Mom Rage: Why Am I So Angry?

I’m not a mom , never will be, I’m 40 and unmarried, it just wasn’t in the cards , however I watched every single one of your videos, your amazing. Thank you for your work in the life.

I've been feeling this way for a while but was told I just need to relax..

When you said that "If I was nodding along yes I feel this way, I just want to wrap my arms around you and give you a hug" I immediately burst into tears, I have been feeling so angry and overwhelmed. I needed this video today, thank you! ❤️

Sobbing listening to the unmet needs you listed. Thank you for the hug.

This and the one you posted right after this has been such an incredible message to me. I was raised to think anger and crying are bad so I am learning to feel all the feels and not in a way that effect my child.

I cried through this whole video. I’m just so overwhelmed and alone

Great video!

I feel heard thank you

My advice to new mom is always use grandparents so you can get a break ( me time) and date night. Also I tell them it's okay to want to be away from your child.

OMG Im crying listening to this! I went on full mom rage last night for no obvious reason. Thank you for putting this together. I’m going to dig deeper and meet my needs.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I definitely needed this video I’m so angry and I feel so guilt like my son deserves so much better then me. I feel so unworthy and tired. I feel like a bad mom. Thank you for this video. This is my first and only child.

Hey. Guys. Hey. Michi. Am. Mad. At. Mom. I. Need. Some. Help.

Strong and independent?
Yeah right😅

Husband here.. I cant' even suggest my wife to calm down or consider not shouting to our kid (I do this politely and considering her feelings)... she just gets triggered and tells me that I don't understand that I won't last one hour with the kid and that I shouldn't tell her that she is a bad mother (even if those word didn't came out of me).. I really know that she is overwhelmed and that she is doing her best.. but it's like she thinks it's therapeutical to shout, that she is just being herself and that I'm restricting her free speech... she doesn't want to spend money or time on therapy.. she doesn't even accepts a spa day for her as she things I can't handle the kid on my own.. how to approach her in the best way to make he realize that this is a self destructing behaviour.. or am I wrong and I should just let her be??

Thank you for the video. I am a single mother living in a different country than my own. I definitely have not enough help and support and I’ve struggled with anger and rage and I feel terrible every time 😢

❤😢

I recently heard that 'anger is energy to solve a problem' and that really made sense.

My husband is a dismissive avoidant. Enough said.

I need a break so bad that I actually feel sick but no one to help.

It’s awful. It’s like signing up to be tortured daily. Then you get the painful guilt when they go to bed. 42 yo male. 3 kids under 5. I’m desperate. Wife is great but she already does a lot. I can hardly stand being alone with them. It’s overwhelming. I get rage when they don’t listen. I wish I was better equipped.

My Mom was caring and patient with my cousins but was a completely raging Mom at home. My cousins loved her and still do to this day. I wish the cool, caring aunt she was to my cousins would have been the cool, caring Mom to us. Instead, we got the raging adult child who put us on edge regularly. She would always say I will count to three...one, two. I was afraid of her, and as a young adult, she enmeshed me and made me want to get away from her even more. To this day, I can't stand anyone yelling in my own house.