Dating & Relationships | Dan Ariely | Talks at Google

I've dropped many people due to them being more trouble than they're worth. So, his thing on cognitive dissonance makes no sense at all.

I wonder how bad the societal collapse and continuing reduction of marriage and children will become before people revert back to an arranged marriage type if system.

Another century at the current rate and Japan is going to evaporate. The US probably isn't far behind.

Women always want what they cant have. Its the mans job to delude her into thinking he is all that she wants.

Jordan Peterson should consider this in relation to the gender pay gap

This should be a ted talk . Great video .

It always amuses me how the academic researchers who study human sociosexual interaction end up coming to the same conclusions as the PUA community, albeit in a much slower, more roundabout way. Glad they are doing this research, although if you want to learn from the real experts in this field, you should check out teachers with serious experience doing this in real life, like Todd V or RSD!

What q? the animal q, If you could have any animal as a pet, what would you have and why? The why is what qualities they value in a mate.

He's wrong on the pay gap and equal income in a relationship.

Kharga pur

Thumbnail legit looks like a still from The Price is Right

why the fuck is everyone in the audience talkin as if they're on cocaine 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Like... the guy at about 40 mins and the asian gal at about 45 LITERALLY COULDN'T SPEAK ANY FASTER...

LOL, what a great glimpse into the mind of straight male engineers on dating and relationships. However, as someone who for 8 years has facilitated a Facebook group of over 700 women discussing relationships and sexuality, I can say that he has no idea what the majority of straight women are looking for in dating and relationships.

Even after all these years this talk is relevant

It is interesting to hear him talk about "playing hard to get," because in my reading, specifically on attachment theory, what playing hard to get gets you, is someone who doesn't want someone who is actually available. Playing hard to get, I've read, tends to attract people who have issues with emotional intimacy. Then too, there is such a thing as being too available - so there's a balance in there somewhere between not being too unavailable, and not too available.

Nice.
Learned something.

What you say is much wiser than those said in many videos with million clicks!

Such bad advice.

7 years later. Tinder killed realistic expectations in women completely.

I think we should leave dating and looking for mates as a natural process rather than getting into the science behind it. A badly gone date is also necessary to learn about different mates.

I was having lunch when he went into details about colonoscopy.

This guy is now divorced. Don't take Dating & Relationship advice from a guy who's divorced.

Sounds not particularly usefull, that. I mean okay apprently the type of ppl like me is usally lesbians (?) who hate the idea of dominace itself so maybe that's the point because we desire relationsips that are build on heavy empathis of companionship and equality as more foundational for love then anything so anyone who's not interrested deeply anyway falls out of optional partners pretty immidiatly. So

Can someone make a 500 word essay about this video pleaseeee🥺🤝🏻

Não casem rápido.

Não hackeiem o cérebro da sua futura namoradinha para ela te amar.
Não precisa. Tem asilamento no Brasil.
1981. Eu tô com um militar puto da vida que já repetiu mil vezes. Eu tive que fazer fotos pelada como sua mãe.
E Jesus.
E como o McAfee.
Só olhem.

É um golpe de Estado monárquico britânico.
Eu não estou pedindo muito. A NSA, o MI-6 e a Abin estão colaborando com o Mossad na fuga.
Fora a CIA e outros.
O Assange e os outros estão só pedindo atenção.
É um golpe de Estado.
Com um montão de nazistas.
Eu não aguento mais.

Niki lauda fez uma companhia aérea.
"You don't own me"

Yes he right so Though that has a lot to do with the woman's maturity as well what she might want is a young woman a middle aged woman and an older woman in a man.
My imagination is great but when I'm with the person it's always much better than I imagined always.

Where have I been besides here now

Great talk, one of my all-time favorites Dan and one of my new favorites, Amy!

Is there an experiment on how much efforts do I put in a relationship as compared to how much efforts does the partner put in...

5'9 have to earn more money 40,000 a year to compete 5'10.

I really like the day-to-day apartment lease analogy! What he said about playing hard to get kinda caught me off guard though, as I know from first-hand experience that it could turn your life into an emotional rollercoaster if you are a serial overthinker and/or have lower self-esteem.

כמה חשוב לסיים דייט בצורה חיובית?
כי דיברת על קולונוסקופי
אנשים מעדיפים חצי שעה לא נעימה עם 5 דקות של לא גרוע מאשר חצי שעה לא נעימה

תגרום לו לדמיין לעתיד

תבין מה אתה מוציא מהפגישה הזאת

אל תשאל שאלות סופר עמוקות בהתחלה או חוצות גבולות

למה לשחק אותה קשה להשגה עובד כל כך טוב

עד כמה רעיל לדעתך עידן הטינדר או עידן האונליפאנס בידיעה שפעם חלק מקבוצות הציידים שלנו היו פולימוריות בלי דמות אב וכו׳ כתוצאה מכך היינו פחות מחויבים

כשדברים קורים שהם רעים לנו אנחנו מאשימים את העולם
כשדברים טובים קורים לנו אנחנו מחמיאים לעצמנן

דייטים מאהבה לטווח האורך הם לא לרוב מסתדרים כמו מערכות יחסים שבאים בשידוך

האם לדעתך טינדר מוזיל את חווית הדייטים בעצם העובדה שאתה רק רואה את הפרופיל של הבן אדם לפי הפיזיות שלו

not a bad talk, shame this guy turned out to have committed academic fraud.

Utter bullshit. He's been proven to be a complete fraud.

good,i am reading this woman s book recently

Magnificent content; parallel to a book I deeply respect for its intelligence. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

Just goes to show how stupid the narcissists at Google really are that they couldnt figure out this academic fraud was scamming them with his research! Google employees are unethical fame chasing liars. He played into their dumb ideas of what geniuses are like while selling life coaching to lonely google execs…

This was perfect, so interesting, this man is an excellent speaker👏🏻