Don`t do this when dating Chinese women

I have spent a lot of time in China and I will say this is spot on. If you meet a Chinese woman that is the opposite of what is said in this video.......run away fast 🤣🤣🤣

Thsnk you for the advice ,im off to Japan now 😂

And this is the reason of blind obedience to traditional Chinese medicine values of overavoidance can you see billions of Chinese in the world unable to even send a team of eleven people in the football world cup

I am a Chinese myself from traditional Chinese family. I know what does traditional Chinese medicine values teach. Chinese are very good in indoor things like gymnastics, table tennis, badminton, basketball, and studying maths, I myself am a NUS maths graduate

We don't want our son to continue on in traditional Chinese medicine values

Please don't always say it's always one way the western world wants to impose their views on Chinese . Many times it is both ways

Thanks

I am a Chinese Singaporean and an A scorer for Chinese language in primary, secondary and college. I even win Chinese essay writing competition number one in 1995.

From young my love for Chinese language is so strong that it makes me lose focus on English. Then slowly , after years of being under Chinese teachers and Chinese people, my love for Chinese language has skyrocketed down.

I am straight A in Chinese scorer in PSLE, O and even won first in Chinese essay competition in 1995. But in 1996, I went to st Andrews junior college and this Chinese educated teacher despised my always sweaty uniforms and gave me D to F in Chinese essay writing tests and exercises and say my thinking is immature. JUST MONTHS AFTER I WON FIRST IN Western division Chinese essay writing competition. His name is Mr. PEH CHIN CHEOK

My mother did not believe him and changed class. Immediately my Chinese went back to A and I was even chosen by my econs teacher to represent in a team of four in National University of Singapore Economics essay writing competition 1998 and our team won 4th nationwide

From Singapore we went to an even more traditional Chinese Taiwan and sure enough, my wife and I were even reported to the police for making my son wear too little at 20 Celsius!!!!!

You can Google all over the internet, traditional Chinese from mainland china and Taiwan say "Singapore indoors is like morgues." Totally ridiculous.

What I am trying to say is I am just trying to live my life but traditional Asians SIMPLY WANT ME TO LIVE THEIR LIVES OF AVOIDING COLD, WIND and also expect my son to follow them forever! Or else we will always be seen as rebels, morons and brianless idiots.

I just say all this is when we come to western countries, I see parents bringing their kids in temperature below 10 Celsius and allowing their kids to engage in outdoor sports.

Who say only the western partner wants to change the mind of the Chinese woman??? Many times it is also the other way too

My french friend Farid in Taiwan also went against teachers and his wife for reminding him to wear jackets for his son at 23 Celsius!!!

I have to reveal all this. A person so deeply entrenched in traditional Chinese medicine values will certainly want the kids to follow on.

Is this possible to find a vegetarian girl for marriage there ?😅😅

Women are the same everywhere. After the initial attraction they are driven to get 3 things from the man. 1, wealth (money) 2, Status (prestige) 3, utilitarian value (what can he do for me).

I will make it easy for all guys, don.t date any woman, she will only take your time and money.. does not matter what culture.

Learned much from Chinese medicine!

Thinks for the information. It was very helpful.

don't go 50/50 "why they hell did you go out on a date when you cant pay for a meal"

then... "why the hell are you educated and have a job" just say home and have kids, and we can rent some shitty apartment with out single family income in this rotten modern economy/housing market.

Chinese women.. more like all Asain women need to update with the times. The value of human labor has been cut in half once women entered the labor force. Housing prices have gone through the roof. Commoners will never be property owners on a single income. You fought to leave the home and work, SO WORK AND PAY THE BILLS TOO!!!

This idea of a women being totally financially taken care of is for the elite women, not commoners(the vast majority of women)... Asian women need to leaver their deluded fantasy of being part of the emperors harem behind and start living in reality.

80% of prostitutes in west asian

I'm sure she would move faster if I was a Bonafide Chinese man with lots of money & connections?

Your English is good but do not say "ok" after every sentence please

Hee Hee

40 million more men than women in China, plenty of chance for women to find one there.

May Jesus Christ always be with us 🙏🙏

Hmmm. Don't move things too fast.?? Really. In dating/dealing with a middle aged chinese woman, who has had several relationships, this doesn't seem appropriate. A mature and somewhaat westernized woman who has several men orbiting her in the 'friendzone'. Such women already have current sexual partners, friends with benefits, and "Plan B" men in their lives. So I should treat her like a fresh, virginal 20 y/o??? Nope. You're advocating for the "make him wait for 90 days" routine? Go figure.

