HOW TO STOP BEING MANIPULATED BY WOMEN

Drizzle drizzle😂 at this point, we don't need you anymore, we're fine. PLA 😎

I can add another reason for being accepting of this type of behaviour.

Being bullied and rejected by female peers outside of family, to then getting the smallest amount of female attention has powerful effects. For me it created an element of toxic confidence, which lead me to seek out and grasp hold of whatever female attention, and validation I could get after not having it at all.

When I was 18, my second girlfriend was very beautiful, but extremely controlling. I was in shock that someone this beautiful would even look at me, and that meant staying in a relationship which was unhealthy without realising for 6 years.

I believe that experience had profound detrimental effects on me as I self sabotaged the following relationship after 3 years (I think out of fear or guilt). During the time with this girl I was also looking outside of the relationship for more and more female validation while also not wanting to let go of the relationship.

This even continued into my following relationship before I got to the point where I needed to talk to someone about my behaviours, to unravel how and why these came about.

Grateful to say that the last woman who endured this behaviour from me, stuck beside me during my journey to fix these internal problems and is now my wife. That goes without saying that it did cause some trust issues from her side understandably, but after riding that roller-coaster with her, I feel like we can get through anything together. I will say that sometimes she uses that as ammunition in arguments, but I have grown to know when to be assertive if she take it too far.

A little off topic, but I hope someone can get value from it.

If she goes out alone....has technology, basically she is looking for attention....Now depends how she is dressed, make up on shes in an open relationship, no make up then she might be loyal but if it is reoccurring grocery shopping without you then it is a matter of time. If she goes with kids then she most likely is faithful but if she goes with make up then watch out...if you let her go alone.

Avoid these skeezas

How to know when she’s lying?? It’s very simple. Whenever she opens her mouth.

That first line took me out lol Women never lie lol I know wayy to many that do and proud out it at that. Wil brag on how they keep getting away with stuff.

lips are moving

When they open their mouth

Very very true. 850% true

I always laugh at women who seem to not know the difference between high value and high maintenance. Wearing $1100 wardrobe, needing $300 nails, $500 hair and $800 beauty products so you can look smokin' hot doesn't make you high value. It makes you high maintenance. And btw Sadia, women lie all the time, it just depends with whom they are doing it as to how much they care about not getting get caught which determines the level she must exert.

It doesn't necessarily need to be beauty as the power, and low self esteem as the reason for few boundaries. In my case, it was her need for significance that drove her efforts to appear special, unique, idealistic and an exception to the rule in almost every sense. I was curious how her approach to life worked, because it was so unconventional, but seemed to work very well for her. I didn't have many boundaries because I had a "Why not" attitude. She would state her preferences and if I could fit them in between my needs, then I'd have the attitude of "why not". This still ended up disastrous, because it's still the same dynamic, but for different reasons. It's still a narcissist pairing with someone with few boundaries.

FATHERS ARE MORE IMPORTANT. BUT YOU HAVE RIGHT IT STARTS FROM THE FAMILY

THATS NOT ALWAYS TRUE. IF A WOMAN UNDERSTANDS THAT HER PARTNER HAS LOW SELFESTIM SHE WILL SEND HIM HOME

So what your saying is women aint shit ...lol

Show red flags? No its called being deceptive period

Makes perfect sense miss where were you 20 yrs ago and. 4ex wife's darn it

The Trajedy of Macbeth???
COULDN'T SAY NO TO A WOMAN!

To answer the title... your talking to a woman... that is how you know.

All that rage you have at women you should be directing toward the economic establishment that is crushing you underfoot.

This is one Biggest Bushido coming out of her mouth!😂

who cares? the juice simply isnt worth the squeeze.

She's talking

What this lady is suggesting is the next. Man shall be such irresponsible towards the marriage that he must break it on first manifestation of disrespect by his woman. Quite strange recommendation.

Respectful to respectful. You don't call her out. Remove your self and leave. Unacceptable ways.

Visited my girlfriend and slept over at her place. 5AM she woke me up and urged me to leave so neighbours won't know i spent the night there. So ridiculous, i smiled and took my leave. This red flag, i would say, i interpreted it in a thousand ways. Never visited her ever again, and never called her. We don't chat no more, but every month she pays me a couple of visits, where we flatter each other and have our adult play. She's a perfect wife for a day with all attitudes on point, likewise, am a perfect husband for a day. It's been so for 3 months now. Clearly, she knows, i know, we both know we are just doing outro. What i find strange though is that she's much nicer in words and behaviour than before.

Awesome information thank you👌🏽

I usually like this woman but here. The whole speech is pure garbage.

Problem I have is I’m a pretty tolerant guy, who has grown up with many narcissistic women. I’m tolerant but I can’t exert boundaries easily without getting upset. Well let’s say angry. Then I find that they like anger and dominance and then they listen and the cycle repeats. I have huh self esteem but people please.

She’s 100% right. As someone who had a history of choosing the wrong people and having endured narcissistic abuse from one of them, it wasn’t them that was the problem it was me. Not to excuse bad behavior but I allowed it, I saw the signs and ignored it, etc.
it’s natural to just blame the other person and not look at yourself but you have to if you don’t want to repeat the cycle. Looking at yourself and admitting things about yourself that led to these failed or abusive relationships, can be as painful if not more than the hurt felt from the relationships I get it. But if you play the victim you’ll be the victim

The best advice and video I’ve ever seen. I watched it 20 or more times to memorise it. It describes the whole demise of marriage in my life. She picked early on that my mother was abusive and that’s all she needed.

Be free by yourself

If she is talking she is lying 🤥

I’m dealing with this past week and yesterday I appreciate it to stand up and infuse great self respect. I have been watching your videos and I have found a fuel source I needed to make a breakthrough in my life at 42. Best regards!! I am open minded to navigate with a current toxic partner that I now don’t trust and cope and arm myself with confidence I need to stand my ground and expect to heal myself for over 8 years of wasted time it’s so stomache wrenching at the thought how far evil has grown being together for so long that the disrespect is out of control like getting out the car and being yelled at and people in the parking lot looking at me so humiliating and I just built callouses and powered through until i recently said enough

She is 💯, women never lie, we men lie to ourselves 😂

she wasnt worth it

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There are 2 types of lie, EVERY Psychologist knows this!!!! A lie of ADMISSION and a lie of OMISSION. So, YES!!! They all lie. Just like the lie you are telling now .... which is a Lie of Omission.

How can you tell? She's speaking.

Only an expert liar(He/She) can say if He/She is lying 😂

Ok, but why do women mainipulate in this case? Why do they lie at all when they themselves expect honesty? Why this kind of behavior? After all, it's wrong and it's plain hypocrisy. Maybe it's better to stop doing it altogether? Peace.

Never is already a lie.

Saying you’re the only guy I’m interested in and while cheating on me isn’t lying?

Non applicable

A game of deception, only the quickest wins.

Yo crazy never begged or bought love but everything else your pretty spot on.. I'll casual for a while and every few years find something I want to invest in and they always cross bounties like their only one who can set them

You just made me to respect brains in beautiful women tnx

Women lie.