Storytime: I’m dealing with a stalker

Storytime: I’m dealing with a stalker

Shar Henley

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@sharhenley
@sharhenley - 12.04.2024 23:18

Please like, subscribe, and comment! I’d love to hear more stories from women who’ve dealt with situations like this.

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@schantel8461
@schantel8461 - 16.05.2024 14:39

Sounds to me that since you have been putting out videos to help women that some e is trying to frighten you into silence. Be careful. Get a good gun belt. Carry gun, pepper spray and a good sharp knife- visit your local Army surplus store for some supplies. Learn how to use these things and practice when at home and visit a gun range. Like my mom says crazy knows crazy. Sometimes you have to show crazy people you’re crazier than them. I have never had a problem ever since. 👍🏽🙏🏾🙃

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@cyrilmanse3133
@cyrilmanse3133 - 16.05.2024 03:49

Pretty great DA and police department they have in your area. This man is untouchable apparently, and living life like it’s GTA 😂

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@allthatgirlcoronado
@allthatgirlcoronado - 15.05.2024 21:58

it seems like no one understands, I’m being stalked at work, and it’s draining my life.

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@malshiluv2352
@malshiluv2352 - 12.05.2024 22:52

men don’t get that being an Incel won’t get you anywhere with a woman… 😂

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@patrick8023
@patrick8023 - 12.05.2024 20:00

i like your hairstyle

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@l_a_u_y8916
@l_a_u_y8916 - 12.05.2024 19:31

Well i mean instead of getting mad at regular men….why not get mad at the DAs since they’re the ones enforcing the laws? Whether they’re against assaultor a squatting? Maybe as a building write letters to ur DAs rather than posting on YT being unproductive

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@Twistedviolets
@Twistedviolets - 11.05.2024 23:27

I currently have a stalker, a random ass man! I work in a fragrance shop and he attached to me, he was recently arrested and bailed😶😶😶

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@embluvya
@embluvya - 11.05.2024 18:01

"Why don't women like me?! It's not fair!"

The guy:

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@embluvya
@embluvya - 11.05.2024 17:58

It's so sad that we have to wait for dangerous people like this to actually hurt a woman before they can be arrested. Everyone in the building knows this guy is off.

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@user-ub4hr3mr8i
@user-ub4hr3mr8i - 11.05.2024 16:02

Would love to stalk u 2.

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@itty.bittypretty2019
@itty.bittypretty2019 - 11.05.2024 10:24

A knife mase taser or gun I have all them lol 😂 I’m ready but this is scary

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@AntivenomOW
@AntivenomOW - 11.05.2024 04:36

I wish him good luck 👍

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@user-ly2cm6zk5l
@user-ly2cm6zk5l - 10.05.2024 02:10

How did this man get what i assume is a luxury apartment with that rap sheet??!

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@RadientLeeoo
@RadientLeeoo - 09.05.2024 18:26

Have a feeling he is in one of these groups that tell him not to give up and keep trying 😡💢

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@mooka4515
@mooka4515 - 08.05.2024 05:37

Sad to read some of the comments excusing this. He is a f*cking stalker.

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@miawills4402
@miawills4402 - 07.05.2024 14:17

The fact that he asked the girl's brother for her number 🤦🏾‍♀️

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@NoMind93
@NoMind93 - 07.05.2024 01:09

Wtf is wrong with some of you in these comments

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@catfish5272
@catfish5272 - 06.05.2024 02:22

If he had so many warrants and he was assaulting women, he would be arrested. I don’t believe this I think this is very exaggerated

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@gmodplayerxd6886
@gmodplayerxd6886 - 06.05.2024 00:54

Nah don't worry he's in the loner faction

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@AddBowIfGirl
@AddBowIfGirl - 05.05.2024 23:43

This story sounds fake.

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@KittykKatte
@KittykKatte - 05.05.2024 21:52

Make coffee at home

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@emeraldstrange
@emeraldstrange - 03.05.2024 17:27

Something that occured to me: might he have a camera watching the front door of your apartment, so he sees you leave to go get coffee? It seems really weird that he manages to get there every time just before you. Please be careful.

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@Simplelivingslowliving
@Simplelivingslowliving - 02.05.2024 22:24

This guy already got away with a few things. It’s a matter of time before he escalates this to homicide.

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@12myea
@12myea - 01.05.2024 20:51

thank you for sharing your story- stalking is one of my fears living in a big city as a young adult and when girls share their stalker experiences i feel less afraid oddly?

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@EveningShadeLori
@EveningShadeLori - 30.04.2024 21:04

Wow another stalker video that is so adorable 😂😂

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@IntrovertBri
@IntrovertBri - 30.04.2024 02:22

Move ?

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@kendall7117
@kendall7117 - 30.04.2024 01:53

i dont care unfortunately

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@Kenny-nu3co
@Kenny-nu3co - 29.04.2024 16:29

I have one patient like this. He told me he biked an hour to see me, and that I was so cute etc etc but he made me so uncomfortable so I told my boss and now whenever he comes in my boss with steamroll infront of me so I can leave the area and he will just deal with him. The shock on the patients face when my manager just slid infront of me and took over was priceless but I was genuinely scared

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@tourmii
@tourmii - 29.04.2024 09:40

wait how did people see his messages to them if they had him blocked?

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@roooddd
@roooddd - 28.04.2024 21:30

so scary. please take care!!!

