If You're In Your 40s And Still Single Watch This

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WOW 37 was your time limit for getting serious in love!!!!! My goodness, mine was 25.5 and in my calculations that was the absolute maximum you can stretch the infantilism without harming your future....

Men who date women in their 40's are sexually interested in the woman's nephews and nieces. Such pedophiles keep an eye open for the young relatives of the woman. So single women in their 40's must stay single forever.

I’ve never been married and don’t have children and I don’t want to be. I’m not interested in taking chances at 44. Honestly I don’t even care that it didn’t happen.

Middle age and never before been married? Time to reflect back on those Miami trips during your prime. The wall comes undefeated ladies- party’s over 😂

I got engaged after dating 3 months. My husband and I knew we wanted to be the right person for each other. Got married at 37. Now I have a toddler and my husband And I are still crazy for each other.

I learnt entering a relationship with someone with the intent to change them is beyond stupid. It’s not proof of your attractiveness or your value, you’re just setting yourself up for failure.
You don’t buy a car and then spend thousands to change it into a completely different model, you just go and buy the model you wanted outright.

I am 48 now, and wish to remarry a woman more older than me

What is your point? That women can be delusional? And sorry to say but if any man says this after just meeting you: he’s crazy.

Only virgin woman are for mariaje well i am 25 and from east descendents but i live in west .

Shut up you dating bad boys before! Dont give us advised GFYS!

I’m 36. I want a husband and children before I’m too old. It’s so hard.

I'm 43 and I feel like it's too late to be in a relationship. That I've lost my chance at finding someone to settle down with. I'm too old, too broken.

I'll come back to this in 15 years

Dating in your 40s when comes to me personally, it's stressful, not fun and feel that under a interview for position. I rather fight three crackheads every day at than go a date with women. I least l can how a crackhead thinks.

I am 41 years old i have never had a girlfriend or a date with a women

Lmao old losers justifying themselve While my mother made me and sister and getting a tons of love from my father. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

It has been four years. Have you left and stolen your child from your husband yet?

I m scared to death to b single again... 15 years of marriage in which I m 101% involved n attached.
I dnt hv career (could not do bcoz of visa limitations), no money/no saving (he didnt do saving for me even for $1), no kids, no family, no friends...I considered n invested all my life n feelings in him, in our marriage n he filed divorce saying I m not gud wife, not gud enough even as a human being n not ready to give $1 for my maintainance.
I m having medical issues n going to hv major eye surgery. Before that i had to cancle my laser eye surgery coz there is no1 to come with me to the hospital n no1 to pay for medical bills.

I m 41, lost my mom 21 years back. Dad n elder sis (married n distant) do not keep in touch with me at all. Even i go to meet, in 1 day dad says tht thats 'his house n he decides whom can come n stay in his home n i m not allowed there.

I dnt find ANY reason to look forward to in my life... very very tired n very much exhausted!

P.S. me n hubby tried counsellibg as well. He just not ready to accept me n not allowing me to stay in same house with him n his parents.

So it takes women until their infertile 40's until they realise 'the list' was unattainable?

From a man's point of view there's to much risk of losing it all in divorce and paying alimony. You can be loyal she can cheat and still screw you for life. Most girls today just sleep around to clubbing, these girls ain't worth the risk. Stay single men

🫶never lose hope, though i feel as if i could .. gotta keep positive energy 🖤

The reason a lot of women on 40 s and single it’s they have to o high expectations from a man at the age yu need to compromise more and see the human being im not saying that take any useless user manipulating guy just be patient and be peaceful to them they hate drama and arguing for little things

I'm 42 and have never been married, I have two older kids and can't have anymore. The only common denominator in the few long term relationships is me. I'm starting to feel like it's me. Now I have been truly single for four years now

Bull shit

If she is in her mid 30s or older, she is too damaged and broken to be a wife. A man wants a woman who he can build a life with and be the mother of his children. At 35, she is high risk for pregnancy, which means she was supposed to have had children already. Why should I invest in a woman at this stage when I know she has prioritized other things besides relationships?For a lot of these women her career was the number one thing so I hope she enjoys the consequences that go with that career. As the old saying goes, she made her bed so now she has to lie in it.