I would next date a Chinese girl there stuck in China getting them out is almost impossible

Just don't date Chinese women.😅

everything sounds like good common sense. The same rules of conduct were obviously uinversal back 60 years ago everywhere

As long as the man is rich he will be alright and be accepted 😊😊

I want to say something about the so called traditionalism and Chinese girls being conservative. Once a Chinese friend told me that Chinese women often just pretend to be very conservative where in reality they actually aren't. He said that he hates this game and that he is fed up with it. I have experienced a lot of things during these years in China and I really cannot say that Chinese girls are conservative tbh. On the contrary, they are quite open, especially if they like you. My ex gf for example had s.. with me on the second date. And she is not the only one. Maybe I was just lucky, idk. but I think I agree with what my Chinese friend told me. It's a secret that a lot of people don't know. Or maybe it's just that people in my side are more open.

I also hate ghosting! That's what my girlfriend always does when she is angry.

Who will date chinese girl from mainland China, is not clever at all !!! Comunism made them brainwashed. Better look on Taiwan, or chinese borned in USA.

Based on my experience, this is all rock-solid advice…sorry though I am to say it. I wish I had seen this years ago, because nearly all of this was learned the hard way. The last chunk of advice in here I would do anyway, but good to know.

Dated Chinese women several times...Learned and respected their culture and they were beautiful and fun...Was not interested in 50/50 ever, but their norm for the relationship being one sided (hers) always got in the way. They have a whoooooooole bunch of rules and expectations for which they only return fraction of it....This video sort of suggests it too...Jo is cute tho

It sounds as though women in the East are worse than women in the West: they want "equality" — but only where and when required. It is known as "having your cake and eating it".

My woman amd i are tied by the red string. ^-^

im french Canadian and i had so many issue with my chinese gf, about talking China government, the soup with head fishes, keep my shoes inside the house, ect. We are in Canada but she wants to live like in China and when im the only one canadian in the group i know they are talking about my way of living 😆

I will say I try to avoid dating Chinese women. Like 98% of the ones I have met or dated will go to ridiculous lengths to scam men and it seems okay because the ends justifies the means. It's textbook Chinese culture to do this and it makes dating these women incredibly difficult. I've just found it very tough to meet an asian women who loves me for me, and not because of the opportunities I make available to her. That and they cheat a lot too.

Most Chinese women in China don't know Alemannic or Japanese. So it's difficult for me to consider them.

I can summarize this. Do not be an asshole and be a gentleman. Simple

"OMG! Are you really gonna eat that shit! Bat testicles? Really?!"
"Hey babe. Why doesn't your grandma have any teeth? Just kidding!"

This video illustrates why I like Asian women. Just watch as many videos as this. And you will become familiar with that culture.

I'm actually hesitant to talk to any mainland girls because I support the KMT.

My Chinese wife, if we split the expenses, after a while, in her mind it becomes she is paying for everything (and I am paying “nothing” even if I keep up my half).

I noticed most Chinese ladies think a lot about money and material goods. Most of my male Chinese friends could never find a GF unless they owned a home and had a nice car. These were smart and decently handsome guys with good jobs. It was heartbreaking to see them get raked over the coals by the ladies😕

You are so beautiful

I love this woman's honesty. She is sharing nuggets about her culture.

wery good video . Thank you

But I am quick. I'm kind of a 10 second kind of guy, so it'll be very hard for me to date a Chinese lady. Oh well!

WOW. You are very well spoken and smart. You give really great advice. I just subscribed and hope you keep putting out such great content

Thanks for your tip. Now I know that I mustn't waste my time trying to date a Chinese woman. I don't like women who play hard to get and being prim and proper and leading a sacred life of holy chastity. I prefer open-minded straightforward women, with strong personality, and who don't care what other people might think.

I have been married to my Chinese wife for 17 years. I would say the two biggest crimes you can do in a relationship with a Chinese woman is to insult her family or culture. We have had ups and downs financially at the start and are in a great position now. As rough as some of those times were we stuck it out together. Yet I don’t care how good the time is…never insult the family or the county. Then it is game over.

I would love to know more about Chinese medicine.

Pretty much goes for any culture. These are are basic ways to weed out the women for the streets.

Lived in China for many years and had 8-year relationship with beautiful Chinese woman. I'd say most of this is accurate, but would like to say something about "respecting her culture." Just do it .... not only because it's a great culture, but it's the right way to behave. To a lesser extent with me, but I saw many western men throwing out heavy cultural disrespect to their gfs just to boost their own feelings of inadequacy and immature conceptions. The fact is, she will have a warmer heart, be smarter and infinitely more realistic than you so don't make a fool of yourself. Oh, yeah, you should have mentioned this: don't ever make a Chinese woman angry! The seething torrent of indignant outrage you get back will still be coming 9 years after you've broken up and it's just not worth it. Even when she's married to someone else ... whenever she's angry with him, you will get a flurry of irate messages or phone calls about some vague incident 20 yrs ago when you touched another girl's arm while talking.

Is this advice for divorced Chinese women, Are they more westernized.

Very nice explained and i am actually agree with everything, what you were explaining, the only thing for me is seriosity and marriage, not stupidities! But in regards of situation status, i have my equal expectations, into the overall status based and close age, only. 🙏