic People

I learned late in life that “no” is a complete sentence.

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If you don’t set boundaries, you don’t respect yourself,
This is because you’re shutting out the true emotions you want to say. If they don’t disrespect your boundaries, they benefited from you when you didn’t have any.

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This video is highly recommend for students transiting from high school to collage or university. I was betrayed by my roommates who first promised to cooperate with me in house chores like cleaning the dishes and rooms also splitting money for groceries and shopping items, few months into this commitment turned downgrading for me as I used to take up some of their work to less burden them during my free time, they took this advantage to excel in achieving various things. As my mid-terms were approaching, I lagged behind in some topics included in my course term and I humbly requested them to take up some of my work and soon enough everyone rejected me. I couldn't blame them but this came as a lesson to me, I ended up failing my math course which I had to retake during my summer break

I grew up ⬆️ being a pretty pleaser because my mother manipulated me too do and be the way she thought 💭 I should be and to do things for her selfish needed without giving me a choice. When I became a young adult I started saying no and putting my foot down. And she labels me difficult and manipulate other people not to like me either. 🤷🏽‍♀️ judt awful

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Love your body
Boundaries is bad

Boundaries is stupid it makes us hate our body

Her: I know you have boundaries, but...
Me: Well, don't push them.

I needed to hear this. thank you. :)

I completely agree and thank you

Been talking to my therapist about boundaries.

Practically very apt to establish boundaries to safeguard our mental and emotional health.

There is a type of person that likes to provoke you by pushing your boundaries. Avoid those people.

I think if you give plenty of examples rather than talking about the theory, it will be more beneficial to the audiences. Thanks.

Now I say NO! To anyone from the past, no matter WHO!!! Don’t cross the line!

Pretty good advice. The word "awry" is pronounced uh-r-eye (a-wry).

It's really hard to set boundaries with my cousins .. Sometimes they are so mean and hurt me with their words .. I really wanna avoid them but they always come to my home or we meet at family functions or family trips you know i am so frustrated and i don't like to hurt them back .. I am so happy wid my friends than with my cousins ..I may sound immature but dealing with toxic relatives is really tough

If you want to be respected tell me. If I am wrong tell me. I am fed up. My mental health is plummeting. If I am a bully tell me. I have already forgiven some of you people. I also forgot what you people did.

How's this? Telling my annoyed boss, who questioned and underestimated my ability to take on a shift by myself, that my family always taught me to be self-confident with my abilities.

i just saw a random video about boundaries and realized i don’t even know what they are- so i’m trying to learn so i can make other feel comfortable and also keep myself safe 😅

Can someone please explain to me what "setting boundaries" are ? Are they like giving someone a set of rules to follow around you or what ?

I feel sorry, for the people in my life because I never understood boundaries, because i never had them I always wanted to help people even over my own health and when people set boundaries I didn’t understand i felt like I wasn’t enough, so this idea really helps

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Haha I read the thumbnail as “you deserve to be treated poorly” 🥲

Sometimes I freeze when someone shocks me with their statement and it makes it hard to set boundaries in that moment. I hate that I don't realize until later that I should've have set boundaries sooner.

Now I realize that I don't respect other people's boundaries because I don't have my own boundaries and I don't understand how important boundaries are. This is one of the reasons why I've let friends disrespect me. But I've also been extremely afraid of letting go of toxic friendships because I don't know how to make friends. I don't have many hobbies that other people share with me so I can't relate to people. And if I do make a good friend, they leave me because I don't respect their boundaries and thus the cycle repeats. The solution is to get more hobbies so I can make different friends and make sure to mention my boundaries at the beginning of the relationship. If they keep overstepping my boundaries, I can cut them off and find someone else.

Just now came across this video
I too have struggled ..
This video was super helpful thank you 😊

My pitiful brother tracks and spies on me and others. We hope he respects his boss's and boss's wife personal boundaries since he lives in their house.

next time you cross limit of friendship .. Ignore you

I’m living with my dad and my step mom grandma is always tryna force me to eat or take pills when I got sick telling me is gonna fix it or sometimes she’s inconsiderate that I be sleeping and blasting out music

I feel as if in case I say "no" to people, especially from my family, I'll lose people. It feels "unethical" for me to say no to people, especially to my parents. Even after I summon the courage to say "no" sometimes, I feel a huge burden of guilt. In those moments, I feel as if I am not a good daughter or sister or whatever. I feel a constant urge to be "right and kind" to my people, even if it means sabotaging my own needs. I feel as if it is my responsibility to save people from drowning. Maybe I can say No to some people, but just not after constant requests from the other side.

I hate human beings

God's mistake is to create this disgusting dirty creatures humans beings

The worst creatures o have ever seen in my life is human beings

For the past 38 years I am living around toxic psychopath human beings around me..they want to destroy my life in all sense.

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Amazing video thank you for the content :)

Ahhhhhh..... I truly desire the whole twisted asshole douchebag species to vanish from earth...... that would be ideal. Even if it means I go away too

Boundaries are important to keep your relationship healthy and to function effectively.

If you want strong and healthy relationship boundaries, you need to use these ideas:

✅ Communication
✅ Follow through with Set Consequences
✅ Respect, Trust and Support
✅ Knowing Yourselves

🙋‍♀ My advice is to establish serious boundaries when you notice things like being disrespected, feeling hurt, or being taken advantage of.

This is amazing and uplifting content!

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There is such a thing as being too nice. Put your needs first. If you don't speak up for what you want and establish your boundaries, you will begin to accumulate resentment. Know your worth! From my childhood to adolescence, I couldn't say no. Although I treated my classmates kindly, they eventually started to ask too much of me, and they came to me for favors in class or at lunch. I started to resent the students I showed kindness to, and I found myself craving validation from my classmates. They went from asking me if they could borrow pencils from me, to asking me if they could copy off my homework. They also made me buy things for them. Don't be so nice that people start to take advantage of your niceness and use your good nature against you.

I noticed that some people encourage WOMEN of different nationalities to get into conflicts with each other lol. And these women listen and do crazy.

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I’m trying to learn boundaries as an adult because I feel like everything I say is wrong in some way. I never had the structure of healthy boundaries as a kid.

I spent years not understanding the concept of boundaries. Thank you, and I understand personal space that's not just physical but emotional

Thank you I’m gonna show someone this I’ve had a hard time maki f this point to.