I think it's good to try other race.....may almighty heavenly father God open eyes of someone here.

Its 27 not 37

Isn't it A BIT of a red flag that she said that he was dating 5 other women while also dating her? So he already had 6 women around his finger by that point.

In today's world i think it is much more difficult to find someone. Even in your 30s it's difficult. Too many people are obsessed with looks and material things. I'm 51, single and i don't care anymore if i never find a guy to marry. I'm set in my ways now and i know i will die alone. I don't chase men anymore and if no man wants me then that's fine by me.

Stay single, men will only break your heart. If you're 33 or older you are probably on a rotation with a lot of other women. But he keeps telling you how beautiful you are. Maybe if he is buying you expensive gifts, he could be serious. But if he isn't then dump him if you're on the 6th date and he hasn't gotten you anything worthwhile. My girlfriend is 38, wanted this guy to commit, but after a seven year on-and-off relationship he told her that things just didn't feel right. What? She gave him her prime years and now she sees his face on dating apps. What a creep. She had plenty of other decent guys she could have picked from during the time she was with him too.

Im 45, and have no kids. Life is great, i have my cats and plants and i can do whatever i want. Drink wine and lay in at the weekend. I put all my free hours into my job and can afford 2 holidays a year and a nice car and all the subscriptions i want. People say, what about when youre old and alone? Ill get more cats and tend to my garden. Lifes great isnt it?

I'm happily single and a virgin. I'm more than fine; I'm free. I lived for others all my life. Its my turn now.

I’m 42 single no children all guys who come up to me have been married once and has kids .Not dealing with that unless my own ( no children) and never married . Nope , single it is even if it means not sharing life with someone least get peace and cheer on the stupid bears 🐻 lol ( sigh)

Who paid for that dinner?

Yeah, OK, but I'm a guy making 6 figures in my 40s.
WTF is wrong with me?
It just seems like circle talk.

There's nothing more miserable than single 35+ year olds in comment sections splannin

Shutup

I'm only 25, i may not have a place to share my thoughts about this but i think if you're 35 and up, still single no kids and living the dream. I think maybe you got used to it and you're loving it, or you're scared over something. Either way it's your life, you get it and i'm happy for you. But if one day a man approches you and you felt safe, try giving him a chance. There's always a king for the queen. Stop doing all the list of guy thing, it might be the reason why he didn't show up cos he tried and you thought he was too short or not rich. Some parts of our lives we deserve to have a prize, but unfortunately you pushed him away. My girlfriend didn't want to date, she never wanted a man in her life but i went in slowly, became friends and got to where we are now, and it's getting stronger everyday, and we have 11 years age gap, i didn't care. I know it's crazy losing all my opportunities for her but i couldn't ask for more. Everything felt perfect and we're keeping it this way...

I had the same epiphany earlier today, to just allow him yo walk into my life, no more specifics, I'll know when his the right man for me...

you look 70 years old!

basically, lower your expectations

I dont believe this at all. I have my lists for a reason. Meeting a guy thats off my lists do not work at all, i never like them.

I'm 54 and my wife and I are VERY worried about our future, gas and food prices rising daily. We have had our savings dwindle with the cost of living into the stratosphere, and we are finding it impossible to replace them. We can get by, but can't seem to get ahead. My condolences to anyone retiring in this crisis, 30 years nonstop just for a crooked system to take all you worked for.

atleast ill die alone no worries

Well, if he were with 5 women simultaneously, he will probably do it again after marriage. Morals is smth a man must have either he is 20 or 40 or whatever

Keep chasing chad til your 40 then realize damn I spent my 20’ & 30’s partying and sleeping around now I want a marriage. Lol sorry don’t want your baggage you’ve acquired the last 2 decades. Plus no guy wants to wife up a girl who’s been ran threw. Enjoy single life ladies. You heard her she needs a guy that’s 6’4 with a 6 pack that makes 6 figures or more. Does she not realize that caliber of man looks at her the way she looks at average men!!! Delusional for sure

Ok love u