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@Wolfhailstorm
@Wolfhailstorm - 28.04.2024 18:28

1. This guy is on another planet... wtf weird

2. Its so cute you have building events and most of you all get on so well and look out for each other

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@JamesBrown-hs6vg
@JamesBrown-hs6vg - 28.04.2024 17:10

I’m sure he’s not watching this video

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@laurenevers2536
@laurenevers2536 - 28.04.2024 14:31

But how is just getting him out of the building going to solve anything.

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@ForApricity
@ForApricity - 28.04.2024 03:24

OMG i watched your videos about this on TikTok 😢 so sorry youve dealt with this

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@AlishaConn
@AlishaConn - 27.04.2024 21:18

This guy is a creep for sure. The fact that he cannot comprehend that what he is doing is making people uncomfortable is a mental illness in itself. He needs immediate psychiatric help! Stay safe girl!

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@igcseclasses903
@igcseclasses903 - 27.04.2024 21:05

if u have a brother or a father or boyfriend or what ever u should tell him to stay with u until this dude gets out

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@Cherurei1109
@Cherurei1109 - 27.04.2024 19:21

Does he not have a job???

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@Rashi0220
@Rashi0220 - 27.04.2024 17:35

My ex stalked me for almost 7-8 years, thankfully I moved very early so it was mostly obsessive messages in later years..he did it until he got married actually.

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@bloodorangemoon
@bloodorangemoon - 27.04.2024 17:33

None of this surprised me, sadly. I was harassed by a total psycho upstairs neighbor and the building owners were completely unable to do anything about it. I wasn't the first, he had driven other women from the building. The best they could do was let me out of my lease early. Management took him to court, had me testify but not much came out of it. Cops did nothing either of course. They were finally able to get him out of the building later on a technicality but I'm sure he just moved on to harass his new neighbors wherever he moved. Scary guy....

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@sinpourmoi2765
@sinpourmoi2765 - 27.04.2024 11:45

The best thing you guys can do is hire a PI, figure out where he works and threaten his psycho ass about going to them.

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@antonialeitz9179
@antonialeitz9179 - 27.04.2024 05:19

I've had a quite a few stalkers. I've found the best way to deal with these guys is to be empathic and go on a couple of friend zone dates. They eventually move on.

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@marieri2654
@marieri2654 - 27.04.2024 04:08

Is the story real

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@trensitasfresitas
@trensitasfresitas - 26.04.2024 20:11

Jesus! Another stalker video???

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@starchildofthe90s7
@starchildofthe90s7 - 26.04.2024 19:48

These incels are out of control stay strapped ladies. They are actual menace.

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@starchildofthe90s7
@starchildofthe90s7 - 26.04.2024 19:39

A full blown menace

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@melissarundt5547
@melissarundt5547 - 26.04.2024 16:04

So making a 14 minute video about your stalker is the dumbest thing ever.

I hope the content is worth your life.

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@Aphr0d1tress
@Aphr0d1tress - 25.04.2024 15:08

I’m from the uk and I had a stalker too,
It started off during COVID 2021 and I can remember that I was wearing new purple boots from koi and this guy approached me while in a shop and said “I like your boots” at the time I thought nothing about it as I never had any bad interactions with people and I said thanks and also said that I like the rocker style since he asked and left it as that.

Then comes 2022 and I lost my younger sister to a stroke and we had to sort out a funeral etc, then I was at the same store as I last spoke to this guy and he randomly approached me saying “hey rocker chick” as if we were friends since childhood but weren’t. I was confused at first and then I remember that it was that guy who commented on my boots.

He then started saying he had a house and that he was doing up and didn’t know what to do with it and was asking me a complete stranger what he should do with this house. As if he was insinuating that I should move in with him sort of way.

He also kept asking for my number and social media and I kept saying no and told him he’s a complete stranger and that he was making me uncomfortable.

At this point he was acting strange and all of the sudden he says “ I was wandering what happened to you, you didn’t go your usual route to the big store and instead you went to some random funeral service place and was in there for hours with some random women” (aka my mother) he said that in an angry tone like how dare that I be with someone else and not him.

As soon as I heard him say all of that I was sick to my stomach, he also constantly reaching out to touch me and I kept backing away.
Luckily there was a camera that got a clear shot of his face and what he was doing.

As more people came in he left because he didn’t want people to see his actions.

I also went home I didn’t shout out for help or walk away at the time because I froze and I didn’t know what to do at the time, but in away I’m glad I heard him admit to stalking me as I probably wouldn’t of known to this day until something bad happened.

The next day I made a police report and the female officer that I had was completely useless and careless, she was smiling and giggling when I said that I gave him a fake name etc and I burst out crying and told the officer I bet you would only take this seriously if I ended up 💀 and she soon quickly changed her attitude towards the situation.

To this day I’m constantly looking at my surroundings to avoid him I doubt they did anything or even bothered looking into it as I didn’t have anything on recording and it was basically my words against his.

I now take taxis and carry farbgel and have a body camera to avoid being out in the open and to help put my mind at ease as I am also disabled due to medical conditions making it impossible for me to defend myself against this creep.

In the uk you don’t have anything sort of self defence items apart from what they call farbgel spray (a dye that stains the attacker to easily identify them) even though the police also apparently class that as a weapon 🙄 at this point there’s no place safe for women from men.

So stay safe ladies it’s a tough world out here, even the police don’t want to get involved unless it’s beneficial for them.

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