How Long Does It Take A Guy To Fall In Love?

I have to say, this is not true.

Well for me it was love at at first sight. And that’s the first time I’ve experienced this.

Men fall in love at first sight usually

I would disagree with you on that just because a guy who takes his time to fall in love is unsure and that will only cause problems for the girl in the long run

I had three relationships that started really quickly (after three weeks to 2 months of dating) and they never lasted. MInd you, they were toxic to begin with. I find this advice to be better than falling in love quickly where after the dopamine phase runs out, the relationship gets boring.
Heck, relationships require getting outta the comfort zone.

Is 6 years too long? 😂

So real!

If a man doesn't fall for you quickly he most likely will never fall for you at all. Women end up alone because they waste time chasing after guys that don't love them and never will. You should date men that fall for you quickly. Just don't sleep with him or do anything like that until he has been dating you for some time to make sure he is serious.

And if you're personally changes then expect his feelings toward you to change also.

Absolutely.

While I can’t say this guy was actually in love with me, I felt comforted by the fact that, before he started seeing me in this new light, he actually knew me pretty darn well, for a few years. There was little left to infatuation and imagination about not just how I look, but how I think and see things. When someone is merely infatuated with you, I gather that you are still a 2D object to them. But, when they get to know you and manage to come to admire or even love you, they see you in 3D and have already accepted those things, good or bad.

Not really. My parents met on the day of their marriage and they have been happily married for 30 years

I think this guy is secretly a woman😂😂😂

That's why they fall out of love quickly

My bf says that he loves me but we’ve only been dating for a month and have only known each other for a few months. I sometimes get confused on whether he really loves me or not. When we both meet each other, we both instantly clicked. We FaceTime everyday for about 9 hours and hangout every weekend. He tells me how much he misses me all the time. I feel like I sorta love him tho after he told me deep secrets about him that no one knows, and I’ve helped him through tough situations like death, suicide, and divorce. Even tho it’s been a month, we have still gone through some tough times with each other.

Like always, you are the BEST!!

Brilliant :D Thank you.

If he falls in love with people too quickly, he’d fall for someone else just as quickly so don’t get too excited girls.

Absolutely right !

I was abandoned by my first husband.
My second husband was mentally an old man upstairs.
My third husband kept telling me "you can talk to me about anything
Then when I needed to TALK to him, he would say to me, "can you not see I'm busy"
So that's why I'm single today.

Patients is a virtue of life.

You’re so sensible

i agree with you...

I mean you can't always blame the guy (like everyone always does).

Yes, but after seven months of dating, one would expect the feeling to grow, right? My boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't feel he had fallen for me, and we've been dating for seven months. It's quite some time, and given that I am very in love and emotionally invested in this relationship, we had to part ways :( very sad :(

He told me he loves me after a month of a LDR.
I took 2 more months to say it back to him .
I was surprised about how fast he said so. He it just that type of a man . He married after 7 months of dating . His marriage lasted a year . I am very careful and won’t rush, he can’t rush me . I am older than him. If I have time so should he.

Not a Capricorn

Thumbs up for getting right to the point so quickly.

If u fall inlove fast it won’t work period the relationship will fail

there is a difference between falling in love and dating and its huge difference

I know I don't want a man to fall in love quickly. To me that's lust. 🌸🌸💙

What if I've known the girl for many years nd never in my life could imagine loving her but as we've both grown I have taken notice to the changes she's made nd I'm suddenly seeing her in a way I never have before.. What would you say about that..??

so its over i ruined it

i just dont like the hot and cold mixed signals

Falling in love with anybody(55) you don't know that, it might not be a need.

thanks

I honestly agree and disagree.. I agree because I do feel like a person shouldnt fall in love with someone they barley know but at the same time I disagree because I feel as though you can't put a time frame on real love..when it happens it happens

I fell in love many times before and all of these times were that I wasn't in a relationship even.

YES, BECAUSE IF HE IS IN LOVE WITH YOU VERY QUICKLY, HE WOULD FALL IN LOVE WITH ANY GIRL WHO PASS BY HIM

Great advice. I think you are right.

Why would a guy ask you if you are falling in love with him...

You have such amazing advice! New subscriber! This is so nice that you take your time to give advice for us girls. :) I appreciate the wisdom greatly.

Haha so apparently I'm special? This guy that likes me falls in love immediately with every girl he dates and he always gets dumped in the end and goes looking for another girl. And he seems to be very talkative with all other girls, but when he talks to me or I talk to him, I can tell he is nervous and he gets so shy around me. So if I wasn't special to him, he would have asked me out immediately? It's been 4 months since he started showing interest in me and he hasn't done or said anything that would sound like he's going to ask me out and he flirts with me one day and ignores me the next, but still always stares at me. I must make him really nervous. :)

now I understand